You Get What You Give

Christina considers her 11th wedding anniversary as a mark of her winning moment. In her third year of independence, Christina takes us in on a journey of how she managed to get through her day. She walks us through what her morning looked like and how she spent her time enjoying the sunrise, the quiet, and the breeze. Christina recalls how she took her heartbreak and crawled up from the depths of hell to figure things out. Listen in and join us in a celebration of her self-awareness, independence, and self-love.

An expectation is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. In this episode, Christina explains why the general problem with today’s society is lazy expectations. You have to be intentional at fulfilling it. So if you’re looking for a fulfilling relationship, have a conversation with your partner about your goals. If the other person does not take the opportunity to fulfill your expectation, the relationship will go nowhere, and you’re wasting your time. Don’t miss out on this episode!

Juggling dating while also taking care of raising children can be overwhelming. In this episode, Christina opens up about what dating, or lack of it, has been like for her after divorce and while doing her best as a single parent. She also talks about what prompted this topic—a recent crush she met on one of her son’s games. Listen in as Christina talks about her struggle with online dating, and why she’s looking to give away some control in her next relationship.

Casual dating is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex without demanding the additional commitments of a more formal relationship. In this episode, Christina shares about the casual dating experience she’s currently onto and the rules you need to know about. First rule: if you don't want anything serious, the person you’re dating must know that from the beginning. Do you want to learn more about the rules of casual dating? Then this episode’s for you. Tune in!

Making the decision to start a family can be a complicated, yet exciting, process. But choosing to stop having babies can be, too. With various factors surrounding this choice, there is never a one-size-fits-all resolution. Today, Christina shares her reasons for saying no more to having babies. A single mother of three, she retells the things she had to go through that made her arrive at this life decision. 

Physical, mental, and emotional stress and exhaustion can take a toll. You need to remember to take care of yourself when you feel down. In this episode, Christina shares her past week’s experience battling exhaustion. We hear about her struggles with other people and what she did to recharge and reenergize herself. Tune in for more of Christina and her experiences in this special episode.

It's time for more Tuesdays with Tim! This time, Tim and Christina talk about living with intention and facing your fear of attachment. Tim talks to Christina about her talking to the local baseball coach. Tim shares insights on why he thinks Christina isn't approaching the man, and encourages her to give it a try. After all, what's the worst that could happen? Tune in for more great talk from Tim and Christina and share in their unique friendship and outlook on relationships.

Situationships can put a damper on a person’s sex life. While maintaining a healthy sexual relationship can be difficult for couples in such circumstances, there are alternatives that can actually help. In this episode, Christina sits down with her friends Jamie and Brittney to talk about sex toys and orgasms. They share their experiences with getting these exciting toys and why men should not be shy of using these. Learn, laugh, and love with these ladies as they discuss relationships for thirty-somethings today.

In today's episode of You Get What You Give, it's Tuesdays With Tim! Join Christina and Tim as they play a game of “Would You Rather.” Listen in as they ask important questions like would you rather have lobster claws or hedge clippers for hands? Would you rather have Velcro hands or Velcro feet? Would you rather be germaphobic with OCD or have multiple fun personalities? Find out their crazy answers and more in today's episode! 

Parenting is tough enough, but with all the judgemental moms everywhere, it's even tougher than we thought it would be. We don't realize that each of us has a different parenting style that fits our child's needs. It is absolutely no fun to deal with. In this episode, Christina talks about the six types of judgemental moms. We all judge, but some of them judge out loud, and it gets frustrating. We have to stop competing but instead start to support each other because being a mom is the hardest job in the world. If our children are happy and alive, that's what matters. Gain perspective and remember that we have our own decisions, which doesn't make us bad parents.