Episode 19: On today's episode, I'm talking to you about a topic that makes me uncomfortable, but not too much, I'm pretty much an open book. I want to take a look at how we sometimes use sex as a way to feel wanted, desired, loved, or validated.

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Episode 18: I want to talk to you today about projecting. Don't you just want people to stop projecting all over you? And if you don't know what that means, I want to explain it just a little bit. Projection, basically is whenever somebody is taking their beliefs and opinions and their life experiences and giving you advice or having an opinion about you, or a judgement based on that. And it has absolutely nothing to do with you. Because we're all in this world running around doing our thing together, but we're not in the same reality. But honestly, if everybody could really understand projection, then this world could be a little bit of a different place, and because each of us would realize that just because you say something, or I say something and we don't agree, sometimes it doesn't necessarily mean that either one of us is right or wrong.

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Episode 17: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. Today, I'm excited because I have a very good friend on today, Richele Batt. Listen in to our conversation as we discuss relationships, unconditional love, red flags and should you stay or should you go?

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Episode 16: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. Today, I'm excited because I have my friend on as a special guest, her name is Jillian Laudano, she's a personal transformation coach, energy healer, speaker, and hosts Thursday Talks, a weekly live talk show. I'm really looking forward to my conversation with Jillian about tapping and some other really cool techniques and tips to help with anxiety & depression.

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Episode 15: Welcome to You Are the Magic Pill, I'm your host Victoria. Today I want to share with you something that I've been wanting to talk to you about. It is hard for me sometimes to speak to you because if I'm not totally in the zone, I'm not connected. And lately I've been experienced in that. So, now I have that contrast to share with you. I was thinking about my childhood because I'm doing a couple of things that are helping me go within more, it's helping me to see, to become aware of what my story that I tell myself. Maybe it's something that you like about yourself. It's a great story, or maybe it's a story that holds you back. In my case, it has been holding me back, and honestly, I wasn't totally aware of what that story was. Today I just want to share a little bit about that with you.

Episode 14: Welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. Today, I have a very special guest with me to have a conversation about relationships. His name is Daniel Herrold, and he is a divorced dad of three daughters who lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Daniel is the co-creator of Divorced Over 40, an online community of divorce men and women in their 40s and 50s, which provides content and community to this audience. Daniel is very inspirational, and I just love his insight on what it's like to be divorced over 40 and being single again. We're going to have a little chat about all of this, I invite you to listen in...

Episode 13: I'm excited because I haven't had a guest on here to talk to you with me until today. I have my friend Withers with me, we've known each other for a while now, but we've never actually knew that we had something in common. I'm going to let Withers tell you her story, because it is really cool. I was as looking on Instagram about a week or two ago, and I saw this video, and I don't watch a lot of videos on Instagram or tiktok or anything like that, but I decided to watch it. And so I started listening to her story and she started to share something that was super vulnerable and personal to her, and I was like, Oh my gosh, that reminds me of something that I struggle with, but I've actually not shared on the podcast just yet. I want to touch on that a little bit today, and share with you how my story relates to Withers'. But it's more about her story today.

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Episode #12: Hi and welcome back,to You Are the Magic Pill. I am super excited that you're with me today, tuning in. And I want to tell you about what really sucks. What sucks is going through your whole life, not loving yourself like you should. It sucks to always compare yourself to others, it sucks to never see the good in yourself, even though your friends and family do, hell even strangers do for some crazy reason. Sometimes you just don't see the wonderful qualities about yourself, you get lost in the comparisonitis, And Man, that really sucks so badly. One day I had that a-ha moment that people talk about, and I realized that I've been lying to myself, I've been thinking that I was happy and thankful, but not actually living it or feeling it. When I look back at it, and this is really sad, for some things, I was happy and grateful, but not for the most important thing, the most important thing was myself.

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Episode #11: Hi and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. I am so excited that you're here with me today. I call this episode, don't tell me what to do, because I don't know about you, but when someone tells me what to do, I just don't really like it. And I think that I know why I don't like it, it's because it triggers me a little bit. I think it's because of my childhood and my upbringing. I was the youngest in my family, and so I was constantly told what to do, and I never really had to make a decision, because all my decisions were basically made for me. Throughout much of my life for me. I lacked the confidence to think that I could make a decision. I let other people guide me and live my life. I was just like this person going about and doing what people told me to do. So I think... Now, when people try to tell me what to do, I'm like, Oh yeah, I don't like that.

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Episode #10. Hi, and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. Today I wanted to talk to you about my marriage. I was married for 21 years, that's a very long time. And I don't know about you, if you're married or if you think about getting married, or you're in a relationship, maybe this message will help you. I wanted to write this book, I titled it. Forever is a really long time, what they don't tell you, Because honestly, when I was 24, when I got married, the second time, I'll have to tell you about the first time on another podcast, the second time I got married, I have to say, I had no idea. I just knew I wanted to find my soulmate, I knew I wanted to get married, have babies. All of that. But did I actually know that? I was told that that's what I should do. And it's just out there, just constant messages to guide us into that direction... go get married, have children, you'll be happy they said. And no, I'm not going to paint it all as bad, I'm not that kind of person, but I will say that I got married rather quickly and here's what I learned from that experience.

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