Fundraising isn’t about perfection, it’s about connection.

In this episode of The Focused Fundraiser, host Rob Burke sits down with Amanda Clark-Wahl, founder of Cocktails and Caregivers, to talk about storytelling, donor relationships, and the fundraising habits that actually move the needle.

Amanda shares her personal journey into nonprofit leadership, why caregivers are often invisible, and how simple, authentic storytelling can outperform polished campaigns. They also dig into donor stewardship, thanking supporters, fundraising events, hiring your first employee, and why unpolished videos are often the most effective tool fundraisers have.

If you’re a nonprofit leader, fundraiser, or executive director looking to raise more while staying mission-focused, this episode is packed with practical, real-world insights.

👇 Topics covered:

• Storytelling vs statistics in fundraising

• Donor retention and stewardship

• Thank-you strategies that actually work

• Video fundraising without big budgets

• Hiring your first nonprofit employee

• Gala fundraising realities

• Staying focused on mission while growing

00:00 – Welcome to The Focused Fundraiser

00:27 – Amanda’s caregiver journey and nonprofit origin story

02:35 – Balancing full-time work and nonprofit leadership

03:46 – Why storytelling drives donor behavior

05:49 – Where nonprofits get storytelling wrong

07:10 – Emotional transparency in fundraising

08:35 – What nonprofit messaging should stay the same (and what should change)

11:08 – Non-negotiable fundraising activities

12:42 – Unpolished video thank-yous that work

14:53 – Hiring your first nonprofit employee

16:48 – Fundraising habits leaders must learn

18:45 – Tactical takeaway for fundraisers

19:26 – The power of saying thank you