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  • Why Tho? the Podcast: When people pleasing goes too far

    Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss what you can do to combat chronic and compulsive people pleasing, being a medical marvel, running and more. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!



    More:


    Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/

    Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup

    Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet !

    You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her !

    Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html



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    36 min
  • Why Tho? The Podcast is Lizzy Acker's advice column in audio form (Trailer)

    Why Tho? The Podcast goes behind the scenes of Lizzy Acker's advice column for The Oregonian/OregonLive. Listen each week as Lizzy and producer Destiny Johnson dig into reader questions and dilemmas. Look for the Why Tho? column every Tuesday, podcast every Thursday and a daily advice newsletter that also includes advice from Dear Abby, Ask Amy and others at oregonlive.com/newsletters. Find Lizzy's past advice columns at oregonlive.com/whytho.


    About Lizzy: Lizzy Acker is a reporter on the Life & Culture team and the author of the advice column, "Why Tho?" She covers everything from ice cream to Oregon's legal psilocybin program to car-less travel. She was born in Oregon and began her journalism career in high school as a writer for the Corvallis Gazette-Times' teen page, "Hardly Minor." Her book of short stories, "Monster Party," was published in 2010.  


    About Destiny: Destiny Johnson is a three-time Regional Murrow Award-winning social media producer at The Oregonian/OregonLive. She started her career in television journalism in her home state of Florida before moving to the Portland NBC affiliate station KGW. She has been at The Oregonian/OregonLive in 2022. She now focuses on nerd-centric and community-based stories. She earned her bachelor’s degree in journalism with a focus in photography from the University of Florida in 2016. She also thinks it’s weird to write about herself in third person but likes plants, crocheting and hanging out with her dog when she’s not doing the journalism thing.

    1 min
  • Why Tho? the Podcast: The exhausting consumerism of the holidays

    Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss gift giving, the consumerism around the holidays, secret Santa and license plates. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


    More:

    • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
    • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
    • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
    • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
    • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html

    • 33 min
    • Why Tho? the Podcast: Hosting a guest without going insane

      Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss how to be a good host without losing your marbles, heartburn, traveling abroad and deviled eggs. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


      More:

      • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
      • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
      • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
      • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
      • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html


      • 38 min
      • Why Tho? the Podcast: Dealing with family during the holidays

        Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss how to deal with some of your more irritating family members over the holidays, food safety, long books and tipping etiquette. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


        More:

        • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
        • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
        • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
        • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
        • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html
        • 41 min
        • Why Tho? the Podcast: Making the right choice in grief

          Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss how to know if you're making the right choice in grief, daylight saving time and boomer behavior. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


          More:

          • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
          • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
          • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
          • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
          • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html
          • 42 min
          • Why Tho? the Podcast: Sometimes it does hurt to ask and Taylor Swift is a real human

            Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss whether the adage "it doesn't hurt to ask" holds true, annoying neighbor hobbies and the weird attachment people have to Taylor Swift and her dating life. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


            More:

            • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
            • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
            • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
            • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
            • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html

            • 38 min
            • Why Tho? the Podcast: During tragedies do I have to post on social media?

              Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss the etiquette surrounding posting on social media during tragedies, wars and social movements and the audacity of Gen Z. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


              More:

              • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
              • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
              • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
              • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
              • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html

              • 40 min
              • Why Tho? the Podcast: The ramifications of subjecting your child to a DNA test

                Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss some responses from readers and listeners from a prior podcast/advice column, the ramifications of subjecting children to paternity tests and what they're smashing and or passing on for this week! For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


                More:

                • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
                • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
                • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
                • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
                • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html
                • 36 min
                • Why Tho? the Podcast: Taking off your shoes at other people's houses

                  Join The Oregonian's Lizzy Acker and Destiny Johnson as they discuss your conundrums for Lizzy's advice column "Why Tho?" This week they discuss the etiquette surrounding taking off your shoes in other people's houses, what they're into this week and whether you can keep people from smoking cigarettes outside your home. For a more distilled version of this, check out Lizzy's column, which will publish at Oregonlive.com/whytho the Tuesday following the airing of this podcast!


                  More:

                  • Read the most recent Why Tho (and columns past): https://www.oregonlive.com/whytho/
                  • Lizzy’s advice also appears in our weekly advice newsletter. Want to get it? Subscribe now: https://link.oregonlive.com/join/6fk/signup
                  • Have a burning question for Lizzy? Send her an email at [email protected] or tweet @lizzzyacker!
                  • You can reach producer Destiny by emailing her at [email protected] or tweeting her @hello_destiny!
                  • Or better yet, text Lizzy your question as a Why Tho? insider. Sign up here: https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2022/03/read-more-why-tho.html

                  • 34 min

                  About Why Tho? The Podcast

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                  Why Tho? The Podcast goes behind the scenes of Lizzy Acker's advice column for The Oregonian/OregonLive. Listen each week as Lizzy and producer Destiny Johnson dig into reader questions and dilemmas. Look for the Why Tho? column every Tuesday, podcast every Thursday and a daily advice newsletter that also includes advice from Dear Abby, Ask Amy and others at oregonlive.com/newsletters. Find Lizzy's past advice columns at oregonlive.com/whytho.