You don’t need anyone’s permission to simply be yourself. You don’t need anyone’s permission to embark on a new journey of self discovery. You don’t need anyone’s permission to better your life. You don’t need someone’s permission to go after your dreams. Stop waiting for permission and give it to yourself! Ask yourself, who am I to not listen and trust the voice from within? Who am I to deny myself more??

When it comes to going after your dreams, creating your dream business, or even simply wanting to improve your life, there is no “right” way to go about it, only your way. But if you’re trying to do all the things that someone else is telling you to do, without any insight of your own, you won’t reach the goals you desire. Just because someone created success a certain way, does not mean that it will work for you. I feel like this is one of the areas where the coaching industry drops the ball, unfortunately, some coaches out there don’t leave any room for individuals to trust themselves and come up with their own way. So don’t continue to question how you’re doing things, if it feels right for you, just do it! There are no rules when it comes to personal development and making the world a better place!

We all have them! And unfortunately what can happen as we dwell on our weaknesses. We try to improve our weaknesses when what we should do is build on our strengths. When we try to improve our weaknesses, it is such a steep incline it can leave us feeling hopeless and defeated. However, if we focus on our already amazing strengths and build on that, our confidence soars, we move closer and closer into alignment with who we truly are, and we can reach our goals much quicker. So identify your strengths?? They are part of what makes you unique!

I can tell when I’ve made a decision from a space of ego vs. my own intuition, not always right away, but I usually end up disliking that decision. That’s because it’s not aligned with my truth. One of the best ways to tap into your intuition for answers is to ask a question (bonus if you write it down) before bed and then fall asleep with an open heart and mind for an answer of some sort to reveal itself. Don’t get discouraged if nothing happens, you may get your answer later in a different way. Just start opening your mind to the voice of your intuition. Another great way is to hop in the car and let your mind go. In both of these scenarios, make sure that you’ve got a notebook handy so that you can write down these thoughtbombs as they appear. No matter how many times you tell yourself that you’ll remember, you will not!

So many times when we reach a certain levels of success something will come up and sabotage it and cause us to doubt ourselves and our our own unique gifts. When we were unaware that this is exactly what’s happening, we often give up on what it was that we were pursuing. We see it as a sign that we were heading in the wrong direction, unfortunately most often it means we were actually heading in the right direction. So look back on your own life and see if you can pinpoint times when you hit your upper limit. And moving forward start paying attention to those times that things are going really good, what resistance is showing up for you? Ask yourself, could this be an upper limit problem? Nine times out of 10 it will be, and then make the decision to keep forging forward anyways.

If you do these two things you are lowering your vibration. We are energy beings, so it is of the utmost importance that we do our absolute best to keep our vibes high. I’m sharing today, two specific ways you may be lowering your vibration if unaware. And hey, give yourself some grace if you are, we’re only human. But now that we know, we can work on getting better at avoiding these, okay?? Tune in!!

When it comes to following our heart, tuning into our calling, and going after our dreams…often our significant other is not on the same page. This is a very delicate topic for so many because it’s extremely vulnerable to talk about. I always knew I wasn’t living in alignment with my true calling, my highest self. But when I went out searching for it, I wasn’t thinking straight. I was making poor choice after poor choice because I was so desperate to figure it out. When we make decisions out of a state of desperation, the consequences can be tumultuous and our partners, or significant others, will lose faith in us. This can cause resentment, frustration, and anger, and when we place the blame on them, we won’t see the answers right in front of us. EVERYONE SUFFERS!!!! When I finally made a decision to completely take responsibility and realized that it was actually my lack of unconditional love and integrity for myself, I got to work on what REALLY NEEDED TO BE DONE...and that was to turn inward, to get honest with myself, and to heal from the inside out. The more I got to work on myself, the more my outer world began to change. The less I blamed my circumstances on other people, the more my outer world changed.

It’s easy to think that we’re not striving for perfection, but often we are in some form or another. Perfection can be different from one individual to another. For some of us, it’s who we think we need to be around certain people. It’s literally a suffocation of the soul. Give yourself permission to be yourself, even during those times when you think you need to put on a mask. Be yourself, and watch what it does to the people around you. Don’t be afraid to be imperfectly you!

If you’re like me, you have waaay more going on in your head than you’re bringing into the world. It’s time to knock that sh*t off. This is what has helped me - get yourself a calendar with 15 minute increments and hi-lite all your different priorities with different colors. This will help you organize your day. STICK TO IT! When it’s family time, be with your family. Not in your business. When it’s time for content creation, be in the flow of creating content. Also, if you need to be creative, mark off a section to just BE creative so that you can utilize that side of you without feeling depleted. #yougotthis

How we wake up every morning is how we go about our day! So how do you wake up? What sort of thoughts do you have? Are they negative and heavy? Let’s change that if they are by doing a little prep work before bed. Wake up ready for the day so you can shine how you were meant to shine!!