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You are exactly who you think you are—you just need to look at the receipts. I'm sharing the internal trust-building systems I use to beat imposter syndrome and the three success principles you must master to reinvent yourself before the year ends.
I recently turned 35, and after a decade in business, I found myself in a "weird space" of questioning my qualifications despite making a million dollars six times. In this episode of My Messy Middle, I'm teaching you how to build internal trust through a "Receipts List" and why the momentary failures in your business are not a reflection of your identity. We're moving past overthinking and diving into why success loves speed and how to execute your ideas before perfectionism kills them.
I want to hear from you—where do you need to give yourself more grace, and what area of your life needs more accountability? Let's talk about it in the IG DMs. Don't forget to keep working hard so you can live soft. ///// Let's connect ///////// My Website: https://www.mayalious.com Instagram: instagram.com/mayaelious YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaeliousI'm so over the internet. Not the connection or the community, but the "entertainment media" game we're all forced to play.
I recorded this episode from an airport lounge while reflecting on a decade of business coaching and the "messy middle" of my own brand evolution. I love helping women monetize their gifts, but I've realized that telling clients to "just post content" feels like gaslighting in 2026.
I'm sharing why I no longer want to play games that lack a predictable ROI and why I'm prioritizing digital organization for my mental health. This isn't just a rant; it's a call to return to our source of truth, reclaim our attention spans, and leverage technology for the right things instead of letting it steal our identity.
///// Let's connect ///////// My Website: https://www.mayalious.com Instagram: instagram.com/mayaelious YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaeliousConsistency over perfection is the theme for today. Bravely answering the question "what's true for me in this season?"
It's my last full day in Bali, and I almost let the "I deserve" girlie in me talk me out of recording. But I've realized that the messy middle isn't about having the perfect camera or the best lighting—it's about showing up authentically.
In this episode, I'm sharing in real time: - What I'm discovering to be true about my identity. - How I like to show up and WHY. - The powerful question my friend asked me that sparked a new level of clarity for me.
Key Moments 0:00 - Choosing consistency over perfection 02:50 - The "gimmick" of social media vs. genuine community 06:51 - Why we need wise counsel 08:42 - Co-mingling personal desires with your business gifts 09:38 - The powerful question that sparked a new level of clarity 12:50 - The struggle with being succinct vs. sharing my heart 16:43 - How to follow the journey
Resources mentioned: - Discover Your Brand Archetype: https://www.mayelious.com/identity - Join The Community: https://www.mayaelious.com/community
Remember that season you were super consistent?
You woke up early. You showed up. You ate right. You worked out. And then... you fell off? 🥲
I'm talking about rebuilding my discipline from scratch today on Episode 2 of My Messy Middle. I'm posting this a day later than I wanted because I got sick in Bali (apparently it's called Bali Belly... terrible name!), but I did my makeup from bed and crawled to the kitchen to record.
I realized that the version of me yesterday was enthusiastic, but the version of me today is just trying to survive.
This is exactly where the discipline muscle is built, showing up when you're "crawling to the finish line."
Thanks in advance for the love, feedback, DMs, and comments!
Check out the Momentum 100 Challenge and join the Work Hard, Live Soft community at www.mayaelious.com/discipline.
Let's navigate these messy waters together.
////// Let's connect /////////
My Website: https://www.mayalious.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/mayaelious
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaelious
I'm officially entering my "messy middle" and I'm taking you with me. After 10 years as a personal branding expert, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to pivot, reinvent your brand, and figure out life at 35, even when you don't have all the answers.
For the last three years, I've felt a friction I couldn't ignore. I built a successful business as a branding strategist, but I realized I was forcing a version of myself that I had already outgrown.
In this debut episode of the My Messy Middle series, I'm sharing a raw and transparent look at why I'm stepping away from the "expert" pedestal to find my truth in this new season.
Almost the entire year has felt like waking up and forcing things in my business, and it's because I outgrew my season 3 years ago and never made changes.
If you've ever felt like you're just "going through the motions" in your career or felt the urge to pivot but feared discrediting your past work, this video is for you.
We're exploring how to honor your truth so you can become exactly who you're meant to be in 2026.
I'm figuring this out in real time, and I'd love for you to join me on the journey. If you're feeling the pull to reinvent yourself, let's talk about it in the DMs. Are you in the messy middle too?
////// Let's connect /////////
My Website: https://www.mayalious.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/mayaelious
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaelious
From $55 to thousands per client, in this episode I reveal exactly how I transformed my pricing and money mindset, and how you can too.
I'm breaking down the 3 main reasons you're not pricing based on your value, plus my framework for developing a healthy relationship with money.
After you've watched this episode, drop a comment and let me know: What money mindset do you need to work on? I read every single comment and love supporting this community! IN THIS EPISODE: 00:00 - My $55 to $1000s transformation 01:30 - Why you're undercharging (3 main reasons) 06:45 - Understanding your TRUE value 12:20 - Common pricing mistakes to avoid 16:40 - What pricing with "integrity" really means 19:30 - Building a healthy money relationship 22:45 - Next steps + free resources
Get my FREE Launch Kit Blueprint → https://builttimpact.com/launchkit Learn how our clients consistently have 5-figure launches and increase their rates with confidence.
After ten years of business coaching and working with hundreds of entrepreneurs, I've identified the exact patterns that separate my most successful 6 and 7-figure clients from those who struggle.
In this episode, I break down the seven non-negotiable traits I see in every client who achieves extraordinary results - from Gabby who went from $700 to $20,000 per client in real estate, to Shaquel who built a $2 million business in just two years.
I also share the five devastating mistakes I see in clients who don't succeed, because understanding what kills momentum is just as important as knowing what creates it. If you're serious about building a substantial business, these traits aren't suggestions - they're requirements.
/////// Let's connect /////////
My Website: https://www.mayalious.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/mayaelious
YouTube: https://youtube.com/ @mayaelious
This episode of Work Hard, Live Soft, is all about my wealth-building journey.
From MySpace designer to seven-figure business owner, I've learned a ton about managing money, and I'm sharing it all with you.
Topics will include:
Whether you're making $35 per project or $100,000 a year from clients, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you level up your finances.
Remember, I'm not a financial advisor – just someone who's made money, lost money, and learned valuable lessons along the way.
/////// Let's connect ///////// My Website:
https://www.mayalious.com
Instagram:
https://instagram.com/mayaelious
YouTube:
https://youtube.com/@mayaelious
Ready to level up your business but not sure if you should focus on growth or scaling?
In this episode of Work Hard Live Soft, we break down the key differences between growing and scaling your business.
Whether you're looking to hit capacity or expand it, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you make the right moves for your business's success.
Key Moments
0:00 : The importance of understanding growth vs scaling
1:15 : Defining growth and scaling
3:00 : Understanding capacity as an entrepreneur
5:30 : The importance of profitability in the growth phase
7:00 : Strategies for scaling
/////// Let's connect /////////
My Website: https://www.mayalious.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/mayaelious
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaelious
It's time to think bigger – way bigger.
In this episode, we're breaking down why 10x-ing your life is actually easier than just doubling it, and how you can make the leap into your next season.
Key takeaways: Why setting 10x goals forces a complete identity shift How to live in the energy of "want" instead of just "need" The danger of good being the enemy of great Matching your desires with disciplined action
If you're feeling that itch to do something bigger but don't know where to start, this episode is your wake-up call.
Drop a comment below and let me know: What area of your life are you ready to 10x?
/////// Let's connect ///////// My Website: https://www.mayaelious.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/mayaelious YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mayaelious
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