In this week's episode of Women Connected in Wisdom, Shannon & Christine sit down with Dr. Cynthia Phelps β scientist, international speaker, self-compassion researcher, and founder of InnerAlly β for a powerful, practical conversation about transforming your relationship with alcohol from the inside out.
Whether you're sober-curious, seeking healthier habits, or supporting someone you love, this episode offers hope, tools, and science-backed strategies to help you reclaim clarity, resilience, and emotional wellness.
π Drawing from her research in self-compassion, neuroscience, and her chapter "Discover Your Inner Voice and Soothe Your Soul" in Women Connected in Wisdom, Dr. Phelps breaks down how shame, inner critics, and old patterns keep us stuck β and how we can gently rewire the brain through compassion, mindful awareness, and supportive inner dialogue.
π In This Episode, We Explore:
βοΈ Why willpower isn't the answer β and what is
βοΈ The neuroscience of habits, healing, and addiction
βοΈ How self-compassion can reduce stress, anxiety, and addictive patterns
βοΈ What your "Inner Allies" are and how to access them
βοΈ Practical steps to rewire your relationship with alcohol
βοΈ How to shift from shame β empowerment β sustainable change
About Our Guest Dr. Cynthia Phelps is a neuroscientist, certified mindfulness instructor, and creator of the InnerAlly method β a research-based approach to cultivating self-compassion, emotional resilience, and supportive inner dialogue. Her work helps people move from self-criticism and struggle into emotional freedom and wellbeing.
Learn more: InnerAlly.com
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