Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 2 – What We Both Get Wrong About Sex, Connection, and Intimacy


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“She says I’m not connecting—but I don’t even know what that means.”
“I do all the things. Why does she still feel unloved?”

If your marriage feels like a loop of frustration—especially around connection, sex, and emotional intimacy—this episode gets to the root of it.

In Part 2 of this honest series, we dismantle some of the biggest myths that keep couples stuck in unproductive arguments and unmet needs. From porn addiction recovery to misunderstandings about what emotional connection actually looks like, this episode is a roadmap for men trying to reconnect with their wives without losing their sanity.

You’ll learn:

  • Why “more sex” (or total celibacy) won’t fix porn addiction

  • How many men confuse service with intimacy—and why it isn’t enough

  • Why your wife may still feel unloved even if you're doing everything “right”

  • What real connection looks like and why it usually starts with giving, not receiving

  • The silent sabotage of seemingly harmless outside “connections” (yes, even friendly ones)

  • How to break the myth that it’s your wife’s job to validate your progress

This episode is about rebuilding from the inside—so you can finally start understanding why you keep having the same arguments and how to move forward.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/


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Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherBy Maurice Harker

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