This episode unpacks why even in the moments when you choose to delegate, you still can't stop yourself from taking the work back. Kristen shares the story of Danielle, an emergency management director who is over-functioning and why this pattern is damaging.

Some takeaways:

• The difference between being accountable for an outcome and personally carrying every action
• How family systems of over-functioning and under-functioning create this pattern
• Why the body feels relieved when you take over and trains the brain to repeat it
• What inflated responsibility is
• A reflection question to ask yourself before stepping in

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This episode unpacks what you need to know about high performance burnout, a pattern in high-achieving women who are quietly running on empty. Kristen introduces the podcast’s focus: the type of burnout women experience that hides in plain sight because they still handle everything. As a licensed clinical social worker, founder of Frontline Wellness Group, and someone who grew up around frontline work as the daughter of a police officer, she is all too familiar with it. Kristen looks at why the body doesn't always get the memo that a crisis is over and why women in high-stakes roles carry a unique type of load.

Some takeaways:

• What the clear signs of high performance burnout are
• How competence can conceal distress
• What the difference between a busy schedule and repeated exposure to crisis, grief, or high-stakes decisions is
• How to identify data that will help in your recovery
• A two-question check-in for the transition between work and home

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🌐 Frontline Wellness Group

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This episode unpacks everything you need to know about functional freeze, or what happens when women keep performing at a high level while feeling depleted, numb, or disconnected internally. Kristen looks at why this happens, why it can feel so confusing, and why “just resting” or "trying harder" doesn't fix it.

Some takeaways:

• Why functional freeze is a pattern rather than a diagnosis
• How under pressure the body prioritizes what you need to do over what you need to feel
• What happens when you postpone physical and emotional red flags
• What the difference between functional freeze and burnout is
• How the nervous system is trained to deprioritize your needs
• A mindfulness exercise for reconnecting with yourself

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🌐 Frontline Wellness Group

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📋 Free High Pressure Leadership Assessment

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This episode looks at the gap between understanding your patterns and moving towards setting clear boundaries to interrupt them. Kristen introduces her "body first" approach and walks through a real case of a police sergeant to show how taking action can serve you in an emergency but work against you in a low-stakes moment.

Some takeaways:

• Why understanding a pattern and interrupting it in are two different skills
• How urgency can take over before a deliberate decision is made
• The three parts of “body-first” work and how to apply it
• How to use a simple moment of reflection to create real choice
• A mindfulness exercise to buy yourself a pause this week

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🌐 Frontline Wellness Group

🎙️ Work with Kristen

📋 Free High Pressure Leadership Assessment

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Are you a high-performing woman working in healthcare, emergency services or another demanding leadership role? Maybe you can handle the crisis, make the difficult decision and be the person everyone relies on, but when the workday ends, you have a much harder time leaving it behind.

Women Under Pressure is a podcast for ambitious women who want to succeed at a high level without sacrificing their mental health, physical health, relationships or the rest of their lives in the process.

Hosted by Kristen Plake, a licensed trauma therapist and founder of Frontline Wellness Group, the show explores what demanding careers ask of women and how to build a life that can sustain both ambition and wellbeing.

Through practical solo episodes and honest conversations with experts and women doing demanding work, Women Under Pressure goes beyond traditional conversations about stress management and self-care. You'll learn more about how your experiences affect you, why it can be so difficult to switch off even when the crisis is over, and what can help you recover without asking you to become less driven or walk away from work that matters to you.

You’ll also hear answers to questions such as:

👉 Why can't I switch off after work?

👉 Why am I exhausted even when I'm still performing well?

👉 How do I stop bringing work home with me?

👉 What are the signs of burnout in high-performing women?

👉 How does trauma exposure affect me over time?

👉 How can I regulate my nervous system after a difficult shift or high-pressure day?

Follow Women Under Pressure wherever you listen to podcasts and learn how to keep pursuing the work and ambitions that matter to you without sacrificing yourself in the process.

Connect with Kristen:

🌐Frontline Wellness Group

📋Free High Pressure Leadership Assessment

🎙️Work with Kristen

📱Instagram

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