“Why does she have so many pain points… and why do they all seem to point to me?”
“Why am I trying so hard—and still feel like I’m always behind, always wrong, and never enough?”

In Part 1 of Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough, we step into the heavy emotional space many husbands find themselves in:

You’re doing more.
You’re listening better.
You’re showing up.
And somehow… she’s still hurting.

This episode digs into:

• Why emotional safety isn’t created by compliments or checking boxes

• The real reason your “support” may actually make her feel worse

• What happens when your need for affirmation overrides her need for healing

• How to stop rewriting the same painful chapter—and start building a new one

• Why you keep forgetting what matters (and how to fix that without shame)

• The role of identity statements in escaping old patterns and regaining spiritual traction

If you’ve ever wondered “What else am I supposed to do?”—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and tools to finally stop spinning in circles.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/triggers-vs-alarms/

Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ohQCiqAEzM&t=4s

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