Yes I Am Selfish

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This episode is your reminder that boundaries aren’t walls — they’re power moves. Setting standards is how you honor your worth, protect your energy, and demand the respect you deserve. Tune in to learn how to stand firm, move unapologetically, and create a life where access to you is earned, not given.

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This episode is a mirror🪞. One that reflects betrayal, boundary setting, grief, and the brutal beauty of choosing yourself. I open up about what it really means to outgrow people you once called your sister, the red flags we ignore, and the power that comes from walking away—even when it hurts. This isn’t just my story. It’s a conversation about the Saturn Return, emotional intelligence, self-worth, and the spiritual weight of unreciprocated friendships. If you’ve ever mourned a friendship breakup harder than a romantic one, this one’s for you.

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Some patterns aren’t just habits—they’re karmic loops keeping you from alignment. In this episode, we dive into the root of repeating cycles, how to recognize them, and how to break free through energy shifts, awareness, and intentional action. If you’re ready to stop looping and rise into your power, this one’s for you. ✨

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In this unapologetic episode, we’re diving deep into the transformative power of not giving a fck*—not from a place of bitterness, but from self-respect, emotional clarity, and radical self-honesty. I’m talking about what it really means to stop putting other people’s opinions on a pedestal, how anger can be a sacred teacher, and why internal peace is the real glow-up. From personal moments of breaking points to breaking free, this episode is your permission slip to be your whole self—loudly, boldly, and without explanation. If you’ve been dimming your light or second-guessing your truth, this one’s for you.

You’ll hear about:

• Why other people’s opinions are not your business

• How to stop internalizing rejection and start seeing it as redirection

• Using anger as an emotional compass, not a shame trigger

• The beauty of boundaries, detachment, and no longer explaining yourself

• Becoming the main character in your own life—for real this time

Get ready to release, reclaim, and return to your most authentic self.

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Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls.

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The Law of Exposure: What You Feed Your Mind Shapes Your Life! 🎧✨

What you see, hear, and surround yourself with is shaping your reality—whether you realize it or not. 🤯 The Law of Exposure shows how your environment influences your mindset and success. By being intentional with what you consume, you can rewire your thinking, break old patterns, and create a new reality. In this episode, we’re diving into how to take control and level up. 🚀 #StayExposedToGreatness

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In this episode, we dive deep into the power of giving yourself permission. To heal, to set boundaries, to express your truth, and to fully embrace who you are. Too often, we suppress our emotions, silence our voices, or shrink ourselves to fit into spaces that don’t honor us. But what if you stopped waiting for external validation and simply allowed yourself to be?

We explore:

• Healing your relationship with yourself before seeking it from others

• The importance of emotional expression—whether through journaling, video diaries, or honest conversations

• Setting boundaries and recognizing when to walk away from unhealthy relationships

• Releasing the fear of judgment and standing firm in your authenticity

• Understanding triggers as signals for self-awareness and inner work

This is your reminder that everything is about you and will always remain about you—your growth, your peace, your evolution. It’s time to give yourself full permission to be unapologetically and authentically you and do it selfishly.

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In this episode, we dive deep into The Law of Sacrifice, a universal principle that teaches us that in order to gain something greater, we must be willing to let go of what no longer serves us. Whether it’s old habits, limiting beliefs, or relationships that keep us stagnant, true transformation requires a conscious exchange. The question is……. what are you willing to give up to step into your power?

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“Everybody Is You Pushed Out ” isn’t just a concept, it’s real life. The people around you? They’re reflecting your inner world, whether you like it or not. In this episode, we’re getting into how your assumptions and your subconscious beliefs are shaping your reality and what to do if you don’t like what’s showing up. Let’s talk about it. 

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How often do you listen to your inner child and their needs/wants? Or do you simply neglect them and put them last because you are an adult now.

That’s the first step to your problem as seeing your inner child as someone who is in your past but they are still with you every single time you wake up and go to sleep at night. Your self sabotaging behaviors starts there.

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