In this reflecting I share my personal struggle with dating and friendship as relating to feminism, entrepreneurship, and physical play. The core conflict deals with location and deciding to privilege my work or my heart.

In this reflection I talk about different ways of recognizing and dealing with bullying behavior. I come from a personal perspective and a professional one. In this reflection, I also consider different reactions to bullies based on Enneagram Type 8 and Enneagram Type 5.

In this reflection I talk more about masterminding and challenges related to volunteerism, social justice, and personal development. Also in this reflection is a conversation on (dis)comfort with my two cognitive pairings: NiSe and TeFi.

This reflection starts and end with a conversation about how INTJs can or cannot connect to FPs (people with Fi in the top of their stack); however, in the middle I talk about a number of (non)related topics: 1) learning theory and deep learning; 2) NT observation versus action; and 3) TeFi dynamics. In all, it is a reflection that explores Te as middle function between Ni and Fi.

In this reflection, I talk about my relationship to self preservation (and the instinctual stack) as an Enneagram 8 and an INTJ. This is a reflection that is more about me figuring it out than it is about me reporting it out. I end with an argument that personality is not seasonal. I posit that it is trans-seasonal and requires data from multiple time periods to understand.

TRIGGER WARNING: In this reflection I talk about murder, death and dying and how I process (or not process) emotions around death as an INTJ. In this reflection, I also try to isolate each cognitive function of my stack to help me understand why I react the way I do when someone I know passes away.

In this reflection I talk both about being strong Te as an introvert and about Fi challenges when my Te is parked.