Yes, We Fight

Yes, We Fight

By Gerald Mayes and Juliamarie MayesSociety & CultureRelationships
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Yes, We Fight episodes

  • Surviving the Storms of Marriage - Ep. 20

    👋🏽Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️In this episode of Yes, We Fight, the Julia and Gerald engage in a candid discussion about navigating the complexities of relationships and marriage. They delve into the importance of understanding oneself, setting boundaries, and communicating effectively to foster healthy relationships. They emphasize the need for individual growth within the context of a partnership and offer insights into managing challenges and embracing perspectives.


    🌟Key Points Discussed:

    -Importance of self-awareness and understanding personal needs within a relationship.

    -Setting and respecting boundaries to maintain healthy dynamics.

    -Effective communication as a cornerstone for resolving conflicts and addressing concerns.

    -Embracing perspectives and recognizing the uniqueness of each relationship.

    -Making sound decisions within a marriage based on self-awareness and growth.

    -Avoiding the tendency to dwell on past grievances and focusing on growth and mutual understanding.

    -Continual self-work and reflection to foster personal and relational growth.


    Books Mentioned:📕

    Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: https://amzn.to/3SSs8Wv


    🚀Call to Action:

    The hosts encourage listeners to engage in self-reflection, prioritize effective communication, and work towards individual and relational growth within their relationships. They emphasize the importance of seeking help or counseling when needed and making decisions based on self-awareness and mutual understanding. Additionally, they invite listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more insightful discussions on relationships and personal growth.


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    #Relationships #Marriage #PersonalGrowth #Communication #SelfReflection #HealthyRelationships

    1 hr
  • Navigating the Rollercoaster of Fatherhood - Ep.19

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊!🎙️ Welcome to the Yes, We Fight Podcast! 🌟Join Julia and Gerald in a raw and insightful conversation about the journey of parenthood, relationships, and personal growth. 🤝 In this episode, they discuss the importance of creating safe spaces for dads to share experiences and explore the collaborative nature of fatherhood. 🌈

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    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Key Points Discussed:
    -Discover why safe spaces for dads are essential in navigating the challenges of fatherhood.
    -Embrace the collaborative spirit of parenthood—building a team with your partner.
    -Insights into guiding children in relationships and fostering emotional awareness.
    -Grow alongside your children, adapting to evolving family dynamics.
    Transitioning relationships as children get married—gaining a new perspective.
    📚 Books Mentioned:
    "What Happened to You?" by Oprah Winfrey.
    🔗 Stay Connected:
    Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell to keep up with the Yes, We Fight Podcast. Engage in the ongoing conversation about collaborative parenting and personal growth. 🚀
    👥 Influential People Mentioned:

    Megan And Joe Gassler - Studio Of VIM

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    Show Notes
    🚀 Exciting Future Ahead!
    Discover more about the collaborative sport of parenthood. Miss Mays and Gerald share their journey, insights, and plans for the Yes, We Fight Podcast's future. 🎉
    #ParentingPodcast #CollaborativeParenthood #YesWeFightPodcast #Relationships #PersonalGrowth
    🙌 Thanks for joining the conversation! Let's grow together as parents and create a space for shared experiences. 🌈

    54 min
  • Navigating Blended Families - Ep.18

    👋 Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️In this real and raw conversation, we dive into the world of co-parenting in blended families. Drawing from personal experiences, we share insights, lessons learned, and practical advice on navigating the challenges that come with raising children in a blended family setup.

    🤔 What's Inside:
    -Candid reflections on growing up in a two-parent household.
    -Mindful parenting tips for embracing diversity and unique needs in blended families.
    -Addressing parental guilt and acknowledging the continuous learning curve of parenting.
    -Unpacking the concept of gentle parenting and the importance of emotional maturity.
    -Pro tips on establishing clear boundaries, effective communication, and standard rules in co-parenting relationships.
    -The do's and don'ts of comparisons between households to create a safe environment for children.
    📚 Books, Products, and Influencers:
    -No specific books or products were discussed in this dialogue.
    -Our insights are drawn from real-life experiences and continuous learning in the parenting journey.
    🌟 Key Takeaways:
    -Diversity is the norm in blended families; embrace it, don't see it as a burden.
    -Parenting is a lifelong journey of growth; don't let guilt overshadow the progress.
    -Gentle parenting means making decisions based on what's right, not just how you feel.
    -Clear boundaries and communication are crucial for successful co-parenting.
    -Avoid comparisons; focus on creating a safe space for children amid changes.
    🚀 Call to Action:
    Reflect on your co-parenting approach; assess boundaries and communication in your relationship.
    Consider the unique needs of each child in blended families; strive for mindfulness in your parenting journey.
    💬 Join the Conversation:
    Share your co-parenting experiences in the comments; let's learn from each other! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more real-life insights and conversations.
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    Thanks for being part of this open and supportive community. Remember, parenting is a journey, not a destination. Let's navigate it together! 🌈✨

    52 min
  • F.D.K., Date Nights, and Building Stronger Marriages - Ep.17

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️Join Julia and Gerald in this candid conversation where they spill the beans on the magic of "F.D.K." (that's right, F**k Them Kids), Date Nights, and the art of building rock-solid families. 🏡✨

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    🔑 Key Takeaways:
    Discover the essence of F.D.K. Date Night – the secret sauce to balancing parenting and marriage.

    Dive into their family night rituals, involving the kids and creating unforgettable moments.

    Unveil the importance of maintaining intimacy, discussing insecurities, and adapting to life's changes.

    Embrace grown-up time – the small stolen moments that add up to a fulfilling relationship.

    Navigate the transition as kids grow older, leaving room for trust and responsible parenting.
    🌍 Community Engagement:
    Julia and Gerald are on a mission! Learn about their initiatives, from backpack drives to live shows, aimed at supporting families in the community.
    📢 Call to Action:
    Ready for a monthly married couples' night out? Excited to contribute to community-driven events? Shoot an email to Gerald at [email protected] and be part of the movement!
    📚 Books, Products, Websites:
    (No specific mentions in this episode)
    ✨ Stay Connected:
    Don't miss out on upcoming live shows and community events – hit that subscribe button, ring the bell, and join the family! 🎉
    Join Our Community
    Let's redefine family life and build stronger connections together! 💪💖


    #FamilyFirst #FDK #datenight #StrongFamilies #yeswefight

    46 min
  • The Power of 'I': Understanding Forgiveness in Relationships - Ep.16

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️Welcome back to another episode of the Yes, We Fight Podcast! In today's conversation, we're tackling the intricate dance of forgiveness and communication in relationships. 🌟 Julia shares personal stories, insights, and practical tips for navigating the complexities of forgiveness, while Gerald drops some wisdom on mindful communication.

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    🤔 Key Takeaways:
    Forgiveness Empowers: Julia sheds light on forgiveness as a personal power move, emphasizing its transformative impact on the individual.
    Mindfulness Matters: Discover why understanding yourself and your partner is the secret sauce to effective communication in relationships.
    Navigating Tough Convos: We dive into the necessity of those tricky conversations, unveiling how they're the secret ingredient to relationship growth.
    Boundaries & Friendships: Learn the art of gracefully bowing out when boundaries are crossed, and the dynamics of navigating friendships.
    External Expectations: We caution against falling into the trap of external expectations, urging you to focus on your relationship's unique needs.
    Self-Reflection & Responsibility: Julia opens up about the impact of self-reflection, showcasing how taking personal responsibility contributes to healthier dynamics.
    Complexity of Forgiveness: Join us as we acknowledge the intricate web of forgiveness, exploring the challenges and power that come with letting go.

    📚 Resources Mentioned:
    No specific books, but the wisdom dropped is 💎!

    💡 Call to Actions:
    Reflect on YOUR forgiveness journey and reclaim your personal growth. Mindfulness FTW! Prioritize understanding your and your partner's needs in communication. Tough convos are growth opportunities - embrace them! Set boundaries, protect your vibes in relationships and friendships. Forget external expectations; focus on aligning your relationship with YOUR goals and values.
    Join us on this journey of growth, self-discovery, and relationship magic. Hit that subscribe button, drop a like if you vibe with our insights, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 🚀✨
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    #Relationships #Communication #Forgiveness #SelfGrowth #Mindfulness #Podcast #marriagewarriors #yeswefight 🎧

    1 hr
  • Through Thick and Thin: Unraveling Love In Marriage - Ep.15

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🚀 Welcome to another soul-stirring conversation with Gerald and Julia! 🚀In this episode, we discuss the intricate dance of love within the sacred institution of marriage. 🌟 Gerald and Julia, with their 18 years of shared history, explore the power and neutrality of love, questioning common misconceptions and sharing valuable insights into keeping the flame alive.

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    🔍 Key Takeaways:
    Powerful & Neutral Love: Discover why love is both a powerful force and a neutral guide in decision-making.
    Love in Action: Explore the importance of actions driven by self-love and extended to your significant other.
    Navigating Tough Times: Hear Gerald's reflections on never leaving the neutral space of love during challenging moments.
    Understanding the Essence: Question whether the essence of love is misunderstood as couples enter into marriage.
    Keeping Love Alive: Uncover the secret sauce to sustaining love - consistent efforts, communication, and avoiding the pitfalls.
    📚 Books, Products, and Influencers: This episode is more about personal experiences and reflections, so no specific books, products, websites, or influencers are mentioned.
    🌈 Call to Action: Are you in a relationship? 🤔 Take the challenge and spend just 10 minutes having an intentional conversation with your significant other. Check-in, align, and nurture that beautiful love! 💖
    🎙️Connect With The Show: Join us on our journey as we navigate the complexities of love, life, and everything in between. Subscribe for more heartfelt conversations!
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    Remember, love is a journey, not a destination. Let's explore it together! 🌟
    #LoveInMarriage #RelationshipGoals #Podcast #GeraldAndJulia #LoveJourney

    1 hr
  • Navigating Parenthood, Marriage, and Long-Term Happiness - Ep.14

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️ Join hosts Juliamarie Mayes and Gerald "Mr Bpoz" Mayes in this candid and heartwarming episode of the "Yes, We Fight" podcast. In this dynamic conversation, Julia and Gerald dive into the complexities of marriage, parenting, and the unique journey that has brought them to where they are today.

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    👫 Venturing Out and Family Updates:
    The hosts share personal experiences of a rare night out with friends and reflect on family dynamics.
    🔄 Different Backgrounds on Marriage:
    Explore the diverse backgrounds of Julia and Gerald and how their unique perspectives shape their approach to relationships.
    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Parenting Styles and Perspectives:
    Delve into the strengths and challenges of parenting within a committed relationship, recognizing the diverse styles of Julia and Gerald.
    💖 Benefits of Long-Term Relationships:
    Uncover the rewards and challenges of long-term relationships, especially in the context of raising children and evolving together.
    😅 Challenges of Gratitude:
    Julia opens up about occasional struggles with gratitude, sparking a discussion on maintaining positivity amidst life's challenges.
    👶 Parenting and the Baby's Crying:
    Experience a humorous exchange about the realities of parenting, handling a crying baby, and sharing responsibilities.
    💑 Happiness in the Relationship:
    Reflect on the current happiness in the relationship, therapy, and the importance of seeking professional guidance.
    💰 Financial Stability in the Relationship:
    From early financial struggles to mutual support and communication, explore the journey of financial stability within the relationship.
    👥 Leadership, Ego, and Checking Ego:
    Gerald discusses leadership dynamics and the importance of checking ego, while Julia shares insights on appreciating each other's strengths.
    🔄 Evolution of Marriage Benefits:
    Reflect on the evolution of marriage benefits over the long term and the beauty of committed relationships.
    🗣️ Benefits of Safe Communication:
    Dive into the significance of safe communication, understanding, and creating boundaries for a healthier relationship.
    🌈 Join the Conversation:
    Share your thoughts, experiences, and questions in the comments below. Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful conversations on navigating life, love, and happiness.
    🎉 Stay Connected:
    Follow Julia and Gerald on their journey – don't miss out on upcoming episodes, events, and updates. Your support means the world to us!
    Join Our Marriage Warrior Community
    #YesWeFightPodcast #MarriageJourney #ParentingPerspectives #LongTermLove #RelationshipHappiness

    1 hr 1 min
  • The Foundations of Great MARRIED Sex - Ep.13

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors 🥊, Join us on a candid journey into the world of evolving marital intimacy (SEX)! 🚀 In this episode of the "Yes, We Fight" podcast, hosts Gerald and Julia open up about the real, unfiltered experiences of navigating sex and emotional connections in long-term relationships. From hilarious anecdotes to heartfelt insights, we're spilling the beans on what it takes to keep the flame alive.

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    🔍 Key Takeaways:
    Changes Over Time: Discover how intimacy transforms with the addition of kids and the beauty of those spontaneous moments.
    Variety in Sexual Experiences: Laugh along as the hosts share unexpected surprises and humorous mishaps in the pursuit of spicing things up.
    Importance of Self-Care: Uncover the vital role of self-care in fostering a healthy sex life and building a foundation of authenticity.
    Communication and Experimentation: Explore the hosts' emphasis on open communication, experimenting with positions, and breaking free from societal expectations.
    Relationship Trauma and Compassion: Delve into the deeper aspects of relationship trauma, and learn how compassion and understanding can pave the way for healing.
    🎙️ Join the Conversation:
    Share your own stories and experiences in the comments below! Let's make this a two-way street where we learn and grow together. 🌱
    📅 Live Event in Las Vegas:
    If you're in Las Vegas, don't miss our live event every Thursday at Mariposas Cocina – a chance to connect with the community and dive deeper into these conversations.
    📚 Books Mentioned:
    "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski
    💡 Products/Websites Mentioned:
    None mentioned in this episode.
    🤝 Influential People:
    None mentioned in this episode.
    🎉 Help Us Grow:
    Like, share, and subscribe to "Yes, We Fight" for more real, relatable conversations. Hit the bell icon to stay updated on our latest episodes.
    Join the community – because navigating marriage is a team effort!
    Ready for some laughs, insights, and a whole lot of real talk? Dive in now!

    1 hr
  • The Emotional Rollercoaster of Love: Building Awareness in Relationships - Ep.12

    👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! In this episode, we're discussing the unfiltered stories of the emotional ups and downs of marriage. Join me and my amazing wife, Julia, as we peel back the layers on communication challenges, emotional maturity, triggers, and the real deal behind long-term relationships.

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    🗣️ Communication Mishaps: Ever felt like you and your partner are on different wavelengths? We've been there. Discover the hurdles we faced and how recognizing them transformed our communication.
    🧠 Emotional Maturity: Let's get real about emotions. Julia opens up about not being emotionally mature enough at times. It's a journey, and we spill the beans on navigating through the highs and lows.
    🎭 Understanding Triggers: Triggers – the silent saboteurs. We discuss the responsibility of managing each other's triggers. It's not about shushing; it's about mindfulness. Learn how this shift can revolutionize your relationship.
    💑 Consideration of Different Needs: Every person has unique needs. We share our experiences, with Julia emphasizing the importance of considering each other's needs, even if they differ.
    🔥 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships: Marriage ain't a fairy tale, and we're here to embrace the messiness. Gerald drops truth bombs – show me a marriage without arguments, and I'll show you a short or unfulfilling one.
    🎉 Live Date Night Show: Exciting news! We're launching a live Thursday night date night show at a local restaurant. Join us for food, drinks, vibes, and relationship-boosting prizes. It's about having fun and connecting.
    🔥 Married Sex Discussion: Brace yourselves for our next episode – married sex. We're going there! Julia and I share insights and tips on spicing up the intimate side of long-term relationships. Get ready for actionable research and a few laughs along the way.
    Ready to navigate the twists and turns of marriage with us? Hit play and let's dive in!

    56 min
  • Beyond Gender Roles: Navigating Marital Success - Ep.11

    👋 Hey Marriage Warriors! Welcome to a raw and real conversation about the often-unexplored realm of gender roles and collaboration in relationships. Join us as we share our journey, debunk myths, and uncover the true essence of partnership.

    🚀 Key Takeaways:
    Goodbye Gender Roles: We kick off challenging the very concept of gender roles. Spoiler alert: "there is no such thing." It's about personal preferences and understanding.
    Collaboration Over 50-50: We ditch the '50-50' myth and embrace the magic of collaboration. As one listener wisely put it, "collaboration over compromise... everyone can win."
    Personal Stories Unveiled: We share personal stories, like the two women who ended their engagement because of misaligned expectations. It's a reminder to find a partner, not just a spouse.
    Learn Each Other: Relationships get better with time. Learn about each other; it's the only way to have a successful and lasting connection.
    Time, a Precious Resource: As you get older, time becomes your most valuable asset. We discuss how understanding, collaboration, and effective communication become the pillars of a lasting partnership.
    🔗 Call to Action:
    Ready to invest in your relationship? Head over to https://www.mrbpoz.com for a free 3-video series. It's a gentle reminder that self-care is the key to pouring into your family and world.
    🎙️ Join the Conversation:
    Drop your thoughts in the comments! How do you navigate gender roles in your relationship? Share your insights and let's build a community of marriage warriors fighting for relationships.
    Thanks for tuning in! Remember, there's no script – just your story. Cheers to navigating the beautiful chaos of relationships!
    #communication #marriage #yeswefight #wefightforourmarriage

    57 min

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