YMMV: The Unfiltered Sex & Dating Podcast

We discuss masturbation habits and how they vary depending on sexual activity with a significant other in the recent past. Also discussed are the routines men have either to conceal their masturbation from others or to heighten the pleasure.

We discuss open relationships and the almost guaranteed issues when one partner is having a little too much fun. Taken to the logical extreme, can plural marriages work out?

And, a man's partner flies into a rage when she doesn't have an orgasm during sex. What should he do about it?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/54/open-relationships

https://ymmv.me/54/masturbation-photos

https://ymmv.me/54/no-orgasm-rage

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Ally, Keith and Mike discuss all manner of sexual topics. Prior to the recording, Ally had the full experience of Virtual Reality Porn, which was disconcerting for her, as it resulted in her having large quantities of semen deposited on and throughout her body by two virtual men who didn't appear to be heterosexual.

Later, Ally confided that she'd "enjoyed" the porn. "I like porn," she said. "I'm a pro-porn person."

Mike shared analytical techniques for detecting real and falsified female orgasms. We discussed the female reaction to a man who wants to be snowballed or, worse yet, to languidly clean his own semen off the stomach of an unsuspecting partner.

And, we clarify the advice for Ally when her partner orgasms before her. No, he doesn't want to be required to interact with his own semen, but he's fine with her masturbating and perhaps lending a helping hand. It's just that he's tired and really wants to take a nap!

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/53/something-new

https://ymmv.me/53/faking-it

https://ymmv.me/53/orgasm-need

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We start with a continuation of last week's discussion of virtual reality porn, which has its pros and cons. Too many pro actresses is definitely one of the downsides.

How would you handle being offered a large sum of money not to have an orgasm for a year? (A year? Keith bristled at the notion of a week!) Does the reaction depend on gender, age, other factors? How much money would it take?

And, where should listeners go to find out about new genres of porn, like hentai, creampie, mmf, gangbang, etc? Turns out there's a place for that and much more. And, you can get help from others to find your specific kink.

Here is a link to the NSFW411 subreddit we reviewed on the episode:

https://ymmv.me/52/nsfw411

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/52/ticklish

https://ymmv.me/52/refrain

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This week's porn viewing takes a milky turn, with Keith offering up two ladies sharing their bodies' bounty.

Women don't seem properly aware of the unlikelihood of men deleting the nude selfies they receive from their partners. Tip for the wise: if you sent it, it's there forever, and he's not going to delete it. Naturally, our advice to men is to immediately move all nude selfies and videos onto an encrypted secure platform (we'll be advertising one shortly, no doubt).

We spend some time trying to understand incest porn, step mom and step sisters in particular. The appeal is hard to understand, but it's such a common subject in porn that it's difficult to avoid.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/51/lactation

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/51/taste

https://ymmv.me/51/anal-request

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Alyssa joined the podcast today to tell us how much she truly, deeply, really enjoys sucking on Keith's enormous penis. It's just bliss. From the first moment the tip of her tongue gently caresses his meatus to the moment he clutches her hair and she feels the rhythmic throbbing as he delivers his semen onto her tongue. And don't forget the delicious sensation as it slides down her throat to nourish her soul.... The sex is just magnificent. She also likes his personality.

Alyssa gives a pretty in-depth description of her occasional anal self-pleasuring. It makes more sense that men would engage in this, but she makes a strong case that she enjoys it as well.

We discuss whether it's easier for men or women to find additional partners in an ethically non-monogamous situation. Is it really just a trick to make a guy feel like he's free but actually to bind him in monogamy?

Some additional questions: Do women really enjoy giving head (again)? And, what should we think of a man who is caught by his girlfriend while he's masturbating to pictures and videos of an ex (pretty hot IMHO)?

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode (start 1 minute into the video):

https://ymmv.me/50/painal

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/50/blowjob-fear

https://ymmv.me/50/nudes

Twitter: @ymmvpod

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Email: [email protected]

We start with a video showing auto-cunnilingus. Hard to believe it's real. Maybe it's not?

A woman claims that she can't tell when her partner's penis is inside of her. She actually thinks he's not inside her when he is. Is this a size issue, and if so is he too small or is she too big? Or is it a completely normal state of affairs?

We return to the ever-popular topic of MMF threesomes, and what it would take for a man to want to engage in one. Is it worth doing an MMF to get an MFF? And keep in mind the difference between MMF and MFM.

Why has incest become such a trope in online porn? Do people actually want to watch that? Is there any way to get people to admit that it's their preference?

And, how should someone prepare for five days of continuous sex?

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/49/auto-cunnilingus

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/49/cant-feel

https://ymmv.me/49/mmf

https://ymmv.me/49/incest-porn

https://ymmv.me/49/romp

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A woman claims not to understand the traditional rules around dating, since she's so steeped in non-monogamy. This is, of course, preposterous.

What are the positives (and, are there any negatives?) to a woman being very flexible in bed. Keith doesn't find it as compelling as the cultural stereotypes would suggest, but maybe he hasn't fully taken advantage of it.

A woman responds oddly to catching her husband masturbating. And, a man insists on covering his partner's buttocks while having sex in the doggy-style position.

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/48/t-shirt

https://ymmv.me/48/caught

https://ymmv.me/48/nipples

https://ymmv.me/48/flexibility

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Keith finally has anal sex with a partner. I say finally, not from Keith's perspective (he was reluctant), but from the partner's (she was enthusiastic). He's keeping mum about whether a condom was used.

Someone asks whether the penis expands in the final moments before orgasm. I've researched this topic, and it sounds like it at least stiffens. But, your mileage may vary.

And we tackle the topic of death grip. The infamous condition which enables men to masturbate with hands of steel but then prevents them from orgasming in an appropriate amount of time. What's the solution? And, is the cure worse than the disease?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/47/penis-expansion

https://ymmv.me/47/death-grip-cure

https://ymmv.me/47/nude-selfie

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What makes a camgirl effective? We watch part of a video that camgirls really should consume in its entirety, if they want to understand how to come across naturally on screen.

We discuss how long needs to elapse before the average man stops caring about a woman having just performed oral and swallowed -- i.e. how long until he's willing to kiss her without thinking too much about semen.

A woman claims to very much enjoy anal tonguing, which is surprising because it's not obvious what she's getting out of the experience. Even for men it's hard to understand.

And, if a woman continues to suck after you orgasm, what's that like?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/46/theotherdrug

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/46/finger-sniffing

https://ymmv.me/46/keep-sucking

https://ymmv.me/46/anilingus

https://ymmv.me/46/penetration-only

Twitter: @ymmvpod

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Email: [email protected]

Mike discovers that people on the Internet (and Keith, apparently) measure their masturbation sessions using their step tracking devices. Apparently a "1000-stroke session" is a long one, with the typical male masturbation experience being more like 500 strokes. Stay tuned for the female equivalent (if that can be properly measured).

This week's porn is lesbian anal sex, which involves a strap-on and really doesn't look that pleasurable for either party, though we're open to having our minds changed on that front.

Keith likes to remove the condom sometimes (with partner consent) toward the end of sex to make more of a mess. And, we discuss the disappearance of hotel porn a decade ago as travelers carried their devices with them.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/45/lesbian-anal

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/45/condom

https://ymmv.me/45/labia

https://ymmv.me/45/wetness

https://ymmv.me/45/on-bottom

Twitter: @ymmvpod

Facebook: ymmvpod

Email: [email protected]