Getting good at love simply means having a successful relationship. Having a successful relationship requires the idea of a soulmate which involves finding the right person you are meant to be with. Through discussions with my mentors and examning the relationship of my own life i believe the reality that true soulmate are made and not born.

It's always a good idea to make an assessment in a relationship. As a single or Married, being the ideal partner is not just about being romantic but it has to do with some aspect of your individual life as well. It is important to consider who you are and how to make things better by becoming a better you for yourself, a better spouse for your partner a better parent for your children and other aspect of your life so as to have a better life.

Dating is the process of being involved in a relationship where both parties are consciously looking out for compatibilities that may lead to courtship and the ultimate  goal marriage. Dating is not an end to itself, it should be a means to an end.

There comes a time in your life when you fall in love with someone and love seems to be a good thing.  it makes you feel on top of the world and so alive. However as time goes on you discover this love fades with time and then you ask yourself if love fades out of time. Allow me to share some few points with you on how to keep Romance and Love Life alive.

Encouragement to make your spouse your best friend.

Always be accountable to each other.Talk about anything and everything with your spouse. Don't keep secrets. Value his/her opinion. Invest time in creating lovely and positive shared memories together. Hang out with your spouse, Discover each other's areas of strong interest and mutual interest and decide to nurture such interest together.Be his/her biggest cheerleader. Love his/her family and Observe your spouse and look for the qualities that make him/her unique and wonderful.

Marriage has a way of bringing people into union and unity, while at the same time amplifying their unique differences! 

Calling your spouse ‘stupid’ or ‘crazy’ or ‘a liar’ are definite ways to send that marriage crashing.

Your spouse should feel secure and esteemed when he or she is with you. He should never feel small or insignificant.

IMPROVING YOUR COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR SPOUSE - OLUGBEMI SOWEMIMO

Build companionship through activities of mutual interest.

Be deliberate about having mutual friends.

 Take genuine interest in each other's careers.

Parent your children together.

 Tickle your spouse's funny bone. In other words, make each other laugh

INTIMACY BEYOND SEX

Intimacy is defined as having a close familiarity or friendship with someone. it insinuates Nakedness, Transparency and vulnerability. My question is "D you think there can be anything more intimate than sex? Lets learn more on this podcast.