Inspired by Vogue’s iconic 73 Questions, we sat down with birthday boy Vince for 30 questions to celebrate 30 years. But it’s more than a Q&A—it’s a deep dive into growing up, nostalgia, and what “thriving at 30” really means. From the lessons we never expected to the power of staying connected to our inner child, we’re unpacking the truth behind adulthood with a nod to 13 Going on 30. Is having it all figured out just a myth? Let’s find out.

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Adjusting to a new culture as a mother is no small feat — and it's something many of us never fully understood… until we became adults ourselves. Our moms carried so much with quiet strength — acts of love, sacrifice, and resilience we only now truly recognize. In this special episode, we sit down in person for the very first time with none other than Mathew's mom— to talk motherhood, identity, cultural shifts, and everything in between. This one’s for every mother who’s ever built a home in a place that didn’t yet feel like one. This one’s for the mothers who adapt, survive, and raise strong hearts in unfamiliar places. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

“Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving?” In this episode, we revisit the iconic film 13 Going on 30 to unpack the truth behind growing up. From the power of meaningful relationships to the unexpected lessons of adulthood, we explore what it really means to thrive at 30. Is the pressure to have it all figured out just a myth? And how can reconnecting with our inner child help us redefine success? Let’s talk about what growing up was supposed to be—and what it actually is. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

This week, we “kiki” the house-down-boots with Paul Yen — SoCal native, performer, and a true ALLY. From stage to screen, Paul brings more than just talent — he brings truth, heart, and purpose. We talk about what it means to be Asian American in Hollywood, the importance of telling authentic stories, and how he uses his platform to amplify marginalized voices — especially in support of the LGBTQIA+ community. Paul doesn’t just talk the talk — he shows up, he listens, he challenges, and he leads with empathy. This conversation is all about representation, reimagining narratives, and championing inclusion in every space he enters. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @hellopaulyen, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

In our previous episode, we explored the concept that change is the only constant, and this week's guest is a true embodiment of that idea! We’re excited to "hold space" and welcome Eliza De Castro, a dynamic talent from Brisbane, who has embraced change with open arms. Eliza shares her inspiring journey of relocating to Vancouver and making the bold career transition from physiotherapy to pursuing her passion as a musical director in theatre. Tune in as we celebrate her incredible journey, the power of embracing change, and the vibrant world of the arts! Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @elizajdecastro, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

Another very special guest! Our big sister Mary Go shares her journey of navigating a unique mix of cultural identities while transitioning from architecture to teaching. Mary discusses the challenges and rewards of this career shift, how resilience has shaped their path, and the lessons learned from balancing multiple cultures. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about adaptation, growth, and the power of resilience! Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @marypaulinego, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]! 

Our first guest ever! Yuu Lim joins us to share his journey from Malaysia to Brisbane, building a life that we never thought was possible as young queer kids, his journey of acceptance and what it’s like to set healthy boundaries in a conservative Asian household! Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @kevvy.yuu, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

Valentine's day just passed, and in this episode we explore how we experience love, the importance of understanding love languages, and how growing up in an Asian household made affection feel awkward. Thanks to everyone who's tuned in—if you haven't, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. Don’t forget to send us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected]!

This week, we dive into the vibrant festivities of Lunar New Year, exploring what the Year of the Snake means for us "Wood Piggies" and the significance of the traditions we’ve carried from our home countries. We also talk about how these traditions help us cope with homesickness and create a sense of home, no matter where we are. A big thank you to everyone who's tuned in already—if you haven't yet, please rate and follow us on Instagram @youdoopod, @mat.tn.vo, and @vincentzshio. And don't forget to email us your "You Doo?" or "You Don’t?" segments at [email protected].

Welcome to You Doo? a podcast where we explore everything , Asian and identity hosted by Mathew Vo (@mat.tn.vo) and Vince Buendicho (@vincentzshio). In our FIRST episode ever, we talk about how sharing tacos behind a car in a parking-lot sparked this podcast, our experiences moving from Australia to LA and Vancouver, surviving Architecture school and contemplate everything that YOU DO. Thanks for tuning in and follow us on IG @youdoopod for all the latest content.