Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Why Doesn’t He Get It? Why Does She Keep Pushing? The Battle of Understanding in Marriage


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Have you ever felt like no matter how much you explain, your spouse just doesn’t get it? Or maybe you’re the one feeling like nothing you do is ever good enough?

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we break down one of the biggest struggles in marriage—communication. It’s not just about talking; it’s about understanding.

✔️ Why she feels unsafe and why he feels incompetent—and how these emotional responses fuel conflict.
✔️ The Uber Test—when she finally stops explaining and just walks away.
✔️ Situational Empathy—why observation is more important than words.
✔️ Why words like “support” and “manipulation” cause constant misunderstandings.
✔️ Satan’s tactics in marriage—how he manipulates thoughts before the fight even begins.

When two people use the same words but mean completely different things, conflict is inevitable. But what if you could learn to translate each other’s languages instead of fighting over who’s “right”?

This episode is a deep dive into why you and your spous

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Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherBy Maurice Harker

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