Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 1 – When “Love” and “Support” Mean Different Things


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Why do we keep fighting about the same things—even when we both say we’re trying?
Why does she say I’m not supportive… when I know I am?

In Part 1 of this powerful new series, we break down one of the most frustrating patterns in marriage: recurring arguments over misunderstood definitions. Whether it’s about love, support, connection, or emotional safety—too many couples use the same words but mean totally different things.

This episode reveals:

  • Why your wife feels unsupported even when you're doing your best

  • How conflicting definitions of “love,” “support,” and “respect” cause emotional gridlock

  • What men can learn from measuring systems like inches and centimeters

  • How to lead the rebuilding process by standardizing communication

  • What real emotional recovery looks like (hint: it’s not just more sex or total celibacy)

  • Why confusion, not laziness, causes most husbands to shut down

If you’re ready to stop spinning in circles and start actually connecting, this is the conversation that unlocks the door.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/supportingresponding-to-spouse-husband/


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iefBWa0iybo&t=1s


Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

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