YMMV: The Unfiltered Sex & Dating Podcast

Mike does a solo episode, tackling some listener feedback, reading literotica to our listeners, going though some feedback on the escort-aficionado forum and answering a bevy of sex/relationship questions, lightning-round style. Genuinely dozens of topics covered, enough to make anyone happy, he hopes.

What are the best and worst things about hosting a sex podcast? Are we mansplaining too much? Are we right about squirting?

And, how many of you are turned on by the literotica Mike selected? You're welcome to send us your own selections for us to read on air and give feedback. In particular, we should probably try an episode focusing on what women like in literotica, as most of what we've found so far seems like it must really be targeting men.

If, for some reason, listeners want the full effect of the literotica discussed and read in the episode, here it is:

https://ymmv.me/64/pushing-my-luck

https://ymmv.me/64/mom-posing

https://ymmv.me/64/virgin-wife

We discussed some posts regarding escorts and Seeking Arrangements. Here are links to them if listeners want to read them in full:

https://ymmv.me/64/switch-to-sa

https://ymmv.me/64/porn-star-experience

https://ymmv.me/64/escort-philosophy

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/64/huge-penis

https://ymmv.me/64/cum-fetish

https://ymmv.me/64/oral-kiss

https://ymmv.me/64/dick-slip

https://ymmv.me/64/anal-view

https://ymmv.me/64/fleshlight-cheating

https://ymmv.me/64/mmf-mff

https://ymmv.me/64/handjob-time

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Is it really possible for a guy not to realize he's going to penetrate the "wrong hole" when it happens? What is the allure of porns where a woman appears to be trapped (in a dryer, or even stuck in a wall or some other similar predicament)?

A woman enjoys pleasuring herself while looking at pictures of ... herself. How common is this? Could a man do it and have it work?

And, which gender has the harder time understanding the unique life experiences that the other gender has all to themselves? Is it easier for a woman to relate to men's relentless sex drives? Or is it easier for a man to understand cyclical hormones and having periods?

We looked at both a subreddit and a video this episode. Here are links to both:

https://ymmv.me/63/gloryho-sub

https://ymmv.me/63/gloryho-vid

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/63/breast-sex

https://ymmv.me/63/sex-rules

https://ymmv.me/63/swallow-reciprocity

https://ymmv.me/63/wrong-hole

https://ymmv.me/63/tinder

https://ymmv.me/63/own-nudes

https://ymmv.me/63/bad-sex-life

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Once we've got the dirty talk out of the way, Ally joins us to discuss a wide array of sex and relationship topics. We watch a video taken from a woman's perspective of receptive oral sex. The discussion turns to women wanting anilingus performed on them, as it must.

Mike offers Ally numerous candidate dirty talk lines, but the best he can muster is a 5 out of 10 on her scale. She's apparently not willing to divulge what a 10 out of 10 would be, but I suspect I know what it is....

Someone asks whether being a sugar baby gives her an "unfair" advantage in life. And, is it believable that man could be so obsessed with sex with his wife that he has difficult concentrating on normal life when she's around?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/62/mr-pussy-licking

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/62/anilingus

https://ymmv.me/62/ordered-to-cum

https://ymmv.me/62/sugar-cheat-code

https://ymmv.me/62/wife-obsession

https://ymmv.me/62/open-relationship

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How much exploration of a woman's insides is good and desirable? It's obviously pretty different when you're exploring your own body versus when it's someone else. The enjoyment for a man doing it must be completely psychological, since it's kind of indistinguishable from warm jello or some such, if you were blindfolded and didn't really know where you were putting your hands.

Oh man. One of these questions is about a guy "warning" his partner that he's going to have a "huge load" because he hasn't ejaculated in some time. I wonder, how does a woman take that when she's "informed"? Is that an offer? A warning? A threat? What if she's not really in the mood that day to swallow a gigantic load of semen.

We talk about a number of different TikTok purveyors, including a woman who wants men to know they're not supposed to "poke" but rather to "dock" and then move in a front-to-back motion. Another woman likes to talk about her "pink" and "brown" canoes, which I guess is supposed to be alluring.

No more real conversation about high-sex-drive women, but we have both talked outside the podcast and agreed that we love women with high sex drives. We think it's great.

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/61/handy

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/61/vibrating-penis

https://ymmv.me/61/distant

https://ymmv.me/61/insides

https://ymmv.me/61/handjob-crying

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It's incredibly hard to predict that magic moment when a man finally decides to accept penetrative sex, performed on him, by his lovely female partner. One question at hand this week is where Keith finds himself on that journey. To find out, we invited his girlfriend Alyssa to the show, from their Caribbean hideaway where they presumably are investigating new and innovative ways to explore topping and bottoming.

Oh, but there's more! What to do when you discover a woman has been secretly using your vibrating toothbrush to masturbate? How not to destroy a promising sugar relationship with an errant "I love you" while receiving oral ministrations.

And, do men need very specific stimulation in order to orgasm? Can certain men do it "hands free"? How?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/60/toothbrush

https://ymmv.me/60/sugar-love

https://ymmv.me/60/pegging

https://ymmv.me/60/cutting

https://ymmv.me/60/stimulation

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At core, I would call a "breeding fetish" just more or less being human. We have fun talking about sex, but at core it's serious business! Without sex, there would be no people. No one to even ask the great philosophical questions like, "Why are we here?" and "What is a woman?"

This episode, we shortened our discussion of each topic in order to fit more in. We fit a lot more in. Our cup runneth over with topics. How to tell a woman you're about to climax? When does sex for money become prostitution (answer: quickly)?

And much, much more.

Oh, and by the way, try searching the term "jilling" on Google Images. I just did, looking for a good thumbnail for the episode. I wasn't disappointed.

To follow along with the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/59/jilling

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/59/heads-up

https://ymmv.me/59/breeding-fetish

https://ymmv.me/59/bj

https://ymmv.me/59/unusual-masturbation

https://ymmv.me/59/facesitting

https://ymmv.me/59/wet-underwear

https://ymmv.me/59/large-areolae

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How well does it work if one partner wants sex more frequently than the other, and they initiate a schedule for sex? I'm actually pretty sure this doesn't work so great in practice, but we discuss the practicalities and what it means for a relationship. It's mainly a full-employment system for couples therapists.

How much does your partner receiving pleasure from an act increase your interest in doing it? Does this extend all the way to pegging? Probably so, for some folks.

If a woman wants sex almost all the time, so much so that she can't stop herself from masturbating and becomes cross with her partner if he doesn't oblige, so much so that her deepest desire is to be some sort of human trampoline, is it wrong for him to stop being attracted to her?

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/58/big-one

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/58/sex-fruatration

https://ymmv.me/58/kink-delta

https://ymmv.me/58/shaving

https://ymmv.me/58/sleep-sex

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YMMV is not a celebrity gossip podcast, but the answer to the first question is "No." Societal delusion aside, this is not someone who meets the traditional definitions of attractiveness, and that's not even considering how she looks.

We discuss the health consequences of porn and an online forum which appears to tout "actual" incest porn. Is it real? Possibly so. And, if so, why are there people who enjoy this stuff?

We also talk about the /r/nofap subreddit and how effective that is at improving (or lowering) people's quality of life.

Another discussion of larger-than-life dildoes. Is mutual masturbation compelling, or is it the "69 of handjobs," as Keith describes it?

Virgin detection and multiple shots on goal round out the episode. Loads everywhere indeed!

To see the relevant incest porn thread, here is a link:

https://ymmv.me/57/incest-porn

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/57/less-porn

https://ymmv.me/57/mutual-masturbation

https://ymmv.me/57/virgin

https://ymmv.me/57/onlyfans

https://ymmv.me/57/two-shots-on-goal

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Which would you rather do while watching a movie with your female partner? Edge her manually for 45 minutes and then give her oral for 5 minutes, or not edge her at all but then the oral sex takes 20 minutes? And, do people need to be edged during movie watching at all?

What does it mean when your husband seems never to be interested in sex, but then when you have sex he ejaculates prematurely? Does it mean he's not interested in sex at all? If so, how is he getting off so fast?

And, what's the real deal with facials? Are there any women in the world who like them just because they enjoy semen sprayed on their face? Like, would any women consent to having a squirt gun loaded with semen and shot at their faces? Or are they doing it because men seem to like it and it's submissive?

Our video segment this week is really one you don't want to miss. A vibrator of unusual size (and a likely fake orgasm to go along with it!).

To follow along with the videos discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/56/xxl-scimitar

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/56/not-lasting

https://ymmv.me/56/facials

https://ymmv.me/56/vibrator

Twitter: @ymmvpod

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Email: [email protected]

Men enjoy watching women "perform" so much during sex that we wonder whether they know that women are in fact just "performing". And, maybe women do what they do because it helps enhance the mood for them. Alternately, some women claim they have no control over behaviors such as screaming during sex. Are they telling the truth? What is "control" anyway?

When is the best time to tell a partner about a hygiene issue in a relationship?

And, we debate again the whole question of "squirting": What is it? Why do some men seem to so love it?

To take a look at the picture discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/55/imperfections

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/55/noise

https://ymmv.me/55/odor

https://ymmv.me/55/squirting

Twitter: @ymmvpod

Facebook: ymmvpod

Email: [email protected]