Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 4 – When She Thinks I’m Lying, and I Honestly Don’t Remember


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“Why would you lie about something like this?”
“Of course you remember—you’re just trying to protect yourself again.”

If your wife has ever pressed you with hard questions about your past behaviors—especially around sexual thoughts or past fantasies—and your honest answer is, “I don’t remember,” this episode is for you.

In Part 4 of this breakthrough series, we unpack one of the most painful points of tension in many marriages: when your wife’s deep need for security crashes into your fractured memory and emotional compartmentalization.

In this episode:

  • Why men often genuinely forget what they’ve fantasized about—and why that feels like betrayal to her

  • How to stop being caught off guard by emotional landmines you didn’t see coming

  • What she really needs when she asks tough questions

  • Why her emotional outbursts are rooted in logic—not manipulation

  • How to prepare emotionally and spiritually for the “truth” conversations without freezing up

  • A new way to approach hard questions with clarity, calm, and integrity

This isn’t about rehearsing answers—it’s about becoming a man she can trust even when the answers are hard. If you’re tired of being accused of lying when you’re doing your best to be honest, you’ll find a lifeline in this episode.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/deals-a-formula-for-happiness/


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