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Joining the wiredDIFFERENT podcast, the founder of neurodivergent-friendly dating platform Mattr. What difficulties do Neurodivergent people face in the dating world? How can these be addressed? Find out now!

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Olly and Amelia Markeson are the neurodivergent couple who co-founded neurohaus (recently rebranded from adh_we), a consultancy working with brands including Versace and Goodwill to redesign how we experience the world — starting with shops, websites and social expectations that leave many of us overwhelmed.

We talk ADHD, autism, people-pleasing, overstimulation, cold plunges, sensory overload and why British politeness can make interactions more awkward.

Olly & Amelia’s pivotal tracks are: 

The Scuttlebutt by Awkwafina & Daveed Diggs

SOS by Avicii ft Aloe Blacc

Jungle by Fred Again..

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⁠www.neurohaus.co
@_neurohaus

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In this accompaniment to episode 11, freelance journalist & design researcher Sophie Knight narrates her 2022 Guardian article "

My adult ADHD drugs felt like a lifeline. Then came the scary side-effects …"

In this episode, recorded during a spontaneous trip to Amsterdam, I chat with journalist Sophie Knight about her controversial article in The Guardian, "My adult ADHD drugs felt like a lifeline. Then came the scary side-effects …". We delve into the complexities of ADHD medication, examining its benefits, challenges and societal attitudes, and open up about our own experiences with ADHD medications, why we aren't currently on them and what else has worked for us. This honest conversation hopes to inspire meaningful discussions around enhancing ADHD care. Don’t miss Sophie’s narrated article, available as a special bonus episode on Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts.

In this episode, I'm joined by singer, actress, opera director, dramaturg and former Brunel University Artist in Residence, Valeria Perboni. We discuss synaesthesia—a condition where senses blend together in unique ways, like feeling music or seeing sounds. Valeria shares how this shapes her creativity and helps her create immersive art that can foster empathy and build connection!

Valeria’s song selects are: 

Ravel - Piano Concerto in G Major  
Mozart - Le nozze di Figaro Sinfonia 
Jacob Collier - Bridge over troubled water

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Anna Wolfe’s writing has featured in the Independent, Mail on Sunday, New Scientist, Women’s Health and more, on addiction, substance abuse, eating disorders and dating. She has ADHD, OCD and Autism and is a recovering addict. 

This episode explores these themes, the effects of neurodivergence on Anna’s lived experience and how her creativity has helped her realise her dream.

Anna’s song selects are: 

Almost Cut My Hair by Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young

Pink Moon by Nick Drake

IDLES by Dancer

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Guest:

www.annawolfewriting.com

In this episode, I sit down with Tristan Hunt, an ADHD coach specializing in the music industry. We delve into Tristan's experiences in the music world and his personal journey following a late ADHD diagnosis. We discuss the need for a broader, more inclusive approach to education that can provide appropriate stimulation for children with diverse interests, contrasting this with traditional education systems that can stunt the development of neurodivergent learners. 

We also explore the relationships between trauma and ADHD and examine how past traumas can manifest in neurodivergent traits, and at addiction and why it is not infrequently seen in people with ADHD.

 
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Guest Information

Instagram: @tristanhuntuk

Website: https://www.tristanhunt.co.uk

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tristanhunt

The Musicians Union

https://musiciansunion.org.uk

Tristan's Pivotal Tracks

1. Bushwacka! - Billy Jean Remix

2. Mory Kante - Yeke Yeke (Hardfloor Remix)

3. DJ Marky & XRS Feat. Stamina MC - LK

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Our Guest:

@tinaedwardsdj

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In this episode, (recorded during Neurodiversity Celebration Week in April 2024) the multi-talented Tina Edwards - DJ, broadcaster, author and editor opens up about her journey of discovering her ADHD in her mid-20s and the impact it had on understanding herself. 

We bond over shared experiences of school and university with undiagnosed ADHD, from crushing disappointments of exam results to the coping mechanisms they unknowingly developed. 

Discovering her diagnosis partly through the paradoxically calming effect of chaotic, improvisational jazz, Tina discusses ADHDs emotional toll, the importance of self-compassion and music as a form of "medicine" for the ADHD brain and we explore the differences in ADHD behaviours seen in girls & women 

Enjoy an intimate and insightful exploration of the intersection of neurodiversity, creativity and the healing power of music. 

Tina's pivotal tracks are: 

"Pagan Poetry" by Bjork 

"Don't Forget You're Precious." by Alabaster DePlume

“My Queen Is Harriet Tubman” by Sons Of Kemet 

Exploring neurodiversity & the science behind it.
 

Dr. Tamer Rezk (Dr. T) returns to help me take listeners questions. As clinical academics who are neurodivergent, we offer unique perspectives, combining the latest research, medical knowledge and personal experience.

We discuss emotional hypersensitivity & creativity, ADHD medication & humour, executive dysfunction & cooking, gut health & mental well-being, and more. 

Enjoy an informative, engaging exploration of science, mental health & neurodiversity. #wireddifferent #neurodiversity @_wireddifferent @_wildzero  @tamerpapimd

Listen to DrT’s new single Earth, Wind & Fire

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Our Guest: 

@haroldheath

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In this gripping episode of wiredDIFFERENT, Harold Heath, a seasoned author, music writer and ‘former’ DJ, shares his profound insights on the intersection of neurodiversity and electronic music. The conversation sheds light on Harold's late diagnoses of autism and ADHD, the challenges of navigating life pre- and post-diagnosis, and the sense of clarity and understanding that came with it. Harold candidly discusses the emotional dysregulation that often accompanies ADHD, the concept of "high masking," and the importance of accepting neurodivergent individuals without expecting them to conform to neurotypical standards.

As a passionate advocate for neurodivergent equality, Harold emphasizes that embracing neurodiversity is beneficial for everyone. The episode is not just an exploration of Harold's personal journey, but also a critical look at the societal changes needed to accommodate and celebrate neurodiversity.

Harold's pivotal tracks highlight his deep connection to the underground music scene and underscore how music has served as both a therapeutic outlet and a bridge to the neurotypical world throughout his life.

Harold’s pivotal tracks are:

- "Hot Butterfly" by Gregg Diamond & Bionic Boogie, featuring Luther Vandross

- "Trust the Ghost" by Harold Heath

- "Sadness" by Little Dragon

Join us for a powerful conversation that explores the intricate tapestry of identity, creativity and the relentless pursuit of authenticity.

Read harold’s DJ Mag articles:

Exploring the relationship between neurodiversity and dance music DJ Mag, September 2022

Why are there so many neurodivergent people in electronic music? DJ Mag, September 2023

And his Book:

Long Relationships: My Incredible Journey From Unknown DJ to Small-time DJ

Other references from the episode:

“Dysregulated not deficit”: A qualitative study on symptomatology of ADHD in young adults