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When you know you want to become a mother… but the man hasn’t arrived?

For Reema Kiran, there came a point where waiting for the traditional order of partner, marriage, then baby meant potentially giving up something she knew she deeply wanted: motherhood.

So she chose another path.

In this episode, I sit down with Reema, single mother by choice and founder of Choice Mom Coach, to talk honestly about what it takes to choose motherhood on your own terms.

From six medicated IUIs and two rounds of IVF, to donor sperm, unexplained infertility and the heartbreak of embryos not making it through genetic testing Reema’s journey to her daughter was anything but straightforward.

But this conversation goes far beyond fertility.

We talk about grieving the fairytale you thought your life would follow, navigating cultural and family expectations, being called selfish for choosing solo motherhood, and some of the wildly unhelpful things people say when you’re going through fertility treatment.

And for the woman quietly wondering, “Could I actually do this?” Reema shares what she wishes she knew earlier, why getting information about your fertility matters, and why exploring your options doesn’t mean you’ve committed to any of them.

Because sometimes the life you deeply want doesn’t arrive in the order you were taught it should.

🌸Connect with Reema Kiran
📲@choicemomcoach
📕Book: Choice Mom: An Empowering Guide to Becoming a Single Mother by Choice
www.choicemomcoach.com

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What if the hardest person you've ever had to make peace with... is you?

Meet Shani Chantel. Curve model. Self-acceptance shero. Mumma. Speaker. A big-hearted, empathetic badass who's made it her mission to break every rule that told women to shrink, mask, and pretend they're fine.

But Shani didn't arrive here by accident. She fought for it.

In this episode she gets real about self-acceptance, what she calls the longest journey there is. Not a destination you arrive at, but daily work. The kind that asks you to keep choosing yourself, even when everything in you wants to abandon ship.

Shani shares the turning point that changed everything: becoming a mum, and realising the self-hatred she'd been carrying for years was never actually hers. It was handed to her by an absent father, by society, by a world that profits from women feeling not enough. And she made a decision. She wasn't passing it down to her daughter.

We talk about unmasking after a late autism and ADHD diagnosis. The self-forgiveness practice that cracked her open (this bit is everything). And why she walked away from the fake, gatekept world of women's "empowerment" events to do the real work instead.

This is the conversation for any woman who's ever felt like she had to hold it all together. Who's tired of the performance. Who's ready to actually come home to herself.

Shani is proof: you're not too much. You never were.

Have a listen, girlfriend. This one's a force. 🔥

🌸Connect with Shani Chantel
📲@shani.chantel
https://www.tiktok.com/@shanichantel

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Women got sold the idea that pleasure has an expiry date. That once you hit midlife, menopause, or "a certain age" that part of you just quietly switches off.

Penny van der Sluys is here to call that what it is: a lie.

In this episode, Penny shares how she went from working in psychology and HR to becoming a pleasure activist and what she's learned about desire, aliveness, and the female body along the way. Because pleasure isn't something we lose with age. It's life force energy. And it's available to us at every single stage, if we know how to reconnect to it.

We get into why so many of us were never taught about our own bodies, why female pleasure still gets treated as an afterthought, and the difference between responsive and spontaneous desire (this one's a game-changer if you've ever thought something was "wrong" with you).

Penny also shares the simple, practical ways to start coming home to yourself, small daily check-ins, removing what drains you, and reconnecting to what actually makes you feel alive.

Midlife isn't the end of anything. It might just be the beginning of the most connected, alive version of you yet.

Have a listen, girlfriend.

🌸Connect with Penny van der Sluys
📲@pennyvandersluys
https://pennyvandersluys.com/

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Everyone assumes they know what a male escort does.

But when George Goulburn sat down with me, he flipped the whole thing on its head.

Because the women who come to him aren't really paying for sex. They're paying to feel something. To be seen. To be listened to. To be taken care of without having to hold it all together for once. A lot of them are high-functioning, capable women who give so much to everyone else and George is the one place they get to just receive.

That's what really got me. He's not selling sex. He's offering presence. The kind of attention and care that makes a woman feel alive again in a way she might not have in years.

And here's where it gets interesting for the blokes listening, George reckons this is exactly what men are missing. So many think money and sex is the way to a woman, when what she's actually craving is connection. To be met. To feel something real. Men are spending all this energy on the wrong things and wondering why it's not landing.

In this episode we get into what women actually want, what men keep getting wrong, why so many women are walking around starved of real connection, and what it genuinely means to know how to take care of someone.

It's honest, a little confronting, and probably not the conversation you're expecting.

Have a listen, girlfriend.

🌸Connect with George Goulburn
📲@georgegoulburnofficial
https://www.georgegoulburn.com/

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We all have a dark side.

The toxic patterns that creep in when we're scared, dysregulated, or protecting ourselves. Women do it one way, men do it another, but it comes from the same place.

Here's what most people miss though: the real sabotage isn't the pattern. It's refusing to own it.

In this one I get raw about how we self-destruct, why we do it, and what actually changes when we stop blaming everyone else and take responsibility for our part.

It's not about making anyone wrong. It's about seeing what's really going on, in ourselves and the people we love.

Because once you see it, you can't un-see it.

Have a listen, girlfriend.

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www.yougobro.com.au
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It started with wanting to be healthy.

That's how it starts for so many people. Clean eating. Cutting out certain foods. Following what social media tells you is "wellness."

And then it takes over your life.

In this episode, I sit down with Ashlee Thomas, founder of The Secret Burden, a platform and charity supporting people with eating disorders, to hear her story.

Ashlee developed an eating disorder from what looked like harmless "healthy eating" content online. What started as wanting to feel good in her body became something that consumed her.

She shares what it was like to go through it, how her family helped her survive, and why she wrote her book Surviving the Jungle to help others who are walking the same path.

We talk about:

This conversation is honest, grounded and deeply important.

If you or someone you know has struggled with disordered eating or if you just want to understand it better, this one's for you.

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🌸 Connect with Ashlee Thomas + The Secret Burden Charity
📲@thesecretburdencharity
https://www.thesecretburden.org.au/
📲@ashlee.thomas

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Why are so many ambitious women afraid to lean into their own success?

In this conversation, I sat down with Lezly Kaye, business and relationship coach who's helped her clients generate over $80 million in results, to talk about what it actually takes to build success without abandoning yourself in the process.

Lezly's story isn't a straight line. Raised by her grandparents, she found herself in a work environment that wasn't serving her and made the decision to leave and build something on her own terms.

And she didn't just build a business. She built million-dollar success while staying rooted in her feminine embodiment, something she now teaches other women to do.

Because here's the truth: success doesn't require you to become harder, more masculine, or more "aggressive." You don't have to lose yourself to win.

In this episode, we talk about:

If you've ever felt like success means you have to become someone you're not, this one's for you.

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🌸Connect with Lezly Kaye
📲@lezlykaye
www.lezlykaye.co

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Let's be honest about dating.

Most people aren't dating with intention. They're dating for attention.

External validation. Company. The idea of someone. Not the reality of co-existing with another soul who's going to trigger you, redirect you, and break you apart in ways you didn't see coming.

Because here's what nobody tells you: dating isn't about being 100% yourself. It's messy. It's uncomfortable. It brings up everything you've been avoiding.

And if you're not intentional about that, if you're just open to the idea of having someone come into your life, you're not actually available. You're just lonely.

In this episode, I get vulnerable about my own past with dating. The times I confused attention for connection. The times I thought I was ready when I was really just seeking validation.

And I talk about what it actually means to be available for a relationship.

Not just open to it. Not just wanting company.

But ready to have your triggers surfaced. Ready to be broken apart and rebuilt. Ready to co-exist with another soul, not just fill the space next to you.

If you've been dating but wondering why it never feels right, this one's for you.

Are you seeking attention or are you actually intentional?

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Men, ready to lean in?
📲@yougobro_
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You've been told vulnerability is weakness. What if you've been lied to?

Let me ask you...
When was the last time you let yourself soften instead of bracing?

When did you last admit you don't have all the answers and didn't immediately feel like you'd lost?

Vulnerability gets a bad rap. We've been conditioned to think it's weakness. That showing emotion means you're less powerful. That being real makes you less worthy.

But what if that's completely backwards?

What if vulnerability isn't what happens when you're weak, but what happens when you're grounded enough to stop pretending?

I recorded this episode sitting on my bed. Washing machine going. Lawnmower outside. Everything is open and raw.

Because that's what this conversation is about: being willing to show up as you are, not as you think you should be.

In this episode, I talk about what it actually means to flirt with discomfort instead of running from it. Why? Your body knows the difference between bracing and softening. And how most of us have lost the ability to sense where we even are anymore emotionally, physically, energetically.

I also share a word I learned from my Vocabulary app (proprioception - stick with me, it's good) and why it matters more than you think.

If you've been performing strength, holding it all together, or white-knuckling your way through life, this one's for you.

What if you stopped running from vulnerability and started playing with it?

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www.yougogirlfriend.com.au
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You Go Bro 🩵💚
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📲@yougobro_
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What a privilege to be able to speak up for ourselves. To advocate. To assert boundaries. To negotiate for our dream life one conversation at a time.

In this episode, I sit down with Trang Nova, speaking coach for women and TEDx speaker to talk about the power, privilege, and responsibility that comes with having a voice.

Trang shares something that stopped me in my tracks:

We owe it to the women who have never had a voice. And more importantly, we owe it to ourselves.

Because we have this gift. This opportunity. And so many women throughout history and still today have never had it.

So why not use it?

This conversation is about more than public speaking. It's about showing up fully in your relationships, your business, your life. It's about recognizing that every time you open your mouth, you have the potential to change someone's life with just a few words.

If you've ever held back, stayed quiet, or convinced yourself your voice doesn't matter, this episode is for you.

Your voice is powerful. And it's a privilege to use it.

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🌸Connect with Trang Nova
📲@trang_nova
trangnova.com

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