Your Mind, Your Rules - with Marisa Peer

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How do you stop chasing love, approval, and worthiness, and finally feel enough exactly as you are? 

In this deeply moving conversation, Marisa Peer sits down with Najwa Zebian, bestselling author, poet, and one of the most thoughtful voices on healing, boundaries, and self-worth, to explore where the belief "I'm not worthy of love" really comes from, and how to reprogram it for good.

Together they trace how childhood wounds shape the roles we play into adulthood (the sick one, the brilliant one, the carer, the rebel), why the people who hurt you can't be the ones to heal you, and how to become the loving parent your inner child never had. Marisa then guides Najwa, and you, through a live inner-child reparenting visualization, showing exactly how to make love familiar so your brain stops rejecting it.

Whether you struggle to receive love, over-give, or accept "crumbs" when you deserve more, this conversation will help you understand that you were born worthy of love, and that reclaiming that belief is the one change that lets real love find you.

This video is part of Marisa Peer's series of conversations with world-class experts in personal development, mindset, and wellbeing.

Marisa Peer is a world-renowned therapist, global speaker, bestselling author and leading authority on mindset and transformational therapy. With over 40 years' experience working with CEOs, celebrities and Olympic athletes, she is the creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®), has trained almost 20,000 practitioners worldwide, and is founder of the global I Am Enough movement to help people build confidence and self-worth.

Chapters:

[0:00] Why you were only meant to climb your mountains, not carry them
[2:40] The earliest wound: being left out
[5:30] Why the people who broke you can't heal you
[7:12] How a child makes meaning of pain
[14:54] Learning to stay small: "I'm too much"
[15:58] The night her appendix nearly burst, and no one came
[20:47] The 4 roles children play to earn love: sick, brilliant, carer, rebel
[29:05] Can you heal while you are still around the people who hurt you?
[32:20] The chocolate pattern: why we repeat what we know
[35:39] Forgetting vs. changing - your relationship with the past
[36:36] Forgiveness without forgetting
[43:39] How this shows up in love: accepting "crumbs"
[48:10] Leaving Lebanon for Canada as a teenager
[52:24] Perfection, loneliness, and the pull of the familiar
[53:16] Why the brain wants what's familiar, even when it hurts
[59:15] Live inner-child reparenting visualization begins
[1:13:58] Making love familiar: the "two toothbrushes" method
[1:26:59] You're already whole: you're not looking for your other half
[1:32:03] Born worthy of love: reactivating what you forgot

Connect with Najwa Zebian:

Instagram: @najwazebian
Website: https://najwazebian.com

Najwa's books, available on Amazon and all major bookstores (latest title: The One Who Broke You Can't Heal You)

Connect with Marisa Peer:

Website: https://www.marisapeer.com
Buy Your Mind Your Rules: https://smarturl.it/u3hAnQ
Instagram: @marisapeertherapy

Learn more about Rapid Transformational Therapy® and Training at: https://www.rtt.com

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In this powerful conversation Marisa Peer sits down with "Fame Maker" Sheeraz Hasan, the strategist behind some of the world's biggest celebrities, including Kim Kardashian and Zendaya. He reveals what fame really does to the mind: why it overrides love, how it breaks relationships, and the loneliness nobody talks about. If you've ever dreamed of being famous, watch this first.

What you'll learn:

• Why fame is more addictive than any chemical drug  and how it rewires your brain.
• The hidden cost: why so many famous people say "I'd be rich, but I wouldn't be famous."
• What Sheeraz told his own daughters when they said they wanted fame.
• The "I'm not enough" wound: how fame exploits the exact insecurity it promises to fix.
• Why AI is about to change fame forever (and how to survive it).
• The one thing that separates people who are destroyed by fame from those who thrive.

Timestamps: 

0:00 - The moment fame becomes an addiction. 

3:45 - Why people really chase fame (it's not what you think). 

7:20 - The heartbreaking reality of celebrity loneliness. 

12:10 - "80% of my clients think they're not enough" 

16:30 - What child stars teach us about the damage fame can do. 

21:00 - Relationships, family, and the partner test. 

26:15 - Sheeraz's warning to his own daughters. 

30:45 - AI, the death of traditional fame, and what comes next. 

35:20 - How to use fame for purpose (the only way that works).

Marisa Peer is a world-renowned therapist, global speaker, bestselling author and leading authority on mindset and transformational therapy. With over 40 years' experience working with CEOs, celebrities and Olympic athletes, she is the creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®), has trained almost 20,000 practitioners worldwide, and is founder of the global I Am Enough movement to help people build confidence and self-worth.

Connect with Marisa Peer: 

Website: https://marisapeer.com/

Buy Your Mind Your Rules: https://smarturl.it/u3hAnQ

Instagram: @marisapeertherapy

Learn more about Rapid Transformational Therapy® and Training at: https://www.rtt.com 

Connect with Sheeraz Hasan:

Website: https://www.famebysheeraz.com/

Instagram: @sheeraz

TikTok: @famebysheeraz

Rewire your mind. Redefine your success. Upgrade your life. Watch my video: https://link.rtt.com/ymyr-uyl-260628-pod

How do you go from brain burnout to living with purpose, energy, and abundance? In this powerful conversation, Marisa Peer sits down with Simon Ong, bestselling author of "Energize," award-winning coach, and international speaker to explore how personal energy, mindset, and the words you use shape the life you create.

Whether you're feeling stuck, burnt out, or searching for deeper meaning, this conversation will help you understand what personal energy really is, how your words shape your reality, and how to step into the life you're truly capable of. This video is part of Marisa Peer's series of conversations with world-class experts in personal development, mindset, and wellbeing.

Marisa Peer is a world-renowned therapist, global speaker, bestselling author and leading authority on mindset and transformational therapy. With over 40 years' experience working with CEOs, celebrities and Olympic athletes, she is the creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®), has trained almost 20,000 practitioners worldwide, and is founder of the global I Am Enough movement to help people build confidence and self-worth.

Chapters:
0:27 - Simon's burnout & leaving finance
4:45 - The fear of following your heart
6:49 - Rock bottom: Escapes & wake-up calls
9:46 - Losing his mother at 17
10:57 - Your life partner is your biggest decision
12:32 - The question that changed everything
14:42 - Transitioning to coaching
18:20 - The four types of energy
19:43 - The gratitude exercise
22:53 - "Your problem is someone's fantasy"
24:32 - Physical energy
26:13 - The energy of words: "Wanting" vs. "Requiring"
28:32 - Language traps that hold you back
31:27 - "What would it look like if it were easy?"
33:14 - Pronoia: The universe is working in your favor
35:46 - Pain paired with reflection = purpose
36:37 - Success and failure aren't opposites
38:08 - The story behind "Energize"
1:17:34 - Where to get the book
1:18:00 - Simon's channels & newsletter

Connect with Simon Ong: 
Instagram: @simonalexandero
Website: https://simonalexanderong.com/
Simon's book: "Energize" - available on Amazon and all major bookstores 

Connect with Marisa Peer: Website: 
Buy Your Mind Your Rules: https://smarturl.it/u3hAnQ
https://www.marisapeer.com Instagram: @marisapeertherapy
Learn more about Rapid Transformational Therapy® and Training at: https://www.rtt.com 

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Keywords: Simon Ong, Marisa Peer, personal energy, burnout recovery, mindset shift, self improvement, personal development, success mindset, manifestation techniques, law of attraction, gratitude practice, imposter syndrome, life coaching advice, words have power, Rapid Transformational Therapy, RTT, overcoming burnout, personal growth journey, energy management, mindset transformation

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This episode of Your Mind, Your Rules features Hal Elrod, best-selling author and creator of The Miracle Morning, on surviving the unsurvivable and the daily routine he credits with saving his life twice.

At twenty, Hal was hit by a drunk driver at seventy miles an hour. His heart stopped for six minutes and he was told he would never walk again. He walked in three weeks. Seventeen years later he was given a thirty percent chance of surviving an aggressive cancer. He is remarkably open about the exact rules he used to come back from both.

In this episode:

The morning routine practiced by millions, and the six practices behind it

The five minute rule that moves you through any setback without staying stuck

Why "do the right thing, not the easy thing" shaped his entire life

The right way to do affirmations, and why most people do them backwards

How the words that follow "I am" go on to write your life

Why you should never call it "my" illness

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

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This episode of Your Mind, Your Rules features Sara Al Madani — Emirati serial entrepreneur, public speaker, author and single mother who runs nine companies and started her first business at just fifteen. Marisa sits down with one of the most fearless rule-breakers she's ever met for an honest conversation about self-worth, success, healing, and raising kids in a world that pressures everyone to fit in.

Sara opens up about being the "black sheep" who never belonged, why she gives herself full permission to be judged, and the moment she realised she'd spent years giving for love instead of from love. She and Marisa break down why hustle culture is really just buying your own jail, why your ego is "just fear wearing a crown," and how Sara came off 45 pills a day and healed an autoimmune condition once she finally learned to love herself. They go deep on trauma bonding, why you keep attracting the same partner, the truth about raising boys without a father, and the simple rules Sara lives by in business and in life.

Plus a very special guest joins towards the end, so stay tuned until the end for a powerful exercise on how we cover up our light, and how to get it back.

In this episode:

Why giving "for love" instead of "from love" quietly destroys you

The reason hustle culture is really just buying your own jail

Why your ego is just fear wearing a crown

How Sara healed herself off 45 pills a day by changing one belief

What trauma bonding really is — and why it feels like fate Why you keep attracting the same toxic partner

The truth about raising boys in a fatherless world

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

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This episode of Your Mind, Your Rules features Anna Richardson, broadcaster, format creator and presenter of Naked Attraction, on acceptance, reinvention, and why chasing perfection is the fastest route to loneliness.

Anna has spent over 30 years in television, splitting her career between production, format creation and presenting. She also lost everything two decades ago and had to rebuild from nothing — and in this conversation she's remarkably open about how she did it.

In this episode:

Why perfection is the shortcut to loneliness, and how vulnerability is what actually connects us

The childhood moment at four that turned food into love, and the single session that changed it

How Anna lost everything and rebuilt her career using the "bounce back factor"

Why you never hear a denial, you only hear a delay

The four roles we all play to feel loved: the sick one, the brilliant one, the carer and the rebel 

Why labels are limiting, and the only label that should ever matter

The belief 90% of people carry that they're "not enough" — and why it was never true

Why your thoughts aren't facts, no matter how real they feel

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

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This episode of Your Mind, Your Rules features Tim Gray, biohacker, health optimisation strategist and founder of the Health Optimisation Summit, on the simple rules that govern longevity, repair, and how the mind shapes the body.

Tim explains why most people are doing biohacking the wrong way, the handful of free habits that matter more than any supplement, and the one-word change Marisa says is worth the whole conversation: stop calling it sleep, start calling it repair. The conversation goes deep into why men's testosterone is half what it was in 1975, why loneliness is the number one predictor of an early death, and how your psychology is constantly talking to your biology.

In this episode:

Why sleep isn't sleep

The free habits that matter more than any supplement

The real reason men's testosterone has dropped since 1975 Why loneliness cuts your lifespan more than anything else

How your psychology talks to your biology every day

The one thing you cannot supplement your way out of

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

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In this episode of Your Mind, Your Rules, Julia Bradbury, beloved TV presenter and Sunday Times bestselling author of Walk Yourself Healthy, opens up about the lessons that changed everything after her breast cancer diagnosis, the free daily practices that anyone can use to feel better in their body, and the simple shifts that quietly transform long term health.

Julia and Marisa share what two cancer journeys taught them about how the body actually heals, why so much of what passes for standard advice is making people sicker, and the surprising things being handed out in hospitals around the world that nobody is questioning. The conversation goes deep into how the mind talks to the body, why words have a measurable physical effect, and the morning routine Julia now swears by.

There's also the one sentence Marisa gave to repeat every day to anyone wanting to take their health back, and the science behind why it actually works.

In this episode:

The free daily practices that quietly transform long term health

What sugar really does to the body at a cellular level

Why the words you use about your health change your biology

The morning routine that resets your hormones for the day

How the mind can be trained to heal the body

The simple shift that turns illness thinking into wellness thinking

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

Rewire your mind. Redefine your success. Upgrade your life. Watch my video: https://link.rtt.com/ymyr-uyl-260510-pod

Get your copy of Your Mind, Your Rules here: https://smarturl.it/u3hAnQ

This episode of Your Mind, Your Rules features Caroline Stanbury, Real Housewives of Dubai star, entrepreneur and podcaster, alongside her husband Sergio Carrallo, former Real Madrid footballer, on the rules behind a relationship that lasts and a life rebuilt from nothing.

Caroline opens up about the moment she stopped caring what people think, why it's a skill that has to be learned, and how she rebuilt everything after a divorce, a court case and losing it all. She and Marisa go deep into the three non-negotiables every lasting relationship needs, why best friend chemistry is the glue most couples are missing, and how she and Sergio make it work across a twenty year age gap.

There's also the conversation every aspiring entrepreneur needs to hear. Caroline lays out the exact rules behind eleven successful businesses, why manifesting without action keeps people stuck, and the principle most successful people follow that nobody talks about. Sergio shares the daily morning practice that keeps him moving toward his goals, and the two of them redefine what success actually means once you have it.

In this episode:

The skill of no longer caring what people think

The three non-negotiable rules every lasting relationship needs

Why scheduling intimacy can save a marriage, not kill it

The exact mindset behind rebuilding a life from nothing

The unspoken rule that separates successful people from everyone else

Why peace, not money, is the real definition of success

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.

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In this episode of Your Mind, Your Rules, Mona Kattan, the self made founder behind one of the world's most loved fragrance houses, opens up about the mindset that took her from nothing to building a global empire, the rules she had to break along the way, and the one mistake that almost cost her everything.

Mona shares the moment at 13 that changed the entire trajectory of her life, the belief she had to install before anyone else would believe in her, and the three rules she'd give any woman who wants to build something real. There's also a deeply honest conversation about the chapter she now regrets, the period where she suppressed something most ambitious women are told to hide, and what happened the moment she stopped.

The conversation goes deep into why hard work alone is not enough, why authenticity outperforms strategy, and the energy every successful woman eventually has to come back to.

In this episode:

The self made mindset that builds real wealth from nothing

Why 80 percent of success is something you can't see

The three rules every woman in business needs to know

The belief that makes people pay you what you're worth

The trap most ambitious women fall into without realising

The shift that brought Mona's intuition and clarity back

This is part of the Your Mind, Your Rules podcast, focused on helping you understand the patterns and beliefs that shape your results and how to change them.