Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 2 – When “You Look Hot” Isn’t What She Needed


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“Why does she get sad when I try to compliment her?”
“Why do I feel like I keep saying the wrong thing—even when I’m trying to be kind?”

In Part 2 of this brutally honest series, we explore one of the most frustrating disconnects in marriage repair:

👉 You’re trying to love her.
👉 You’re offering support, even praise.
👉 And somehow… it still backfires.

This episode reveals:

  • Why compliments that seem sweet to you may trigger pain in her

  • How objectification hides in even the most innocent words

  • Why your wife doesn’t want to be “pursued”—she wants to be known

  • What it actually means to speak your wife’s emotional language (and why it’s harder than you think)

  • The role of customized empathy in finally making her feel safe, seen, and valued

  • Why your honest intentions aren’t enough if you’re still stuck in old thought patterns

If your wife shuts down even when you're being “nice”… you’re probably missing a critical piece of her heart.

🎧 Tune in to learn how to move from confusion to connection—and how to stop accidentally hurting the person you love most.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-fourth-watch/


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNlsM2a6rL8


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