Is it really about the socks… or is it about having to ask 100 times? 👀

This week on You Know How We Talk, Chanel and Dorian debate the “socks on the floor” perspective: Are we so focused on the little things our partners do wrong that we forget to appreciate everything they do right? Or is “at least they come home” just another way of lowering the bar?

From there, we get into what healthy love actually looks like. Is healthy love sometimes boring? Can love survive without friendship? Should you ever go to bed angry? And what happens when a small request you’ve made over and over starts to feel like disrespect?

We also get personal about the hardest lessons relationships have taught us—and the things an ex or current partner told us about ourselves that we eventually had to admit might’ve been true. 😭

Then we close it out with YES OR NO ONLY rapid fire: cheating, passwords, prenups, exes, location sharing, separate bank accounts, sex, soulmates and more.

No “it depends.” No explanations. Just pick a side. 😂

🎙️ You Know How We TalkHosted by Chanel & Dorian

Everybody says they want a good partner—but can they actually handle one?

This episode dives into the uncomfortable conversations around modern relationships, accountability, and unrealistic expectations. We debate what submission really means, whether a dead bedroom changes the conversation around cheating, what it means to fumble a good person, and whether you’ve ever been the one who got away.

Plus, we discuss dating across different religions, birthday gifts early in relationships, who’s more likely to play the victim, who’s lying more in relationships, and wrap everything up with a hilarious—and brutally honest—round of Choose Your Poison.

No filters. No safe answers. Just the conversations everyone is thinking about but few are willing to have.

Everybody wants peace, communication, and a healthy relationship—until healthy starts to feel boring.

This week, we’re debating whether people are truly ready for healthy love, how long it would take to notice a partner is cheating, whether competition belongs in relationships, and if you’d choose love with no money or money with no love. We also discuss tipping culture, solo trips, hugs outside your relationship, the end of the BBL era, announcing you’re single online, and one of the biggest relationship dealbreakers: What if your partner doesn’t want your family in your house?

No safe answers. Just honest conversations and opinions that are guaranteed to start a debate.

Some conversations don’t have a right answer—just honest opinions.

This week, Kool & B join us for an episode where nobody plays it safe. We debate whether your partner should get the front seat over your mom, who has it harder between men and women, whether unconditional love actually exists, and if successful women intimidate men.

We also get into why B is against girls trips, whether it’s okay to ask your partner for permission to go out, who really makes more money between the genders, and several other topics guaranteed to divide the room.

No filters. No easy answers. Just real conversations, different perspectives, and opinions that might challenge your own.

Everybody talks about cheating, lying, and betrayal as relationship killers—but what if the real problem is comfort?

This week, we’re discussing what happens when people stop trying, why some relationships change after the chase is over, and whether social media is making it harder for people to stay connected in real life. We also debate forgiveness, moving on, exes who can’t let go, and why some people never get the same version of you after they’ve hurt you.

Along the way, we ask:

* Do people get too comfortable once they’re in a relationship?

* Why do some people hide who’s really buying them gifts?

* What are you actually willing to sacrifice for the relationship you say you want?

* Can you truly forgive someone if they never get the version of you that existed before the hurt?

Sometimes the relationship survives the conflict. The real question is whether it survives the comfort.

This week, rapper Bumble Bee joins the conversation as we tackle some of the biggest relationship debates people can’t seem to agree on.

Would you tell your friend if you saw their partner cheating? Is a baby outside the relationship an automatic dealbreaker? Should side chicks and side dudes share the blame, or does responsibility belong solely to the person in the relationship? We also discuss secret children, public embarrassment, social media relationships, dating a friend’s ex, and whether some betrayals are simply impossible to come back from.

Different perspectives. No easy answers. Just honest conversation.

🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday. Follow, rate, and share the podcast if you enjoy the discussion.

Everybody has an opinion. Everybody thinks they’re right. But when it comes to relationships, loyalty, boundaries, dating, and accountability, somebody has to be wrong.

This week, we’re discussing the conversations that always seem to divide people. The questions that make people pick sides, challenge each other’s perspectives, and defend their beliefs.

There are no easy answers in this one—just honest opinions, real experiences, and a reminder that sometimes two people can see the same situation completely differently.

Everybody Can’t Be Right. 🎙️

Listen now and decide for yourself.

This week, we’re joined by the ladies from Yall Eavesdropping for a conversation that proves not every question has a safe answer.

From child support and co-parenting to dating, double standards, accountability, and modern relationships, four different perspectives came together for one unforgettable discussion. Some opinions aligned. Others didn’t. But every topic sparked a conversation worth having.

Four perspectives. Zero safe answers.

Grief doesn’t always come one loss at a time.

In this episode of “You Know How We Talk,” we sit down for one of our most emotional conversations yet. From being an only child, to losing his mother, to experiencing another tragedy during the repast, our guest opens up about the mental and emotional weight of trying to survive back-to-back losses while still showing up for the people who depend on him.

We talk about grief, fatherhood, depression in men, emotional isolation, staying strong for everybody else, and what healing actually looks like when life keeps testing you.

This conversation is for anybody carrying pain silently.

“Two Funerals, One Family” is our final Mental Health Awareness Month installment.

New episodes drop every Wednesday at 9AM.

#MentalHealth #Grief #MensMentalHealth #Fatherhood #Podcast #Trauma #Healing #YouKnowHowWeTalk

For the third episode of our Mental Health Month series, we decided to interview each other.

In this conversation, we speak openly about trauma, grief, prison, loss, relationships, pressure, and the impact those experiences had on our mental health. Behind the podcast personalities are real people still trying to process life in real time.

This episode is honest, uncomfortable, emotional, and necessary.

Behind The Mic | Our Trauma, Grief & Mental Health Journey is a reminder that healing doesn’t always look perfect — sometimes it starts with finally talking about it.