Explore the intimate corners of human experience with us, as my friend Jacq, an academic scholar, shares profound insights on sexuality and liberation. From the roots of prostitution and pornography to the personal struggle for acceptance, this episode promises a deep dive into the human psyche and society's evolving views. Witness the transformative power of college life, where identity and belief systems intertwine to forge new paths towards self-discovery and enlightenment.

Venture into the cultural tapestry of Japan as we examine its impact on the global perception of sexuality through the lens of hentai and its historical context. Jacq provides a detailed exploration of the complexities surrounding the hypersexualization of Japanese women and the ethical considerations of animated pornography. This is coupled with a robust debate on the legalization and respect for sex workers, offering perspectives that may challenge your own. And for those navigating the intricacies of gender roles and spiritual growth, our candid discussion on gender identity, religious exploration, and finding one's own path amidst cultural and societal pressures will resonate on a deeply personal level.

Finally, join us as we reflect on the universal themes of love, parenting, and acceptance, set against the backdrop of cultural diversity and personal evolution. From the bustling streets of Punjab, India, to the quiet moments of parental reflection, this episode is a heartwarming tapestry woven with stories of courage, change, and the enduring quest for understanding. Jacq's journey through motherhood and partnership across cultures offers a rare glimpse into the dance of tradition and modernity, reminding us all of the power of empathy and the importance of embracing every individual's unique self-expression.

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TikTok:

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Email:

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References:

Wild Rose Women's Festival: https://www.wildrosesfestival.com/

Hentai

Black Bible

Shinto Religion: https://asiasociety.org/education/shinto#:~:text=A Japanese Religion,relation with the human inhabitants.

The Satanist Website

Timestamps:

(04:17 - 05:51) Exploring Hentai and Animated Porn (93 Seconds)

Keywords:

Sexuality, Liberation, Prostitution, Pornography, Japan, Hentai, Child Pornography, Religious Upbringing, Gender Identity, Sexual Awakening, College Life, Self-Discovery, Sex Education, Intimate Relationships, Spirituality, Parenting, Cultural Differences, Gender Roles, Acceptance, Safe Sex

When Garrett stepped into the studio, little did we know that our conversation would unfold into a tapestry of identity, sexuality, and the beauty of self-acceptance. As a two-spirit, heteroflexible, panromantic, trans man who revels in the fluidity of his non-binary existence, his insights offer a rare glimpse into a world where labels are both personal signposts and bridges to deeper understanding. His stories are ones of courage and the pursuit of authenticity, reflecting not just his journey but echoing the experiences of many who navigate the diverse spectrum of human identity.

Within the heart of our discussion lie the tender threads of relationships, compassion, and mental health, all woven together with the candid threads of Garrett's life. From the nuances of polyamory to the significance of how we relate to our mothers and what it reveals about us, each anecdote serves as a lesson in empathy. The challenges of academia through the lens of a student with mental health accommodations unravel into a hopeful vision of an inclusive, supportive learning environment. Garrett reminds us of the power of mentors and the dream of an educational system that champions individuality and interactive learning without the stress of group work.

As our conversation dances through the realms of two-spirit identity in indigenous communities to the transformative experiences of transitioning, we bear witness to the resilience of queer voices. Garrett's personal narratives of family acceptance, the sacredness of oral history, and the spiritual reconnection with heritage are profound testaments to the power of embracing one's entire being. Moreover, we celebrate the empowering journey from sex work to financial independence through artisanship, challenging societal norms and forging a path toward fulfillment and autonomy. This episode is a mosaic of life's complexities, an invitation to listen, learn, and perhaps see the world through Garrett's inspiring lens.

Social Media:

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/hailey.sutherland_/

https://www.instagram.com/visual.siren/

Timestamps:

(07:40 - 09:14) Relationship Boundaries and Polyamory (94 Seconds)

Keywords:

Identity, Sexuality, Self-Acceptance, Two-Spirit, Heteroflexible, Panromantic, Trans Man, Non-Binary, Labels, Relationships, Mental Health, Academia, Indigenous, Queerness, Empathy, Polyamory, Gender Presentation, Sex Work, Financial Independence, Artisanship, Crafting, Teaching, Online Sales

Join us for a powerful exploration of gender identity and societal norms as our special guest, Garrett, shares their journey as a two-spirit, hetero-flexible, panromantic, transgender, non-binary man. Listen in as they reveal the complexities of navigating romantic attractions and gender identity in a world that often clings to rigid constructs. Garrett's candid discussion about their encounters with misgendering offers a unique perspective, treating it as a social experiment that uncovers underlying societal attitudes.

The intersection of online behaviors and real-world consequences brought a sobering tone to our exchange as we dove into the perils faced by LGBTQ+ youth in the digital age. Garrett's personal revelations about the trauma of being mislabeled online served as a stark reminder of the fragility of safety and the importance of creating supportive environments. The conversation shifts to the significance of drag queen story times and the critical message of acceptance they convey to young minds. We examine the potential risks posed by policies that could force educators to disclose a student's sexual orientation, and we reflect on the often unacknowledged high suicide rates within the trans community.

Wrapping up with a powerful discourse, we traversed the landscape of Garrett's life experiences, from the lingering sting of high school bullying to the profound need for genuine apologies. Stories of growing up with the freedom to explore gender, yet being confronted with harsh social norms, offered listeners a window into the resilience required to navigate a world that doesn't always make space for difference. In sharing these narratives, we extend an invitation to our audience: to listen, to learn, and to understand the breadth of experiences within the queer community as we champion the ongoing fight for acceptance and the courage to be oneself.

Social Media:

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/hailey.sutherland_/

https://www.instagram.com/visual.siren/

Timestamps:

(01:56 - 04:02) Perceptions of Gender Identity (126 Seconds)

Keywords:

LGBTQ+, Gender Identity, Misgendering, Online Abuse, LGBTQ+ Youth, Drag Queen Story Time, Acceptance, Queer Community, Safety, Concerns, Childhood Experiences, Gender Roles, Bullying, Apology, Authenticity, Resilience, Non-binary, Transgender, Two-spirit, Panromantic

Listen in as we delve into a raw and personal transformation, charting the path from a restrictive upbringing to the liberating embrace of the wild woman archetype. We touch on the significance of understanding our bodies through charting and menstrual cycles, the importance of nurturing relationships, and the intimate journey towards self-discovery. Emily from Moujamoon joins the conversation, sharing her expertise on the fertility awareness method and the importance of menstrual meditation, offering valuable insights and resources for those looking to connect with their bodies in a profound and natural way.

We wrap up the episode by contemplating the societal narratives around menstruation and the transformative power of embracing our bodies' natural rhythms. Reflect on the importance of body awareness and how it shapes our identity, whether through cultural challenges abroad or the perception of controversial spiritual practices. This conversation is an invitation to embrace your journey, stand firm in your beliefs, and find freedom in self-expression. Connect with like-minded souls as we uncover the empowering essence of conscious contraception, the healing potential of honoring menstruation, and the profound impact of fertility awareness on women's lives.

Social Media:

Website:

https://www.moujamoon.com/

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/hailey.sutherland_/

https://www.instagram.com/moujamoon/

Timestamps:

(15:27 - 16:49) Connecting Through Shared Experiences (82 Seconds)

Keywords:

Healing, Spiritual Connection, Fertility Awareness, Menstrual Meditation, Conscious Contraception, Body Awareness, Erotic Body, Earth, Menstruation, Personal Growth, Identity, Travel, Witch, Controversial Topics, Fertility Awareness Methods

Join us as we navigate the rich tapestry of queer identity and empowerment, sharing candid stories that range from the trials of overcoming childhood bullying to the triumphs of self-acceptance and community support. We kick off with an honest look at the personal journeys many face when embracing their queer identity, discussing the powerful role language and visibility play in this process. Listen in as we chat about the creation of "Queer as Shirt," a venture that not only offers pride clothing but also serves as a beacon of visibility, and how finding like-minded individuals can be a lifeline for those who have often felt like the black sheep in conventional settings.

In this heartfelt conversation, we unfold the layers of personal identity and the sense of belonging that comes from community connection. Our guest shares their transformation from ally to identifying as queer, with social media playing a crucial role in affirming this newfound identity. As the world emerges post-pandemic, we examine the internal work that isolation spurred and the liberating experience of expressing oneself openly. We also discuss the evolution of pronoun language and the inclusive umbrella term "queer," which offers a comfortable space without the need for specific categorizations.

The narrative shifts to the digital realm as we recount tales of finding love online, underscoring the importance of self-identification and the sense of clarity and community that dating platforms like 'Her' provide. We reflect on the beauty of serendipitous connections and the spontaneity that can lead to meaningful relationships. As we delve into the intricacies of relationships, from managing conflicts to integrating into a family as a step-parent, we emphasize the value of communication and understanding. Wrapping up, we shine a light on the indispensable queer resources in the Edmonton community, illustrating how spaces like Pride Corner and initiatives like Camp Firefly contribute to a supportive environment, and we celebrate the joy and impact of queer-themed businesses like Queer as Shirt. Listen in for a journey that's as vibrant and varied as the rainbow flag itself.

References Made:

PFlag Outloud: https://www.outloudstalbert.ca/programs/pflag

Camp Dragonfly: https://camp-dragonfly.com/

Camp fYrefly: https://www.centreforsexuality.ca/programs-services/2slgbtq-programs/camp-fyrefly/

Pride Centre of Edmonton: https://pridecentreofedmonton.ca/

Janis Irwin: https://janisirwin.albertandp.ca/

Social Media:

Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/QueerAsShirt/?locale=hi_IN

https://www.facebook.com/gayafyeg/

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/queerasshirt/

https://www.instagram.com/hailey.sutherland_/

https://www.instagram.com/gayafyeg/

Timestamps:

(02:03 - 03:30) Bullying, Self-Discovery, and Exploring Labels (87 Seconds)

Keywords:

Queer Identity, Self-Expression, Community, Queer as Shirt, LGBTQ+, Social Media, Pandemic, Inclusive, Online Dating, Love, Relationships, Conflict Management, Parenting, Education, Queer Resources, Pride Gear, Queer-Themed Business, Representation, Pride Center, Safe Spaces, Tie-Dye, Apparel, Political Figures, Advocacy, Joy, Success, Online Business

We've all had moments where we've dimmed our light, suppressed our true selves to blend in with the crowd. This podcast episode is our collective effort to address that, to shatter the shackles of shame that prevent us from being authentic. Alongside poignant personal stories of feeling like outsiders, we invite you on a journey of introspection. We explore the roots of shame, the societal norms that stifle creativity and self-expression, and the profound impact of seeing beyond outward appearances.

The heart of this discussion lies in understanding the power of authenticity and the freedom that comes with self-expression. We sketch a vision of a world unburdened by judgment, where everyone can stand tall in their truth. We stress on empathy, reminding ourselves that each person carries a unique narrative. In our final segment, we delve into the transformative journey of finding safety within ourselves. We advocate for the power of choosing our own safety, of stepping into vulnerability and embracing life fully. So, come join us, as we break barriers and embrace our truth in this enriching conversation.

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Timestamps:

(01:56 - 03:35) Fitting in vs Being Oneself (99 Seconds)

Authenticity, Shame, Self-Expression, Judgment, Vulnerability, Empathy, Creativity, Society, Acceptance, Unique, Personal Experiences, Safe Spaces, Freedom, Transformation, Self-Acceptance, Inner Strength, Overcoming, Barriers, Embracing, Truth

As we navigate the paths of self-discovery and relationship dynamics, we're often faced with the pressures of societal norms and stereotypes. Join us on this enlightening journey with Been as we peel back the layers of identity and examine the intricacies of non-sexual intimacy. With her unique perspective as a cis, queer, polyamorous, and agosexual individual, Been shares invaluable insights and personal experiences that challenge the conventional wisdom surrounding relationships and intimacy.

Breaking away from the traditional binary narrative, we delve into the importance of language and understanding in creating a more accepting society. Been also introduces us to the intriguing concept of compersion – the functional opposite of jealousy – and how it's essential for fostering healthier relationships. We also explore the delicate balance required in relationships to relinquish control and build trust, and the pivotal role that effective communication plays.

In the second half of our engaging conversation, we tackle the topic of anger. How does understanding and verbalizing our anger contribute to healthier relationships? We also delve into how embracing vulnerability and understanding is vital for effective communication. Come along with us on this enlightening journey, as Been helps us understand the significance of embracing our unique identities and breaking free from societal norms. This episode will leave you questioning, learning, and hopefully with a greater acceptance of diversity and an enhanced understanding of relationships.

References Made:

More Than Two - By: Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert (Book)

Speak Peace in a World of Conflict - By: Marshall B. Rosenberg (Book)

Positive Intelligence - Shirzad Chamine

Non-Violent Communication

https://courses.mindbodymedicinetherapy.com/products/courses/view/1139693

Social Media:

Instagram:

@sir_purrseus

@corinneassistant

@hailey.sutherland_

Timestamps:

(00:41 - 01:44) Expressing Opinions and Encouraging Understanding

(05:42 - 06:14) Nuances and Diversity of Gender Identities

(18:47 - 19:49) Understanding New Terms and Normalizing Experiences

(22:56 - 24:44) Discovering and Embracing Agosexuality

(25:27 - 27:53) Non-Sexual Intimacy in Relationships

(30:57 - 32:27) Sexual Intimacy and Appreciating Individuality

(41:24 - 41:51) Journey to Open and Healthy Relationships

(44:03 - 45:13) Transition From Monogamy to Polyamory

(50:19 - 51:01) Polyamory and Sexuality

(54:17 - 55:43) Fluidity and Negotiation in Polyamorous Relationships

Keywords:

Identity, Taboos, Stereotypes, Non-Sexual Intimacy, Compersion, Gender Roles, Control, Relationships, Non-Monogamy, Self-Realization, Communication, Understanding, Anger, Verbalizing, Vulnerability, Acceptance, Diversity, Balance, Trust, Language, Openness

Join us for a thought-provoking discussion with a close friend on gender and sexuality, which was sparked in our university days. We share how our sociology of gender and sexuality class transformed our perspectives on the binary view of gender and encouraged us to embrace the spectrum instead. This chat spans across our experiences with relationships, the trials of puberty, the intricacies of menstrual cycles, and living with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Through these intimate revelations, we hope to resonate with our listeners and offer insights into topics that often remain veiled.

From shared interests in nutrition to pivotal lessons from our philosophy of gender and anthropology of gender classes, our friendship has grown over time. We talk about the ways in which these academic experiences have enriched our understanding of feminism and patriarchy, and how it impacts our lives, particularly in the context of our relationships and parenting. In this episode, we also tackle the Four Horsemen theory, and the importance of understanding and being mindful of our partner's feelings to foster healthier relationships.

Lastly, we venture into the realm of relationship challenges, personal trauma, and the complexities of gender diversity. Listen in as we discuss the influence of Teal Swan's advice on setting boundaries, the necessity of improving sex education in high schools, and the controversies surrounding clothing choices. We shed light on the impact of MS on sexuality and the significance of stress management in dealing with chronic illnesses. This conversation offers a deep understanding of various aspects of life and encourages acceptance and empathy. Tune in and join our exploration of these profound topics.

Social Media:

@hailey.sutherland_

Timestamps:

(02:42 - 03:07) Expressing Gratitude and Overcoming Fear

(06:58 - 08:07) Effects of Patriarchy on Gender Roles

(10:18 - 11:27) Improving Parenting and Child's Behavioral Reactions

(14:30 - 16:28) Breaking Walls, Healing Past Trauma

(18:43 - 19:32) Boundary-Setting and Relationship Issues

(36:53 - 38:57) Exploring Gender and Sexuality Perspectives

(47:39 - 50:22) Gendered Dress Codes and Education

(51:56 - 52:38) Sexual Education

(01:00:10 - 01:01:34) Open Communication About Menstruation in Relationships

(01:08:18 - 01:10:35) Living With Multiple Sclerosis

Keywords:

Gender, Sexuality, Nutrition, Friendship, Parenting, Relationships, Trauma, Communication, Diversity, Clothing, Sex Education, Asexuality, MS, Stress Management, Adolescence, Psychology, Four Horsemen, Teal Swan, Boundaries, Marie Kondo, Youth Ops, Exercise, Eating, Meditation, Mindfulness

Ever thought about how your childhood experiences or societal expectations might be shaping your intimacy and sex life as an adult? Here we are, openly discussing these often taboo topics, shedding light on how elements like trauma, physical ailments, and even our body grooming habits can significantly impact our intimate experiences. Join us in this candid conversation, as we share our personal experiences and insights, ranging from sex education to insecurities and the societal pressures we've encountered.

We recall our explorations of puberty, body awareness, and how we discovered our unique sexual preferences, along with reflections on past relationships and the significant difference between being single and in a committed partnership. We speak on the importance of understanding ourselves, the role of open communication with our partners, and how to gracefully navigate new relationships or sexual activities. Armed with anecdotes and personal stories, we delve into the effects of societal pressures on body hair, aging, and sexuality, challenging misconceptions and expectations that often complicate these discussions.

In this enlightening exchange, we stress the importance of creating a safe space for dialogues on sex and intimacy. We touch on the role of atmosphere, preparation, and personal comfort when exploring our sexuality. From discussing the physical effects of stress on libido to the disparities in menstrual cycles and managing unexpected hormonal changes, we aim to inspire a healthier understanding of sex and intimacy. Tune in, be part of this enlightening discussion, and perhaps, reshape your perspective on intimacy. You wouldn't want to miss out on this eye-opening exchange.

Social Media:

@corrinnaraedonkulous

⁠@hailey.sutherland_⁠

Timestamps:

(15:41 - 17:47) Understanding Different Approaches to Sexual Fantasy

(20:15 - 21:07) Awkward Conversations About Coming

(25:34 - 26:47) Grooming Preferences and Societal Pressure

(39:55 - 41:34) Noticing Genitals and Pleasure in Childhood

(53:40 - 54:31) Single vs. Long-Term Relationships

(58:13 - 58:38) Questioning Identity and Life Goals

(01:03:18 - 01:05:13) Adapting Positions and Overcoming Insecurities

(01:07:40 - 01:09:05) Discussing Xima and Feeling Uncomfortable

(01:13:18 - 01:14:37) Compartmentalizing Pleasure and Discomfort

(01:18:22 - 01:19:57) Importance of Communication and Touch

Keywords:

Sex, Intimacy, Relationships, Puberty, Body Awareness, Communication, Atmosphere, Libido, Menstrual Cycle, Hormonal Changes, Pleasure, Insecurities, Eczema, Body Hair, Grooming Habits, Aging, Societal Pressure, Taboos, Childhood, Teenage Years, Fight or Flight Response, Feminine Hygiene Products

As hosts of this enlightening podcast episode, we took a deep dive into the labyrinth of male emotions, societal norms, and the influential role of sex education. We shared our personal journeys, from the tumultuous tides of adolescence to the calmer waters of maturity, revealing how our relationships with our parents, particularly our fathers, shaped our understanding of manhood and relationships. We also took an intimate look at how anger, often a mask for disappointment or sadness, is a socially acceptable emotion for men, and how life's lessons can unveil the peace hiding behind it.

We then shifted our focus to the glaring gaps in sex education and its repercussions on society. From the lack of gender inclusivity to the stigmas surrounding sexual discussions, we shed light on the pressing need for comprehensive sex education. We talked about our experiences, the fear of broaching the subject with parents or adults and the invaluable benefits of mandatory sex ed classes. Our conversation then turned to the echoes of past relationships, the patterns we unknowingly replicate from our parents, and the journey towards understanding that healthy relationships don't have to be a constant battleground.

As we wrapped up, our dialogue ventured into uncharted territories of risk-taking, self-love, and body confidence. We shared our experiences of finding love on a structured date through a dating app, and how our relationship flourished even during the pandemic. We talked about our evolution of understanding manhood, the challenges we faced, and our interactions with homelessness. Finally, we concluded with an inspiring discussion about embracing our bodies and fostering open communication - elements that have shaped our rewarding and fulfilling relationships. Listen in to our engaging and thought-provoking conversation. You just might discover a new perspective on personal growth, relationships, or sex education.

Social Media:

@thehottubmanltd

@hailey.sutherland_

Timestamps:

(02:26 - 03:42) The Restriction on Male Emotion

(11:35 - 13:32) Challenges of Divorce and Abuse

(30:42 - 32:09) Inclusive Sex Education With Separate Classes

(43:00 - 44:16) Complexities of Relationships and Parental Influence

(50:05 - 51:26) Parent's Alcohol Problem

(54:05 - 54:36) How We Met on Tinder

(57:08 - 58:20) Initial Doubt Overturned by Intrigue

(01:05:05 - 01:05:50) Moving in Together After Tough Times

(01:08:02 - 01:09:08) Homelessness and Struggles With Shelters

(01:10:59 - 01:12:39) Changing Perception of a Good Man

Keywords:

Male Emotions, Societal Norms, Sex Education, Gender Inclusivity, Parental Patterns, Father Resentment, Structured Dates, Perception of Manhood, Homelessness, Risk-Taking, Self-Love, Body Confidence, Open Communication, Relationship Impact, Adolescent Sexuality, Stigmas, Mandatory Sex Ed, Dating App, Comprehensive Sex Ed, Unlearning Social Norms, Embracing Bodies