Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Does My Wife Have So Many Pain Points… and Want Me to Fix All of Them? Part 1 – I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage


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“Why does it feel like everything is still my fault—even when I’m doing better?”
“Why does she keep bringing up pain I didn’t even know I caused?”

Welcome to Part 1 of I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage, where we tackle the moment every husband reaches:
You’re trying. You’re sincere. You’re changing.
But somehow… it’s still not enough for her.

In this episode, we unpack the hidden pain points that wives carry—and why your progress can feel invisible or even infuriating to her if you don’t know how to handle it.

You’ll discover:

  • Why her long list of “problems” might be a signal of deep emotional wounds—not just complaints

  • The cultural damage of male echo chambers that normalize blaming women

  • How “fixing her pain” too quickly actually backfires

  • Why emotional intimacy requires feeling the “clutch and brake” like a manual car—not just logic

  • What silent husbands are learning in the back row… and why it might change everything

If you’re tired of feeling like the bad guy even when you’re trying to be the good guy—this episode will explain the real disconnect… and how to start bridging it.

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