What happens when the unimaginable becomes your greatest teacher?
In this deeply moving episode of Your Soulful Career Calling, I sit down with entrepreneur, author, and legacy builder Nikki Mark — a woman whose story will crack your heart open and then quietly put it back together again.
In 2018, Nikki lost her 12-year-old son, Tommy, suddenly and without warning. And in the aftermath of that grief — raw, disorienting, and all-consuming — she did something remarkable. She reached back into the skills she had spent 20+ years building as a startup founder, and she began to rebuild. Not the life she had before. Something new. Something purposeful. Something that would carry Tommy's name and spirit forward for generations.
What you'll discover in this episode:
What Nikki found in her darkest season is something so many of us are searching for — a reason to keep going, a way to turn pain into purpose, and the courage to take one small step even when the path forward is completely invisible.
Her journey began with a single email to the city of Los Angeles about building a soccer field in Tommy's honor. That one act of love has since grown into the TM23 Foundation and Tommy's Fields — four community play spaces built to bring joy to kids who need it most, all in memory of a boy whose greatest gift was his spirit of play.
But this episode goes far beyond one extraordinary story. Nikki shares something that will shift the way you think about healing, purpose, and what it means to move through the hardest parts of life with hope:
Play is medicine. Not just for kids — for all of us. Especially in grief. Nikki walks us through the science and the soul of why play "unfreezes" the brain during loss, and how simple acts — a walk in nature, a paintbrush, a moment of curiosity — can become the first thread of a new life.
She also shares one of the most powerful reframes I've ever heard on this podcast: the thing you miss most in your deepest pain is often the exact answer for how to move forward. Lean into the loss. The light is hiding there.
Whether you are navigating personal grief, searching for your life's purpose, raising a child through hardship, or simply trying to find meaning in a season that feels impossible — Nikki's story is your permission slip to begin again.
This is what soulful, purpose-driven living actually looks like. Not perfect. Not painless. But deeply, courageously alive.
Connect with Kasi:
IG - SoulfulCareerCalling
Website - www.careerquestinc.com
Email - [email protected]
Connect with Nikki:
TM23 Foundation website: www.tm23foundation.org
IG - healingwithnikki
Website - Nikkimark.com
Tommy's Field Book - can be found and purchased on Amazon