Wielding Legacy

In the first episode of season 2 of Wielding Legacy, I'm talking with Jennifer Constant. A multi 6 figure entrepreneur, a mum to 2 and part of a Freedom Loving Nomadic Family.

In this episode of Wielding Legacy, we have lessons in creating a legacy that might be away from the common experience of your family and friends. I’ve known Jennifer for many many years and indeed our first conversation was filled with an experience of her nonconformist life.

What is so interesting about Jennifer is like many she has an outwardly successful life, Associate Director of Fundraising for 6 years, a nice house in an expensive city, nice cars and nice life – but she did something different.

Jennifer and her husband plus their 1-year-old son - at the time - sold their house and all their belongings, swapping it for a motorhome, travelled so far around 35 countries and also set up and built 3 businesses that today bring in revenue of multi 6 figures, and earns 10 times her yearly salary all whilst living a freedom life on her own terms.

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Ever wondered how to make vision boards the ultimate powerful part of your year planning. We are talking about vision boards, goals, dreams and legacy building in today's episode.

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If you feel I can support you in creating your vision and legacy for the future, I have 2 ways to support you!

Firstly a 90 minute on demand session, and let’s create that vision for 2022 and beyond

Secondly a private accelerator day in person or on Zoom and 30 days of support, including 2 121 sessions. Dates are available from February onwards.

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We are talking about struggling. And when we are looking to achieve dreams and goals, whether in business or in life, we all have those days when we are struggling.

For me, there was one day when the tipping point to me yelling to the Universe “Really I’m struggling here” was when I was packing up one of the wardrobes for my upcoming year of adventure.
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Plus if you are struggling or feel I can support you, I have 2 offerings for you!

Firstly a 90 minute on demand session, for a super boost of top-line strategy for how to kick off your 2022 for success.

Secondly a private accelerator day in person or on Zoom and 30 days of support, including 2 121 sessions. Dates are available from February onwards.

This episode goes out to all those who feel a bit beaten up by this year and in reading the title of this episode identify that they are crawling or just looking forward for the year to be done.  

I’ve got you and see you, friend.  

Know that the rest of this year and next has the ability to be all that you dreamed of.  

And if you want to set yourself up for an amazing 2022, then finish strong and that momentum will take 

If you are craving or in need to finish the year strong or start 2022 for success I have a few offerings for you! 

Firstly a 90 minute on-demand session, for a super boost of top-line strategy for how to kick off your 2022 for success.  

Secondly a private accelerator day in person or on Zoom and 30 days of support, including 2 121 sessions.  Dates are available from February onwards.  

Come and let me know over on Instagram if you loved today’s episode @laurapaynestanley or have any questions about working together.  

If you know of someone who would benefit from listening to Wielding Legacy, then do invite them to listen with us 

When you’re ready to explore your legacy, success and impact on the world, here are ways to start the journey: 

If you are looking to create a hugely impactful legacy, my one-to-one success coaching will change everything. Contact me to arrange a call to discuss how I can help you.   

Or if you are a coach/ mentor or consultant a private accelerator day and 30 days of support, can be the ideal tonic to kick start your legacy creation. 

This episode of Wielding Legacy asks a number of questions, including:

Are you looking for a disposable fix to make you feel good in the shortest time possible, such as buying an imitation print from Ikea  to implementing a 30 minute make over hack to your walls.  

Or are you looking to slow down and create something that has a soul, has depth and has a legacy that transcends you.  

A legacy that isn’t linear with a predicted path, but rather cyclical in it’s approach for you never know when the hardships and work of today because the wisdom of the future.  

So my question to you if you think of the present as a stewardship for the future, how are you using that stewardship?  

Are you seeking the instant gratification that the present day you feels drawn to?  

When it comes to reading the word perfectionist fantasies my long experience has shown me that 2 responses normally happen.   

The nod, that somewhere in your stomach you know that this is something for you.  Or the “I’m curious” but it doesn’t land with you straight away.  

So what are perfectionist fantasies?  

Before we dive in here, let’s go back a stage to what is the problem with having perfectionist fantasies?  As such a perfectionist fantasy is a longed-for illusion that can keep you stuck in a negative benefit frustration cycle.  

You believe that it is only your illusory perfect self who can accomplish goals, once perfection has been achieved.  

Or you believe that only the perfect launch, perfect messaging, perfect USP, perfect copy, perfect audience build, perfect audience identification, perfect need qualify.. will lead to the results that you crave.  

I have also seen this emerge with corporate clients and leadership coaching, whereby the client is: 

In essence, the perfectionist fantasy can be linked to: 

The conclusion from the article so far could be a net positive from your perspective, all traits that help you create the legacy you desire.  Perfectionist fantasies can be self-motivating, a towards motivation to help you overcome challenges and achieve the success you crave.  

When you’re ready to explore your legacy, success, and impact on the world, here are ways to start the journey: 

If you are looking to create a hugely impactful legacy, my one-to-one success coaching will change everything. Contact me to arrange a call to discuss how I can help you.   

Or if you are a coach/ mentor or consultant a private accelerator day and 30 days of support, can be the ideal tonic to kick start your legacy creation.  

If you know of someone who would benefit from listening to Wielding Legacy, then do invite them to listen with us.

When you’re ready to explore your legacy, success and impact on the world, here are ways to start the journey:

Join me for a 121 experience like no other in my Immersion Day experience. This is a powerful day, that is created specifically for you that combines coaching, hypnotherapy and other releasing techniques to enable you to move to the next level. But it is so much more than the day as you also get 1 month follow up support. Book a call to discuss further. Only 2 spaces left in 2021.

Be.Boosted 2022 if you are looking to elevate you and your business, early bird tickets available. Tickets here

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This episode can be triggering for some, as today we are talking about ‘Leaving a Legacy’ as a childless person, especially when childless not by choice.

I know this can be a terribly difficult topic for those who are part of the community of childless not by choice and those who know people who are, and don't know what to say.

If you know of someone who would benefit from listening to Wielding Legacy, then do invite them to listen with us mindset 

When you’re ready to explore your legacy, success and impact on the world, here are ways to start the journey: 

Be.Boosted - A virtual event to take your professional service business and life to the next level. Join me for 6 day immersive experience in November where you will leave with your business and you boosted.  https://www.laurapaynestanley.com/be-boosted  

I am very qualified to talk about, being visible as an introvert. When I talk about introversion, and being an introvert, people are often shocked. But you do: - TEDx talks - Host your own events - Network with industry leaders And yes that is all true, but I am an introvert to my core. How do I know? Think of it like this... Two people go to an event, for the introvert, they experience it as the battery draining down the more they are around people. For an extrovert, at the same event the battery is being charged when they are around people. This is really just a metaphor for what is happening at a neurobiological level with introverts and extroverts, and the fact they literally having different nervous systems.

I want you to think of it like this; before we can hold ourselves to a higher standard and take that extra step, we need to have the base line standard. Whether it is fitness or in business, do you know your base line? Do you know how many hours per week is your optimum to work? Do you know your preferred high intensity fitness duration? Which ever medium/ tactic/ or area of your life you are thinking about taking the extra step, do you know the base line?