YMMV: The Unfiltered Sex & Dating Podcast

Keith and Mike discuss in pretty good detail the story so far regarding female orgasms. Are all self-reported orgasms real? Does the female experience really differ that much from what men experience?

How much dirty talk is reasonable versus just a performance by one person or the other? Should guys really get penis sleeves even though that could cause ... size issues with their natural penis size? Same question for toys of other kinds.

Also, the guys talk about a list of sex complaints written out by a more experienced woman regarding her less experienced lover.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/34/squirting

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/34/loud-in-bed

https://ymmv.me/34/penis-sleeve

https://ymmv.me/34/large-toy

https://ymmv.me/34/sex-grievances

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Guest Emma explores some important questions with us. Mike asks her if she "does anal," and we explore details of her sexual experiences.

Importantly, Emma discloses a significant difference between the orgasms she has with vibrators and with men. (Are the latter actually orgasms?)

She describes for us some of the lesbian encounters she has experienced, and what it was like to be "on top" with a man giving her oral (she enjoyed it).

We also watch some animated porn, which Mike thinks is pretty realistic, but Emma and Keith beg to differ.

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/33/animated

https://ymmv.me/33/questionable-orgasm

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Today we invited cam girl Juniper on the podcast to discuss her experiences in the industry. She lets us in on what it's really like on the other side of the camera, some tricks of the trade and whether those little pink vibrators cam girls wear actually do much for them. Juniper also lets us in on how she handles private shows, tipping, anonymizing herself. And we discuss a male cammer who, Mike believes, used a prosthesis.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/32/pegging

We also discussed a "nipple sex" porn later in the show. Viewer discretion is advised on this one, as it's pretty strange:

https://ymmv.me/32/nipple-sex

If you are interested in following Juniper or seeing more of her, you can follow her on twitter at https://twitter.com/angeljune666 or check her out on Chaturbate at https://www.chaturbate.com/yourlittleangel666/

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Our guest Becca gives us insight into the differences between kink and sex play. We discuss different types of bondage, what goes in to making responsible BDSM porn, and the BDSM scene more generally, including some discussion of sites like Fetlife.

Becca wants folks to know about an event hosted this Thursday, March 18 2021, by the San Francisco Sex-Positive Democratic Club. Here is a link: https://www.facebook.com/events/775288679747488/

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/31/anal-hook-1

https://ymmv.me/31/anal-hook-2-2

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Ally is on the show again, helping us understand the appeal of a scissoring/tribbing video. She also gives some female insight into pegging and how being penetrated differs emotionally from being the penetrator in sex.

Keith wants to discuss some recent requests for rimming, something he's not sure he's interested in doing.

And, we analyze a sex dream involving a detached penis.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/30/tribbing

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here's a link to the question we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/30/sex-dream

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This week's scene is filmed underwater, a perspective unfamiliar to most, and pretty surprising when you watch it.

We discuss masturbation handedness, intriguing since Mike is a righty and Keith is a lefty. A Reddit poster, while horny, accepted a request that he "clean" his partner's vagina after the act.

How should one handle a partner who just doesn't like giving oral? And, is it as hard for a woman as a man to find a gangbang, if you're picky about whom to include?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/29/underwater-creampie

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/29/creampie-eating

https://ymmv.me/29/no-oral-1

https://ymmv.me/29/no-oral-2

https://ymmv.me/29/no-oral-3

https://ymmv.me/29/gangbang-seeker

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We listen to and discuss our first audio porn on the show, with some different opinions on it.

Should Keith consider hooking up with a former porn star? What are some solutions for guys who are pretty bad at dirty talking?

What's behind some women's desire to be exhibitionists? And what's the right way to ask for anilingus?

To listen to the full-length audio porn we discussed, you can click on the link below:

https://ymmv.me/28/audio-porn

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/28/bad-dirty-talk

https://ymmv.me/28/exhibitionism

https://ymmv.me/28/anilingus

https://ymmv.me/28/cum-on-me

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Keith and Ally are introduced to the milking table, or as they call it, "The Horizontal Glory Hole"

What percent of women genuinely enjoy giving blowjobs versus doing it just out of obligation or to seduce their partners? And, are men honest when they compliment women on their technique?

Are vibrators for all women, or do many prefer using their own fingers? And what's the right technique?

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/27/milking-table

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/27/vibrator-need

https://ymmv.me/27/men-going-down

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We watch our first MMF scenes on air, perplexing Keith but perhaps slightly arousing him as well?

A Reddit user wants her clothes torn off so often that it's becoming a financial burden for her and her partner. We discuss the details of where semen goes after it's deposited in a woman.

And, what is the proper response when a man "finishes" too quickly while having sex?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/26/mmf-1

https://ymmv.me/26/mmf-2

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/26/tearing-clothes

https://ymmv.me/26/where-cum-goes

https://ymmv.me/26/finishing-too-fast

https://ymmv.me/26/hair

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Keith is introduced to the Amazon position, where a man can more or less be treated like a woman, by a woman.

We discuss a Reddit user who went a little overboard in tracking his sex life. Is his wife telling the truth?

Is adding fingers during sex a good idea, or do things get a little too full? And what's the deal with wet dreams?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/25/amazon-position-1

https://ymmv.me/25/amazon-position-2

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/25/sex-life-tracking

https://ymmv.me/25/adding-fingers

https://ymmv.me/25/sleeping-orgasms

Twitter: @ymmvpod

Facebook: ymmvpod

Email: [email protected]