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“Why does she get sad when I try to compliment her?”
“Why do I feel like I keep saying the wrong thing—even when I’m trying to be kind?”
In Part 2 of this brutally honest series, we explore one of the most frustrating disconnects in marriage repair:
👉 You’re trying to love her.
👉 You’re offering support, even praise.
👉 And somehow… it still backfires.
This episode reveals:
Why compliments that seem sweet to you may trigger pain in her
How objectification hides in even the most innocent words
Why your wife doesn’t want to be “pursued”—she wants to be known
What it actually means to speak your wife’s emotional language (and why it’s harder than you think)
The role of customized empathy in finally making her feel safe, seen, and valued
Why your honest intentions aren’t enough if you’re still stuck in old thought patterns
If your wife shuts down even when you're being “nice”… you’re probably missing a critical piece of her heart.
🎧 Tune in to learn how to move from confusion to connection—and how to stop accidentally hurting the person you love most.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-fourth-watch/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNlsM2a6rL8
Check out Life Changing Services: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/
By Maurice Harker4.4
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“Why does she get sad when I try to compliment her?”
“Why do I feel like I keep saying the wrong thing—even when I’m trying to be kind?”
In Part 2 of this brutally honest series, we explore one of the most frustrating disconnects in marriage repair:
👉 You’re trying to love her.
👉 You’re offering support, even praise.
👉 And somehow… it still backfires.
This episode reveals:
Why compliments that seem sweet to you may trigger pain in her
How objectification hides in even the most innocent words
Why your wife doesn’t want to be “pursued”—she wants to be known
What it actually means to speak your wife’s emotional language (and why it’s harder than you think)
The role of customized empathy in finally making her feel safe, seen, and valued
Why your honest intentions aren’t enough if you’re still stuck in old thought patterns
If your wife shuts down even when you're being “nice”… you’re probably missing a critical piece of her heart.
🎧 Tune in to learn how to move from confusion to connection—and how to stop accidentally hurting the person you love most.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-fourth-watch/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNlsM2a6rL8
Check out Life Changing Services: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

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