Wielding Legacy

I’m excited to dive into this topic because it is not talked about often enough. It can get weird and awkward very quick, from both you the business owner and the client when asking for the refund. It can bring up issues around our mindset and not feeling good enough. There are 2 camps for refunds, those (and you might be one) who’ve already received the request. Or those who are worried about it and what to do.

In this podcast we are talking about making money easily and the impact on building your legacy. How can you make money easily?

Often, inspired action occurs when you are following your heart and doing what makes you happy. It’s a response to situations when you are being yourself and not trying to control anything. If you really have the feeling of being and having your desire in the moment you think of taking an action, you are taking inspired action. If you still aren’t sure how to identify an inspired action take a listen...

Truth bomb – there is always someone there waiting for you to make the wrong decision, because it makes them feel safe when you stop changing and growing. You can’t control others, and you can’t convince someone your pivot or decision is great for you, if they don’t want to see that. All you can do is to pivot, evolve, and change through life – it's what we are meant to do.

So let me ask you, do you feel like your drive has gone? Do you feel flat and lethargic? Do you have thing to do, but don’t have the drive to get them done? So let’s talk about why mojo matters. Mojo is your drive, enthusiasm and motivation to get stuff done, consistently and persistently.

In this episode we are going to be looking at limiting beliefs that block money healing, identifying them and clearing them. The reality is that you may have done work before on this and not had success, and the question to ask is, is there any reason why you do not want to heal your money dam? Now limiting beliefs that block healing, are due to conflict or misalignment around goals and values. Take a listen for some key areas that come up around this.

Welcome to the latest Wielding Legacy and you’ve guessed it from the title, we are doing some deep work today on money dams. So what is a money dam? It is a set of narratives or beliefs that is keeping money from flowing to you, AND also from keeping money with you if you don’t have the right barriers in place. By understanding how you are actually blocking money, you can learn how to remove those dams, eliminate this self-destructive behaviour and rewire your brain with new thoughts and beliefs that will help heal your mind around creating wealth.

You need to then take the time to consciously evaluate the decision in terms of self-sabotage. Will the decision make you feel awesome, proud and positive for the duration or can you see the scope for negativity? Your evaluation means that you are in the position of conscious choice. An example of this from a client, who I was working with her on redefining success, which she had experienced in her business, yet her personal life wasn’t seeing the same level of happiness.

Imposter Syndrome is closely linked with perfectionism, with your ‘good enough’ never being ‘good enough’ to feel at one. More stress, and even more success, brings about even more heightened Imposter Syndrome. Seeing the cycle here. And if you are ready to break your cycle we are going to start by redirecting your attention back to what makes you awesome.

So what exactly is self sabotage? Well there are many definitions including when part of your personality acts in conflict with another part of your personality. It is said to be self sabotaging when your behaviour creates problems in our lives that interferes with our goals. The one that we are going to work with in this episode is actually related to attachments, which is a pervasive, largely subconscious tendency to seek out the negative or do things that cause you to be unhappy.