From the executive office to behind her bar, Tiffany Welton's journey is anything but ordinary. Join us as we explore how this former corporate leader turned her savvy into success at RBF, Your Authentic Champagne Bar, a cozy yet vibrant spot nestled in the heart of North Carolina. Tiffany's mission is more than just creating a space for drinks and discussions—but that’s a story best told in her own voice. 

In this conversation, we go deep into how our childhood experiences shape the behaviors we tolerate at work, and how Tiffany's own experiences in the corporate world—where she was robbed of her voice—led her on a new path. Now, she's not just leading a business but is also at the forefront of cultivating a culture of collaboration that prioritizes employee well-being in an industry often lacking in these areas. Let’s hear how Tiffany is challenging the norms in her industry at every turn and using every doubter to fuel the growth of the RBF mission.

Resources:

• Learn more at rbf.wine
• Follow RBF on Instagram: @showmeyourrbf

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Welcome to our very first Career Questions episode of Working Your Way - a series where we dive into your most burning career questions and lay out how you can approach the answer in a way that works for you. Instead of focusing on a single guest story, today we're diving into a topic that's on many of our minds: the big 'Q' – quitting your job. Ever found yourself dreading work, wondering if it's time to hand in your notice? Or maybe you love what you do, but the overwhelming workload has you pondering, "Could it be better elsewhere?"

Navigating this complex topic, I'm joined by a friend and fellow entrepreneur, Sibil Patri, founder of In Pursuit Collective. A coach, consultant, speaker, and changemaker, Sibil brings a wealth of experience to this conversation. Together, we share our personal stories of quitting jobs without backups, discussing why it felt right at the time.

In this episode, we wanted to break down all the things you need to know to help you make the right decision for yourself. We talk about: 

• [07:14] The impact of a misaligned workplace
• [11:38] How code-switching and inauthenticity is draining and exhausting
• [21:01] Dealing with a toxic, harmful work environment
• [26:06] Sibil’s personal story of leaving her job
• [40:35] Weighing the factors when deciding whether or not to quit
• [48:00] Exercising control over your circumstances and overcoming limiting beliefs
• [56:12] Navigating financial concerns around quitting: Do you need another job lined up?
• [01:02:06] What to do when you’re experiencing discrimination at work

This episode isn't just for those contemplating a job change. It's for anyone feeling unfulfilled, overwhelmed, or facing a toxic work environment. It's for those who've faced discrimination or are simply seeking a sense of control in their careers. No matter where you find yourself on your professional path, this episode has something for you. Join us as we unravel these complex emotions and provide insights to help you navigate your way through the working world.

Resources:

Previous episodes to check out:

• Episode 07. Using Your Values to Guide Your Career with Antonio Garcia
• Episode 02. From Being the ‘Only’ to Feeling Herself with Tekisha Harvey
• Episode 08. Being Bold & Creating Belonging with Eduardo Placer
• Episode 04. Unmasking and Evolving as an Entrepreneur with Ekow Sanni-Thomas

Book recommendations to explore purpose, strengths, and values:

• Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans
• Find Your Zone of Genius by Laura Garnett
• You Turn by Ashley Stahl

If you are experiencing a toxic workplace:

• HBR: How to Heal After a Toxic Incident at Work

Connect with Sibil:

• Learn more about In Pursuit Collective
• Follow Sibil on Instagram: @sibilpatri
• Connect with Sibil on LinkedIn

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I’m excited to welcome my guest for this episode, Jen Thompson.  As the Chief Brand Officer at Japonesque, Jen has a hand in revolutionizing the beauty and wellness industry, integrating cutting-edge technology, and pioneering new product categories. For most of her adult life, she considered herself a careerist. But putting her career above all else meant giving up parts of herself she didn’t want to miss out on. When you can’t have it all, what has to give?

In this heartfelt conversation, Jen opens up about the transformative journey of aligning her career aspirations with her personal values. We delve into the nuances of staying authentic in a demanding corporate environment, the art of self-advocacy, and the skillful communication of ideas that define her leadership style. Let's dive into the conversation with Jen and uncover the lessons and experiences that shape her unique perspective.

Resources:

• Connect with Jen Thompson on LinkedIn
• Learn more about Japonesque
• Enneagram Resources: Any of these would be a good starting point for self-exploration!
• Self At Work Guide: Discovering Your Enneagram Type
• Book Recommendations: The Essential Enneagram or Discovering Your Personality Type 

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In today’s episode of "Working Your Way," I am thrilled to introduce a phenomenal guest, Jen Casimiro. Currently serving as the Head of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion at Prophet, a leading growth and transformation consulting firm, Jen has spent over a decade mastering the art of leadership development and fostering a sense of belonging.

In our heartfelt conversation, Jen dives into the depths of her identity, examining her experiences through the intricate lenses of race and gender, shaped profoundly by her life stories and upbringing.

This episode is a deep exploration of strength and power in professional settings. Jen candidly shares the feedback she's received throughout her career and how she's meticulously applied it to mold her leadership style. Join us as Jen unravels her journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It's not just about leading with authority; it's about moving the needle forward in meaningful ways, even when the tide is against you.

Resources:

• Connect with Jen Casimiro on LinkedIn
• HBR: How One Company Worked to Root Out Bias from Performance Reviews

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In today's episode of "Working Your Way," I'm excited to welcome Eduardo Placer. He's a beacon of inspiration—a former stage actor turned CEO and founder of Fearless Communicators, a public speaking and coaching company like no other. Eduardo embodies the soul of a “story doula,” nurturing and bringing to life the narratives of change-makers, innovators, women, people of color, and members of the LGBTQ community.

This conversation isn't our typical interview. Eduardo felt he could be his true self at work from a very early age, but only because of how a pivotal moment in his life prepared him for radical authenticity—a profound liberation upon coming out as gay at 18. His authenticity shines through every word.

In this heart-to-heart, we delve deep into the essence of belonging and authenticity. How did Eduardo find his true self as an actor? How does he infuse his company culture with overflowing generosity and care? This episode is not just an insight into Eduardo's journey; it's a masterclass in embracing who you are and using your unique voice to empower others.

Resources:

• Learn more about Fearless Communicators
• Follow Eduardo on Instagram: @eduardoplacer
• Connect with Eduardo on LinkedIn
• Read The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron or check out the Morning Pages exercise here

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Antonio Garcia isn't just any professional. He's a visionary, occupying the vital role of Chief Innovation and Strategy Officer at TXI. His career is a testament to the power of design and human-centered innovation. But there's more to Antonio than meets the eye – he's also the founder of Dadwell & Company, a unique podcast that offers a glimpse into the lives of men who are balancing their roles as dads and creatives.

In our intimate conversation, Antonio shares his career journey, emphasizing the pivotal role of self-trust and intuition. These guiding forces have been his compass, helping him decide when to stay and grow within a role or when to embark on new ventures. His story highlights the importance of consistent self-reflection, the courage to take career breaks, and the clarity needed to define one's values.

Join us as we dive into a discussion about building a successful and sustainable career, guided by the principles of authenticity and personal growth. Antonio's insights promise to enlighten, inspire, and perhaps even challenge your own career perceptions.

Resources:

• Follow Antonio’s work at amgarcia.com
• Listen to The Dadwell Podcast: dadwell.co
• Connect with Antonio on LinkedIn
• Brené Brown’s Living Into Our Values
• HBR: Use Strategic Thinking to Create the Life You Want
• Year Compass

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I'm thrilled to introduce Nneka Ude, a true multi-dimensional force in the world of business and creativity. Nneka holds the influential position of VP of Strategy at Arc Worldwide, while also shining as the owner and founder of LOVE DOT, a fashion company, and as an imaginative children's book author. Her story is a testament to the power of multi-passionate individuals in today's dynamic world.

We navigate the layers of Nneka's journey, exploring her unique ability to weave stories through fashion, creativity, and data. It's not just about the roles she plays; it's about the depth and breadth of her creative strategy. Her approach to life and work is an inspiring blend of intellect and imagination, challenging the norms at every step.

In our conversation, we delve into the importance of 'asking why'—a theme that resonates deeply in both professional and personal realms. The heart of our discussion lies in owning your identity and value. Nneka's journey is not just about her achievements; it's about embracing who you are and confidently bringing your unique perspective to the table. Her story is a beacon for anyone struggling to find their footing in a confusing work world. I hope Nneka's journey inspires you to explore your own 'whys' and empowers you to step boldly into your true self.

Resources:

• Follow Nneka’s work at nnekaude.com
• Follow Nneka on Instagram: @nnekacarrie
• Connect with Nneka on LinkedIn
• Shop LOVE DOT
• Check out Nneka's children's books, The Gratitude Series: Thank You, Mommy & My Daddy Is Awesome
• Enneagram Resources: Any of these would be a good starting point for self-exploration!
• Self At Work Guide: Discovering Your Enneagram Type
• Book Recommendations: The Essential Enneagram or Discovering Your Personality Type  

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Mallory Seisser is the owner of The Gilded Lily salon in Chicago's Logan Square neighborhood. She also teaches other salon owners nationwide how to better run their businesses as a professor at PIP University. In this past year, she's made the transition from behind the chair as a stylist to running her salon and teaching full-time. 

In this episode, we talk about the bold moves she's made in her career to step up in her leadership and grow her impact – and how those moves haven't always been easy, but they’ve always been worth it. We also discuss how Mallory is navigating making the shift from being a fixer and helper to empowering her people, as she takes on new roles in her career.

Resources:

• Check out Mallory’s salon at gildedlilychicago.com
• Follow Mallory on Instagram: @professor.mal
• Read Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen
• Disrupt HR Talk: “Stop Taking Work Personally”

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In today’s episode, I’m incredibly honored to have Ekow Sanni-Thomas, the visionary founder of Inside Voices. This unique online platform offers a space where people of color can candidly review companies and discuss the real extent of their inclusivity.

We're delving into Ekow's personal journey—the struggles, the victories, and everything in between. He opens up about his experiences with discrimination in the corporate world, his courageous decision to leave it behind, and the exciting, yet challenging path of entrepreneurship.

Ekow is a powerful example of authenticity. He's not just a figurehead; he's a person evolving, learning, and growing every day. And today, he shares his story with us. His insights are not just inspiring; they're a call to action for anyone looking to be a changemaker in their career. 

Resources:

• Learn more at Inside Voices & Kanarys
• Connect with Ekow on LinkedIn
• TedX: The gift and power of emotional courage by Susan David 
• Book: Emotional Agility by Susan David
• Book: Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker

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Natasha Oliveras-Figueroa is not just any guest; she's a remarkable creative director at a major ad agency, a fiercely proud Puerto Rican, an amazing mother, and a dear friend who holds a special place in my heart.

In our chat, we dive deep into the struggle of being silenced versus speaking up as Natasha shares insights from her own career. She tells the story of when she first got the impression that being herself at work wasn’t safe, the fear of what would happen if she spoke her mind, and the journey of how she stepped back into her authenticity to show up true to herself at work. We also explore what empathetic leadership truly means in today's world, peeling back the layers of this crucial aspect of the workplace and how Natasha strives to provide the kind of workplace she wished she had.

Resources:

• Connect with Natasha on LinkedIn
• HBR Women At Work Podcast: Leading With Authenticity 
• The Challenge Of Authentic Leadership - How Organizations Can Support Diverse Leaders (The Intersection): Spotify | Apple
• Learn more: Ending hair discrimination through The CROWN Act

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