We have an ego and a soul. We are human AND divine, but if we don't truly know our ego, it can disguise itself as Love or even the Holy Spirit, and lead us to behavior that serves its own selfish needs, unknowingly. Example: We give unsolicited advice to our loved one because our ego tells us that we love and care for them. We give them advice they don't ask for "because we are loving." But in real honesty, our ego is so bothered that our loved one won't make similar choices to us and it causes us inner discomfort. So, our ego tries to control our loved one through giving unsolicited advice to fulfill our selfish need of getting rid of our inner discomfort. 

This episode is from my Patreon marriage series originally recorded March 2025.

This episode is from my Patreon marriage series originally recorded in March 2025.

This episode is from my Patreon marriage series originally recorded in Feb 2025.

This episode is from my Patreon marriage series originally recorded in April 2025. 

In this continuation, I explain the patterns of a mature female and mature male in an intimate relationship. When a woman is in her radiance, it inspires a man to become even more present and provide and give to her more. When a man takes action in deep integrity and purpose, it inspires a woman to open and soften even more. It is the perfect design of sacred union- inspiring each other to mature greater into their biological design. 

I reference David Deida and Sydney Poulton's class Reclamation

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Continuing from "Part 1: The Body Always Tells the Truth," I discuss the 18 year long journey between my husband and I through the feminine and masculine stages of maturity via the framework of David Deida. I also discuss why women are so bothered when men are distracted by their phone, social media, video gaming etc. 

I highly recommend the books "Dear Lover" and "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida.

This episode is what I have learned in the past decade, but especially the past seven months. The homecoming back to my body... trusting her language as information about my truth in the moment because the body never lies, but we often try to silence and repress her.... until we cannot anymore. I also discuss the life changing book Dear Lover by David Deida and how it has helped my marriage... learning how to share the ache and truth of my heart with my spouse. 

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Joelle Heilemann, a hospice nurse, shares her journey into hospice care, discussing the spiritual and emotional aspects death, the disconnect in modern society regarding birth and death, the natural processes involved, and the importance of accepting the unknown. Joelle reflects on her experiences with patients and how "we die how we live." The death process often reflects how we have lived our life. We discuss "the five regrets of the dying," emphasizing the need for presence and authenticity in life right now (and also in birth and death).

Cheyenne Lakhota (@bellyofthe.moon) a birth and fertility mentor, shares her profound journey of self-discovery, healing, and power through traumatic, medical childhood experiences that shaped her relationship with the medical system and pain. She reflects on her commitment to healing her body through holistic modalities such as breath, the dietary and health shifts she made in preparation for motherhood, and the importance of trusting her body, her baby, The Creator, and ancestors throughout the process of a wild pregnancy and freebirth. 

Cheyenne offers support for women in fertility, birth, postpartum care and intuitive mothering. Her website is: https://bellyofthemoon.co/

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