Yes, We Fight

Yes, We Fight

By Gerald Mayes and Juliamarie MayesSociety & CultureRelationships
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Yes, We Fight episodes

  • The Struggle for Healthy Communication - Ep.10

    🎙️ Hey Marriage Warriors, it's Gerald here from the Yes, We Fight Podcast! In this episode, my wife Julia and I unravel the intricacies of navigating love and space after a heated argument. Join us for a candid conversation about the delicate dance of balancing personal space and closeness in relationships.

    🚀 Key Takeaways:
    -Discover the Space-Closeness Conundrum and how to navigate it.
    -Learn the art of respecting unique needs in relationships.
    -Dive into providing reassurance without creating unnecessary insecurities.
    🌟 Future Plans:
    We're super excited to announce upcoming tangible content, services, and initiatives to support families. Join us on this journey as we strive to help families be the best versions of themselves.
    👉 Stay Connected:
    Don't forget to subscribe, like, and leave a review on our latest episodes and live events. Your feedback and engagement mean the world to us!
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    Thanks for being part of the Yes, We Fight community. Let's navigate the rollercoaster of love and space together. See you in the next episode!

    40 min
  • Building Trust in Parenting: A Conversation With Our Youngest Kids - Ep.9

    🚀 Embark on a Journey to Better Parenting | Yes We Fight Podcast Highlights

    Hey Warriors! 👋 Join us on this insightful journey through the lens of the "Yes We Fight" podcast hosts Gerald and Julia and there 2 youngest children, where Gerald Sr., Julia, Gerald Jr. and Layla share candid experiences, life-changing lessons, and invaluable insights into parenting and personal growth. 🌱

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    👉 Key Takeaways:

    1. Redefining Discipline: Explore the shift from traditional discipline to creating a safe haven for our kids. "Your disciplining and correction shouldn't induce fear," says Gerald.

    2. Trust & Communication: Learn why trust and open communication are the cornerstones of successful parenting. "You guys are smart, and it's easier to navigate your smartness when y'all trust us," highlights Gerald.

    3. Personal Growth Unveiled: Delve into the transformative power of personal growth in becoming a better parent. "Once you become a better person on the inside, everything else becomes better," shares Layla.

    4. Affirmative Change in Relationships: Uncover the secret sauce to successful relationships – creating safety first. "In order to have successful relationships... you have to first create safety," advises Gerald.

    5. Discipline as an Expression of Love: Shift your perspective on discipline – it's an expression of love, not a cause for fear. "They need to know I love them," emphasizes Gerald.

      6. 🌟 Reflect & Connect: Take a moment to reflect on your parenting style and consider how you can create a safer, more trusting space for your kids. 🤔

      🙌 Cheers to Growth & Learning! 🌈 Don't forget to hit the like button, share your thoughts in the comments, and subscribe for more parenting insights and personal growth discussions. 🚀 Let's become the best versions of ourselves for our amazing kids! 🌟

      #Parenting #PersonalGrowth #YesWeFightPodcast #DadLife #TransformationalParenting

      41 min
    6. Navigating Trauma and Building a Healthier Future - Ep. 8

      Hey Warriors! 👋 In this riveting episode of the Yes, We Fight Podcast, we're diving deep into the raw, unfiltered world of trauma, vulnerability, and the journey to building a healthier future. 💪

      Join hosts Gerald and Julia as they unravel the concept of the "web effect" – how even the smallest traumas can create a tangled web of behaviors impacting our lives. 🕸️ Julia shares her powerful realization about authenticity – the fear of being seen, of letting your true self slip out.
      🌟 Key Takeaways:
      The Slip Showing: Discover the power of authenticity and the fear that often keeps us from being vulnerable. "I wasn't able to be as vulnerable as I really wanted to be because I was too afraid he wouldn't like it," says Julia.
      Impact on Relationships: Hear the honest struggles of Julia and Gerald, as past experiences shape self-perception and unintentionally build walls instead of bridges.
      Choosing the Impact of Words: Gerald emphasizes personal choice – "You get to choose how impactful those words get to be to you." A reminder that our choices matter even in challenging moments.
      Tool for Growth: Future Self Journaling: Gerald introduces a practical tool for personal growth, setting daily intentions per goal through future self journaling.
      Fear's Inhibiting Effect on Communication: Julia opens up about how fear inhibits open communication – "My fear stopped me from saying so many things that were probably extremely necessary."
      🔥 Gerald and Julia call on you to focus on personal improvement, fortify mental well-being, and create thriving environments for your families. Get ready for a game-changing checklist for self-improvement dropping soon!
      🚀 Join the Journey: Hit that Subscribe button, tap the notification bell, and let's embark on this journey of growth and self-discovery together. 🌱 Don't miss out on the Yes, We Fight Podcast – where the real talk happens.
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      💡 Your Path to Growth Starts Here!
      #YesWeFight #Podcast #TraumaHealing #FutureSelfJournaling #PersonalGrowth #Vulnerability #Authenticity #SubscribeNow #marriagewarriors

      56 min
    7. Navigating Marriage Challenges and Personal Growth - Ep.7

      🌟 Welcome to another insightful episode of The Yes, We Fight Podcast!

      🌟 In this candid conversation, hosts Julia and Gerald Mayes delve into the transformative journey of Jessica Mayes; Gerald's younger sister, a remarkable individual who embarked on a path of self-discovery from a young age and through marriage, divorce, and finding love again.

      🚀 Key Takeaways:

      Breaking Free: Explore Jessica's empowering decision to end a significant relationship and witness the positive transformations in her life since.

      Generational Shift: Join the hosts in recognizing and embracing the evolving perspectives on marriage and relationships, encouraging inclusivity and open-mindedness.

      Learning and Growth: Gain valuable insights from Jessica's experiences, sparking reflections on personal growth and the challenges she faced on her journey.

      Challenges to Societal Expectations: Unpack the societal pressures within marriages and the importance of breaking free from unhealthy situations, fostering environments for individuals to thrive authentically.

      Breaking Cycles and Support: Explore the significance of breaking generational cycles and offering support to those navigating through difficult times, fostering understanding and compassion.

      📚 Books and Products: While specific books or products weren't discussed, Jessica's story emerges as an influential narrative, inspiring strength and openness.

      🌈 Conclusion: Join the hosts as they conclude with excitement for future episodes, potential guest spots, and the prospect of travel for the podcast. Subscribe to the Facebook page to become part of a community dedicated to building healthier families for a healthier world.

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      🔗 Connect with The Yes, We Fight Podcast:Subscribe to the podcast for more enriching conversations and join the Facebook page to be part of a community fostering positive family dynamics.

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      🎉 Thank you for tuning in! Let's continue the journey toward healthier families and authentic living. 💙

      #marriage #divorce #self-reflection #yeswefight

      33 min
    8. The Importance of Discipline, Commitment, and Submission In Relationships - Ep.6

      🚀 Embark on a Journey of Discipline, Commitment, and Submission In Relationships with Gerald and Julia Mayes hosts of the Yes, We Fight Podcast! 🌟

      In this episode, we fight about life's intricacies, exploring the power of discipline, commitment, and submission. 🌈 Join us for an enriching conversation that goes beyond the surface, offering insights that resonate with your unique relationship journey.
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      🔍 Key Takeaways:
      Navigating Life's Choices: Discover the beauty of individual choices over conventional advice. 🤔
      Emotional Intelligence: Explore trigger points and enhance emotional awareness for healthier interactions. 💬
      Discipline as a Tool: Uncover the transformative role of discipline in understanding oneself and fostering personal growth. 🌱
      Redefining Submission: Challenge preconceptions and embrace submission as a means to personal and shared goals. ⚖️
      Language and Perspectives: Learn to navigate language and differing perspectives, fostering open communication. 🗣️

      📚 No Books or Products Mentioned:
      While we don't dive into specific books or products, our conversation offers universal insights applicable to diverse audiences. 🌍
      👥 Influential Figures:
      We draw inspiration from Tim Ross, whose perspective on "submit" in relationships adds depth to our exploration. 🤝
      🌟 Conclusion:
      Wrap up the journey with us as we emphasize the importance of self-discipline for personal success and contentment. 🌟
      🤝 Final Thoughts:
      Join us in this thought-provoking space where authenticity meets wisdom, providing a compass for your own journey of self-reflection. Subscribe, like, and share as we continue this adventure together! 🚀✨
      #SelfDiscovery #Discipline #Commitment #JourneyWithin #LifeReflection #AuthenticConversation #yeswefightpodcast

      44 min
    9. Navigating Boundaries in Relationships - Ep. 5

      🎙️ Join us in this candid podcast conversation where Gerald and his wife dive deep into the intricate world of relationship boundaries. From expressing personal limits to understanding the emotional tapestry behind each boundary, this episode explores the delicate balance of love and respect within a partnership.

      🌟 Key Insights:

      • The fine line between expressing and understanding boundaries.
      • The crucial role of self-reflection in setting healthy relationship boundaries.
      • Differentiating boundaries as rules, asks, or wants in a relationship.
      • Challenging boundaries through open dialogue and the power of "I-statements."
      • Personal decisions and the importance of reciprocity in relationship boundaries.
      • Unpacking the complexities of addressing habits, using alcohol consumption as an example.

        • 💬 Join the Conversation:

        Share your thoughts in the comments! What are your experiences with relationship boundaries? How do you navigate the delicate balance between expressing your needs and understanding your partner's perspective?

        📚 Resources Mentioned:

        While specific books or products weren't discussed, Gerald and his wife bring valuable insights from their own experiences, contributing to a rich and honest conversation about the intricacies of love and boundaries.

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          • 🚀 Subscribe and Stay Tuned:

          Don't miss out on more engaging conversations. Hit subscribe and turn on the notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes. Let's navigate the journey of love and boundaries together!

          #Relationships #Love #Podcast #Boundaries #OpenConversation #yeswefight #podcast

          1 hr
        • Parenting Unpacked - Ep.4

          Parenting has always been an intricate journey, but the challenges have evolved in the digital age. In the recent "Parenting Unpacked" podcast episode, hosts Julia and Gerald delved into the complexities of modern parenthood, shedding light on key issues and sharing personal experiences.

          Key Points Discussed:

          1. Parenting in the Modern Age:

            • Acknowledged challenges associated with parenting in the digital age, emphasizing the impact of technology and social media on children's upbringing.

            • Importance of Self-Awareness:

              • Explored the significance of self-awareness in parenting, reflecting on personal experiences and traumas that shape parenting styles.

              • Communication Challenges:

                • Highlighted communication challenges between partners in parenting, particularly when protective instincts come into play, leading to the need for understanding each other's perspectives.

                • The Evolution of Parenting Styles:

                  • Discussed the evolution of parenting styles, emphasizing the need for parents to adapt to the changing dynamics of the world and parenting in a different era than their own upbringing.

                  • Preparing Children for the Future:

                    • Advocated for preparing children for the world they will live in, rather than expecting them to conform to past norms, stressing the role of parents in instilling values and a strong work ethic.

                    • Parenting in Blended Families:

                      • Shared insights into the complexities of parenting in blended families, addressing challenges in bridging the gap between different parenting styles and protective instincts.

                      • Parenting through Social Media and Technology:

                        • Discussed the unexpected challenges of parenting through social media and technology, highlighting the need for parents to stay informed and involved in their children's digital lives.

                          • Closing Thoughts and Call to Action:

                          • Expressed gratitude to the audience for tuning in, encouraged sharing of the podcast, and announced plans for a Facebook group to facilitate further discussions and connections.

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                            52 min
                          • Would $500 Bucks Save Your Marriage

                            In the latest episode of "Yes, We Fight," hosts Gerald and Julia provide an intimate look into their financial journey within the realm of marriage. The couple, managing four accounts, shares their perspectives, occasional disagreements, and the crucial role communication plays in their financial harmony.

                            Key Insights:

                            1. Diverse Financial Approaches: Gerald and Julia navigate the delicate balance of managing four accounts, each reflecting their unique perspectives on spending and saving. The couple sheds light on how differing spending habits can be a strength when approached with understanding.

                            2. Communication is the Cornerstone: Emphasizing the importance of open communication, Gerald and Julia discuss their experiences, highlighting the occasional conflicts that arise. They stress the need for creating a safe space for financial discussions, fostering understanding and support.

                            3. Long-Term Vision vs. Day-to-Day Management: Gerald's visionary thinking is juxtaposed with Julia's practical day-to-day approach to paying bills. The couple shares insights into how these differing viewpoints contribute to their overall financial strategy.

                            4. Continuous Evolution of Financial Plans: Financial plans in marriage, the hosts suggest, are not static. Regular evaluations and discussions are crucial to making adjustments, ensuring the plan aligns with the couple's evolving goals and circumstances.

                            5. Trusting Your Partner: Trust emerges as a central theme, with the hosts encouraging listeners to trust their partner's ability to execute the financial plan, even if their approaches differ. This trust, they argue, is fundamental to a successful financial partnership.

                              6. Resources Mentioned:

                              • Dave Ramsey's Podcast: The hosts refer to Dave Ramsey's podcast as a valuable resource for financial planning and management, showcasing their openness to seeking external guidance.

                                • Gerald and Julia's candid sharing of their financial journey offers valuable insights into the complexities of managing finances within a marriage. From diverse spending habits to the importance of trust and communication, their experiences serve as a beacon for couples navigating the intricate waters of financial harmony.

                                1. "Your finances are not different from your relationship. It needs to evolve, be discussed, and checked on as often as you can."

                                2. "There is no financial cookie-cutter manual to get to where you're trying to go. There's only the way that you agree to with your spouse."

                                3. "Money is something that is very personal; it's also something that you have to build trust with."

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                                4. Marriage, Communication, and Boundaries

                                  Show Notes: Episode 2- Marriage, Communication, and Boundaries

                                  In this episode, Julia and Gerald candidly share their experiences and insights into the complexities of marriage, effective communication, and the importance of setting boundaries. They discuss their journey through disagreements, periods of silence, and the challenges of navigating emotional spaces. The couple emphasizes the significance of understanding each other's patterns and creating a safe space within the relationship.

                                  Key Takeaways:

                                  1. Boundaries in Relationships: Julia and Gerald stress the importance of establishing healthy boundaries within a relationship. These boundaries serve as guidelines for mutual respect and understanding.

                                  2. Effective Communication: The couple reflects on the evolution of their communication skills, highlighting the need for honesty and the impact of words chosen during discussions.

                                  3. Therapy and Self-Improvement: They share their experiences with individual therapy, emphasizing the benefits of working on personal growth to enhance the overall dynamics of a relationship.

                                  4. Camaraderie and Support: Julia and Gerald express their desire to create a supportive community for couples, acknowledging the challenges of marriage and the need for open conversations.

                                    5. Products/Books/Companies Mentioned:

                                    • Therapy: The couple advocates for individual therapy as a means of personal growth and self-improvement.
                                    • Books: Specific books were not mentioned in this episode.

                                      • Note: The conversation covered a wide range of topics, including arguments, emotions, therapy, and family dynamics. The show notes aim to capture the essence of these discussions.

                                      This podcast aims to provide insights and support for couples navigating the complexities of marriage. Julia and Gerald openly share their experiences, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and effective communication. The couple encourages creating a safe space within relationships and expresses their commitment to building camaraderie among couples.

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                                      Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of any specific organization or entity.


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                                    About Yes, We Fight

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                                    Join Gerald "Mr. BPOZ" Mayes and co-host Juliamarie Mayes in their unique podcast "Yes, We Fight." They share their journey as a married couple, offering insights into self-improvement and…