Widows Dating Divorced Dads

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widow, grief, healing, podcast, community, memoir, parenting, resilience, support, life after loss

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In this episode, Ona returns to the podcast after a break, sharing her experiences as a widow navigating life and grief. She discusses the challenges of raising children without their father, the emotional rollercoaster of grief, and the process of writing her memoir, 'Between the Stitches.' Ona emphasizes the importance of moving forward while honoring her late husband, Geoff, and expresses her excitement to reconnect with the widow community and her listeners.

takeaways

• The journey of grief is ever-changing and unpredictable.
• It's important to find ways to move forward for oneself and one's children.
• Writing can be a powerful tool for healing and reflection.
• Community support is vital for those navigating loss.
• Sharing personal stories can inspire others to find hope.
• Life can feel overwhelming, but small choices lead to significant changes.
• It's okay to take breaks and return when ready.
• The process of writing a memoir can be cathartic and enlightening.
• Encouragement can come from knowing others have faced similar struggles.
• Connection with others who understand your journey is invaluable.

Sound Bites

• "Life is wild."
• "It's a feel good story."
• "Check out the book."

Chapters

00:00

Reconnecting After a Break

02:39

Navigating Grief and Daily Life

05:17

The Journey of Writing a Book

keywords widow, dating, grief, cancer, parenting, relationships, love, family, emotional challenges, support

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In this episode of 'Widows Dating Divorce Dads', host Ona engages in a heartfelt conversation with Jennifer, a widow who shares her journey through grief, parenting, and finding love again after the loss of her husband to cancer. The discussion covers the emotional challenges of navigating new relationships while dealing with past trauma, the importance of family dynamics, and the resilience required to move forward in life. Jennifer's story serves as an inspiration for others in similar situations, highlighting the complexities of love, loss, and the pursuit of happiness.

takeaways

• It's important to establish rules when blending families.
• Grief can manifest in unexpected ways during new relationships.
• Communication with children about loss is crucial.
• Dating apps can be a helpful tool for finding love again.
• Survival mode often kicks in during times of crisis.
• Maintaining normalcy for children is a priority during grief.
• Emotional baggage from past relationships can complicate new ones.
• It's okay to seek happiness after loss.
• Every widow's journey is unique and should not be judged.
• Moving forward does not mean moving on from the past.

titles

• Navigating Love After Loss
• The Journey of a Widow

Sound Bites

• "I wanted him home with me."
• "You go into survival mode."
• "It's always moving."

In this episode, hosts Ona and Megan welcome Sandy Scheschuk, a medium, to discuss her journey into mediumship, the training involved, and the intersection of spirituality and religion. She also answers your most asked questions - from reaching pet spirits to cost!

Sandy finishes with a short reading for Megan to share messages from her late husband - including how he feels about her Divorced Dad!

Sandy emphasizes the continued presence and influence of loved ones in spirit, while also exploring the spiritual connections that can guide us in life. Her work is truly comforting and a gift!

Connect with Sandy on IG : sandy_the_intuitive or visit her website : www.sandyscheschuk.com

Ona and Megan delve into the complexities of grief, funeral arrangements, and the emotional and financial challenges faced by widows. They share personal stories about navigating the aftermath of loss, discussing everything from clothing choices for memorial services to the importance of having difficult conversations about life insurance and financial planning.

This is the real and RAW experience of a widow and an episode you'll want to share with your NON widowed friends!

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In this episode, Ona and Megan discuss their experiences navigating life as widows, focusing on the judgments and assumptions they face from others. They share personal stories about their weekends, the challenges of dating after loss, and the expectations placed on them in new relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and kindness towards those who are grieving, as well as the complexities of financial planning and support in their new lives.

takeaways

• Grief is a personal journey that others may not understand.
• Judgments about how one should grieve can be hurtful.
• Dating after loss can bring its own set of judgments.
• It's important to communicate openly about expectations in new relationships.
• Financial stability is a crucial topic for widows and divorced dads.
• Support from friends can make a significant difference in the grieving process.
• Assumptions about moving on can lead to misunderstandings.
• It's okay to prioritize your own needs and feelings after loss.
• People often project their own fears and judgments onto others.
• Kindness and understanding are essential when supporting someone who is grieving.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Weekend Recap

11:33

Navigating Grief and Judgment

26:39

Dating After Loss

36:28

Assumptions About New Relationships

50:10

Financial Judgments and Planning for the Future

Going through such a profound loss as a widow brings up all sorts of emotions, some which trigger arguments with our Divorced Dads. Hear what we've been struggling with and how we get through all the feelings!

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widowhood, dating, grief, love, hope, relationships, identity, family, healing, personal growth

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In this heartfelt conversation, Ona and Kelsy share their experiences as widows navigating the complexities of dating, love, and personal growth after loss. They discuss the importance of hope, identity, and the journey of finding love again while honoring their late husbands. Kelsy shares her story of resilience, the challenges of online dating, and the joy of building a new relationship with Joseph. The conversation emphasizes the significance of living life fully, creating joyful memories for their children, and the power of connection and communication in relationships.

takeaways

• Kelsy describes her late husband as a 'Husband on Loan from Heaven.'
• The journey of widowhood can lead to profound personal growth.
• Finding hope and identity after loss is a gradual process.
• Dating again can be both exciting and challenging for widows.
• Online dating experiences can be humorous and enlightening.
• Love is an essential part of life, even after loss.
• Manifestation can play a role in finding love again.
• Building a relationship with a new partner requires open communication.
• Integrating a new partner into family life can be a positive experience.
• Traveling and creating memories with children is vital for healing.

titles

• Dating Again: A Widow's Perspective
• Living Fully After Loss: A Widow's Tale

Sound Bites

• "I have those feelings again."
• "I want to live life."
• "I felt like I was walking outside of my body."

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

01:58

Kelsy's Journey as a Widow

04:23

Finding Hope and Identity After Loss

08:19

The Leap into Dating Again

12:23

Dating Experiences and Lessons Learned

17:14

Navigating Relationships with Children

22:21

Building a New Life and Future

28:18

The Importance of Travel and Adventure

49:28

Conclusion and Reflections on Love and Life

Megan & Ona dive into how it feels to move on from your late husband and be intimate with someone else. The tears, the guilt, the OMG moments - we cover them all!

Megan & Ona jumped right into traveling with their Divorced Dads + kids but it hasn't always been laughter and fun! Hear who does the planning, who pays, and how they navigate the ups and downs.

They also talk about taking trips with just their own kids and the Divorced Dads and how that has felt to the other half of the blended family.

Solo parenting is tough, but adding in a Divorced Dad and more kids isn't always easy. Hear our tips on what's worked, what hasn't, and the one thing that we do that keeps our relationship strong!