Wigs Off Podcast

Expiration Date 

Knowing When to "Let Go!

Everything tangible has a self life, so can the same be said for work, friendships, relationships etc. 

How do you know when a thing has gone past its  expiration date?

Signs that said thing is done

No longer adds value to your life

Causes you more strife than happiness

If you have continuously question why this thing is still present in your life

Beg the Question 

Can a relationship truly expire, or does it just need time to work itself out?

Do years matters i.e. girl i've known her for over 10 years, i cant just cut her off.

Is blood thicker than an expiration date; can your relationships with your family expire, can you cut them off?

Should you communicate your contention with the person?

Do expiration dates come with closure

Can time can dictate a "closure call"

Ep. 10 Cash App Me If It’s Real Pt 2. 

The cohost end season one with a follow up of their most debated topic, should women give men money?  In this follow up, do the cohost have the same opinion on the matter as part 1. We delve into the other side of the debate. Supporting a man vs. Sponsoring a man.. Support is to assist or hold up a responsibility. Sponsor is to provide for without seeking anything in return.  Is there a difference in supporting your man and taking care of them? Does either of these mean you’re building up a man, like a build a bear factory? Is it antiquated to think that men are always suppose to be the breadwinners, if women want equality?

Why isn’t mental health openly discussed in the black community? Is uncle Joe really crazy or does he have some sort of mental illness? i.e. Schizophrenia, bipolar.  Can depression be prayed away? Why doesn’t the church talk about partitioners seeking medical help? Even the bible states prayer without works is dead! Do the cohost believe in seeking help and has either host ever had therapy? Why does therapy seem more taboo for men than It does for women? Is seeking help a sign of weakness? Does toxic masculinity play a role in men not seeking help? Resources For Seeking Help! National institute of mental health https://www.nimh.nih.gov, Toll free number 1-866-615-6464; Georgia Crisis Line 1-800-715-4225; National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255 (Talk); Or dial your local 911 for immediate assistance

Priority- The fact or condition of being regarded or treated as more important. As you get older your priorities shift but when you are dating should your priorities shift with your partners or should each partner have separate priorities and maintain copacetic relationship priorities? Does your priorities always have to align with your partners? Can a person be a be a good mate if they cannot seem to prioritize their life? Can a person with a terrible work ethic be a good partner? If you are consistently the one calling, texting or scheduling dates, and if u don't reach out to them first you don't hear from them you are probably not a priority to you. Action expresses priority 

Name those shenanigans, each co hosts name their most memorable moments while traveling. Recording on scene in Memphis, back with the crew for our favorite travel experiences. Our favorite Trips, The friend you hate to travel with. Can traveling with friends be stressful? Where we wanna travel next, and more...

(Wife with no ring) "Where's the ring sis" Women are inherent nurturers, so when in relationships naturally want to assume the "wife" role,  but does assuming that role too soon or at all, damn you to being a perpetual girlfriend? Why are some women always the girlfriend and never the wife? Can men become complacent with what the girlfriend is offering and never think twice about taking the relation ship further?  Benefits/ Perks.. Is there certain  things that a girlfriend just shouldn't do? Is the man wrong for never taking  things further or is he just taking his time, making sure the girlfriend is wife worthy? Is it true that a man can only do what a woman allows him to do and does this play a role in the man making the woman his wife. Rule of thumb: How long before a woman should become concerned that she'll always be a permanent girlfriend? Is there a certain amount of time before the woman should take action or leave the relationship, if the male hasn't taken it further.

Why You Mad Sis? Why can't black women express themselves without being called the Angry Black Woman? Why is it that Men are considered Leaders if they assertive, but women are considered bitter or angry? Do words really have power? Can your words become someone else's narrative? Who's responsibility is it too correct this behavior? It's no one else's fault that you are intimidated by them. Who can change this angry black woman trope?

Cash App Me If It's REAL! How soon is too soon for a boyfriend/ girlfriend to start asking for money? Is there a rule of thumb when it comes to money and dating? Is there a scale of an acceptable amount when asking a partner for money? How much is too much? Should a male ever feel comfortable asking his girlfriend for money? Does casual dating or a committed status play a role in partners sharing money? Are men obligated to financially  help their girlfriends.

Do friendlationships require as much work as a relationship? Are there boundaries? are said boundaries stated or unstated? A friend researching a potential mate on social media without your knowledge, is that intrusive? would you take offense to that action? How do you address a friend that has crossed a boundary? Would your friends opinion matter in your relationship. Would you dump a mate based on 411 or advice from a friend?

He Ain’t Holding- Does size really matter? Can his mouth write a check his dick can’t cash, if he has a big mouth and no dick to back it up? Do men still brag on their dick? Do personal connections and or affections make trash dick seem better?  Does oral sex and other foreplay compensate for whack ass dick? Can small dicks get the job done?