As readers may observe, a sense of grief and melancholy permeates throughout The Irish Goodbye . This is because O’Neill had initially set out to write a book about grief that centered around the events of September 11th. “…[9/11] is something that my family did experience. We lost a lot of people in the terrorist attack… my father’s company was on the 104th floor of the south tower. He wasn’t there, but his company lost 66 employees including a lot of my friends, a lot of my sister’s friends, our cousin, Peter, obviously a lot of people my father loved dearly… it was a really tragic, tragic day for us… grief can be really insidious and I always knew that that was something I wanted to write about. I just didn’t know exactly… what the story was and so when I did realize what the story was going to be for the Ryan family, a lot of things began to click for me there because I, kind of, found a way in.”
Through that experience, I got to witness the impact of grief on so many different levels – on the level of community, on the level of family, and on the level of the individual.” -on the impact of 9/11 which devastated her father’s business in the south tower of the World Trade Center
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”