A #Narcissist likes to shift blame and cry victim. Staying in a hurt state of mind allows their codependents and enablers to believe their BS. Even though it is the narcissist who's actually the one causing all of the pain. They'll never take accountability. They are empty creatures and want you to feel the same way. They don't understand being valued, respected and loved. It's very weird to them. They're more familiar and comfortable with hurt and drama. It's their safe space.