YouKnowHowWeTalk

YouKnowHowWeTalk

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YouKnowHowWeTalk episodes

  • Everybody Wants a Good Person… Until They Find One

    Everybody says they want a good partner—but can they actually handle one?


    This episode dives into the uncomfortable conversations around modern relationships, accountability, and unrealistic expectations. We debate what submission really means, whether a dead bedroom changes the conversation around cheating, what it means to fumble a good person, and whether you’ve ever been the one who got away.


    Plus, we discuss dating across different religions, birthday gifts early in relationships, who’s more likely to play the victim, who’s lying more in relationships, and wrap everything up with a hilarious—and brutally honest—round of Choose Your Poison.


    No filters. No safe answers. Just the conversations everyone is thinking about but few are willing to have.

    1 hr 5 min
  • Everybody Wants Peace… Until They’re Bored

    Everybody wants peace, communication, and a healthy relationship—until healthy starts to feel boring.


    This week, we’re debating whether people are truly ready for healthy love, how long it would take to notice a partner is cheating, whether competition belongs in relationships, and if you’d choose love with no money or money with no love. We also discuss tipping culture, solo trips, hugs outside your relationship, the end of the BBL era, announcing you’re single online, and one of the biggest relationship dealbreakers: What if your partner doesn’t want your family in your house?


    No safe answers. Just honest conversations and opinions that are guaranteed to start a debate.

    1 hr
  • No Safe Answers ft. Kool & B

    Some conversations don’t have a right answer—just honest opinions.


    This week, Kool & B join us for an episode where nobody plays it safe. We debate whether your partner should get the front seat over your mom, who has it harder between men and women, whether unconditional love actually exists, and if successful women intimidate men.


    We also get into why B is against girls trips, whether it’s okay to ask your partner for permission to go out, who really makes more money between the genders, and several other topics guaranteed to divide the room.


    No filters. No easy answers. Just real conversations, different perspectives, and opinions that might challenge your own.

    1 hr 16 min
  • Comfort Kills More Relationships Than Conflict

    Everybody talks about cheating, lying, and betrayal as relationship killers—but what if the real problem is comfort?


    This week, we’re discussing what happens when people stop trying, why some relationships change after the chase is over, and whether social media is making it harder for people to stay connected in real life. We also debate forgiveness, moving on, exes who can’t let go, and why some people never get the same version of you after they’ve hurt you.


    Along the way, we ask:


    * Do people get too comfortable once they’re in a relationship?

    * Why do some people hide who’s really buying them gifts?

    * What are you actually willing to sacrifice for the relationship you say you want?

    * Can you truly forgive someone if they never get the version of you that existed before the hurt?


    Sometimes the relationship survives the conflict. The real question is whether it survives the comfort.

    1 hr 10 min
  • Mind Your Business or Tell the Truth? | Cheating, Secret Kids & Exes ft. Bumble Bee

    This week, rapper Bumble Bee joins the conversation as we tackle some of the biggest relationship debates people can’t seem to agree on.


    Would you tell your friend if you saw their partner cheating? Is a baby outside the relationship an automatic dealbreaker? Should side chicks and side dudes share the blame, or does responsibility belong solely to the person in the relationship? We also discuss secret children, public embarrassment, social media relationships, dating a friend’s ex, and whether some betrayals are simply impossible to come back from.


    Different perspectives. No easy answers. Just honest conversation.


    🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday. Follow, rate, and share the podcast if you enjoy the discussion.

    53 min
  • Everybody Can’t Be Right

    Everybody has an opinion. Everybody thinks they’re right. But when it comes to relationships, loyalty, boundaries, dating, and accountability, somebody has to be wrong.


    This week, we’re discussing the conversations that always seem to divide people. The questions that make people pick sides, challenge each other’s perspectives, and defend their beliefs.


    There are no easy answers in this one—just honest opinions, real experiences, and a reminder that sometimes two people can see the same situation completely differently.


    Everybody Can’t Be Right. 🎙️


    Listen now and decide for yourself.

    1 hr 3 min
  • Four Perspectives. Zero Safe Answers. | Featuring Yall Eavesdropping

    This week, we’re joined by the ladies from Yall Eavesdropping for a conversation that proves not every question has a safe answer.


    From child support and co-parenting to dating, double standards, accountability, and modern relationships, four different perspectives came together for one unforgettable discussion. Some opinions aligned. Others didn’t. But every topic sparked a conversation worth having.


    Four perspectives. Zero safe answers.

    1 hr 14 min
  • Two Losses. One Family. | Men, Grief & Mental Health

    Grief doesn’t always come one loss at a time.


    In this episode of “You Know How We Talk,” we sit down for one of our most emotional conversations yet. From being an only child, to losing his mother, to experiencing another tragedy during the repast, our guest opens up about the mental and emotional weight of trying to survive back-to-back losses while still showing up for the people who depend on him.


    We talk about grief, fatherhood, depression in men, emotional isolation, staying strong for everybody else, and what healing actually looks like when life keeps testing you.


    This conversation is for anybody carrying pain silently.


    “Two Funerals, One Family” is our final Mental Health Awareness Month installment.


    New episodes drop every Wednesday at 9AM.


    #MentalHealth #Grief #MensMentalHealth #Fatherhood #Podcast #Trauma #Healing #YouKnowHowWeTalk

    1 hr
  • Behind The Mic | Our Trauma, Grief & Mental Health Journey

    For the third episode of our Mental Health Month series, we decided to interview each other.


    In this conversation, we speak openly about trauma, grief, prison, loss, relationships, pressure, and the impact those experiences had on our mental health. Behind the podcast personalities are real people still trying to process life in real time.


    This episode is honest, uncomfortable, emotional, and necessary.


    Behind The Mic | Our Trauma, Grief & Mental Health Journey is a reminder that healing doesn’t always look perfect — sometimes it starts with finally talking about it.

    53 min
  • What’s Next? | Siddeeq Shabazz On Grief, Paralysis & Finding Purpose

    This week we sit down with Siddeeq Shabazz for a raw conversation about grief, trauma, survival, fatherhood, and mental health.

    Siddeeq shares the emotional impact of losing his best friend and mother, how cycling became therapy for him, and how his life changed after surviving a robbery that left him paralyzed.

    Throughout the episode one thought kept resurfacing: “What’s next?”

    This is a conversation about learning how to keep going even when life changes forever.

    59 min

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🎙️ YouKnowHowWeTalk with Chanel & Dorian is where real talk meets real life. Born from daily Instagram conversations, this podcast goes deep with honest chats, zero boundaries, and no secrets. We…