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  • Tuesdays With Tim | Relationship Red Flags And Deal Breakers

    What are the things you look for in an ideal partner? What are your deal breakers? Will you let a single pet peeve outweigh their entire personality? It’s true that getting into a serious relationship is no joke, but knowing who to get into a relationship with is even harder. Christina and Tim sit together for another episode to discuss how setting up boundaries and deal-breakers are essential in establishing a healthy relationship. Listen in as they share their personal deal breakers, so you can set and be clear with yours.

    20 min
  • Experiences On Tinder: Understanding A Man's Perspective

    If you're dating on Tinder, then you can relate to these horrible experiences Christina went through. In this episode, Christina shares with Tim how men can be confusing with their mixed signals. Why do they say they're interested then ignore you afterward? Join in the conversation and dive deep into a man's perspective as Tim shares some dating advice and explains some characteristics of men that women find very attractive and send them over the moon. You’d want to tune in to this episode before you make that swipe!

    13 min
  • Tuesday with Tim | Meeting Expectations: Am I Setting The Bar Too High?

    After discussing how to fulfill them, Christina now focuses the discussion on meeting expectations. This time, she opens up about her own dating life. Christina shares how she started a situationship with a guy living in another state and why she dreads that he cannot deliver according to her hopes and expectations. Christina explains how this impacts her divorce decree and what she must do to put an end to her worries. She even discusses her current dilemma: what to do when the guy has already seen her messages but still refuses to reply minutes later.


    36 min
  • The Dating App Round Up With Melissa

    In the last episode, Christina talked about her experiences with dating apps and gave her insights on their use. In this follow-up episode, Christina talks to Melissa about her experiences on dating apps and meeting potential dates online. We get to hear what she thinks of the difference in today’s dating modes and why dating apps aren’t all that hot. We also get to hear some thoughts on why dating apps don’t always hit that sweet spot for many. Tune in and get more insights on modern dating.

    39 min
  • Tuesdays With Tim: How To Speak Your Love Language

    Do you know what your love languages are? In today’s episode, Christina is once again joined by Tim to talk about love languages and how the concept applies to real-life relationships. There are five types: quality time, receiving gifts, physical touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation. They share their top love languages and dig deep to understand why they are what they are. Tim also opens up about using the concept to better understand his wife and elevate his marriage life. Listen in on their discussion and see why it’s important for you to know about your love language with or without a relationship.

    28 min
  • Dating Apps: Insights And Experiences

    Dating apps are a mixed bag. For every sweet and romantic story, we get a tale of a horrible experience. In this episode, Christina discusses her experiences on dating apps and passes her verdict. She talks about unresponsive matches and ghosting, and take a peek at the struggles of dating for the thirty-something crowd. Tune in and learn more on Christina’s take on dating apps.

    18 min
  • Tuesdays With Tim: Let Your Kid Talk To You Not The Internet With Tim

    No thanks to technology, today’s kids are getting more spoiled every day. How can you be there for your kids and get them talk to talk to you, face to face? Get some expert parenting advice with your host, Christina, and Tim. Join them as they discuss various topics about parenting, from mental health issues to questioning sexuality. Learn how children can fabricate lies so that they can fit in with their friends. Go and talk with your children so that they don't end up searching for misinformation on the internet. 

    53 min
  • How Your Dreams Reflect Your Need For Affection

    Have you ever had a dream that just feels real? So real that you can feel and smell it? Join your host, Christina as she talks about a very specific dream that involves the cartel and loving affection. I hope you’re interested because Christina sure is. Learn if your dreams are reflecting how your life, in this case, the lack of affection. Listen and understand if having a dream about human connection is normal. Discover what it means today.

    8 min
  • Tuesdays With Tim: Your Weekly Dose Of Conversation Between Two Old Friends

    In a world that is spinning so fast, there is nothing like a good conversation with an old friend to ground you back into the simple life. Are you in for a weekly catch-up among two friends, simply speaking their truth and experiences? Then you’re in for a treat! Christina sits down with her high school friend, Tim, every Tuesday for a weekly round of sharing their rich experiences in life, the lessons they learned, and their insights into the fast-changing world and its future. In this bite-sized episode, have a taste of what is to come as Tim talks about the events that led to his entering the military to the depression separation he felt later on. Join Christina on this ride every Tuesday with Tim! 

    5 min
  • Tuesdays With Tim: On Love, Marriage, And Parenting

    Young love. We all had it, but now that we're parents, we can't help but get concerned about our children exploring the world of dating and intimate relationships. Nevertheless, these are experiences worth having. Kicking off the regular segment called Tuesdays with Tim, Christina Paxton introduces her high school friend, Tim, who will join us every Tuesday to explore various topics from love to life and everything in between. In this pilot episode of the segment, Tim and Christina take a deep dive into dating and relationships. They share their experiences in trying to find love and connection, starting from high school to the married life. Each with their own lessons and insights, they talk about the things they learned along the way and how their idea of love has evolved. Tim also shares more about his life, including his experiences in the military dealing with PTSD, parenting and social media, and overall family life. Join him and Christina as they bare it all, speaking straight from their heart, truth, and experiences.

    40 min

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