There’s still a lot of mystery around what a wedding planner actually does—and it’s no surprise when there are so many roles that sound similar: venue coordinators, wedding coordinators, event planners… it’s easy to get confused.

In this episode, I walk you through the full process of what it looks like to work with a wedding planner (me!), from that very first enquiry, through planning, the big day itself, and even what happens after the wedding.

Whether you’re undecided about hiring a planner or just curious what we actually do, this one’s for you!

In this episode, Abby covers:

💌 What happens when you first enquire

📝 What the planning process really involves

📊 Budget support and supplier research

📋 How she runs your day from behind the scenes

💖 What support looks like after the wedding too

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Do I really need a wedding planner?”—this episode might just shift your perspective.

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Choosing your venue is one of the biggest decisions you will make for your wedding. It’s not just about what the venue looks like – it’s about what it offers behind the scenes too.

There are different types of wedding venues – and today, we’re breaking down the difference between dry hire and full service venues to help you decide what’s right for your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🏛️ The difference between dry hire and full service wedding venues

🪵 What’s actually included with dry hire venues (and what’s not!)

🛎️ What you can expect from full service venues

✅ The pros and cons of both venue types

🤔 How to decide which option is right for your wedding

💡 A key reminder if you’re going for a dry hire space

📋 Why confirming exactly what’s included is essential — for any venue

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Your ceremony is done, you're officially married... and then what? The drinks reception is one of the most overlooked parts of a wedding day - but it shouldn't be. This is your first real party moment and the perfect time for guests to relax, connect, and celebrate your love story.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to avoid the awkward “standing around waiting” energy and instead create a drinks reception that flows, feels joyful, and reflects you.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🍹 Why your drinks reception deserves more love

🎶 Ways to create a vibe that feels fun and welcoming

🍕 Food and drink essentials (no one wants hangry guests)

🎨 Creative extras to make it memorable – from live music to tattoo artists

📸 How to balance mingling, photos, and guest experience

💡 Fun twists on tradition like doing speeches or cake-cutting early

What are you planning for your drinks reception?

I’d love to hear your ideas - message me on Instagram or email in your stories!

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Guest outfits might not be the first thing on your planning list — but they can influence the vibe, look, and feel of your day. And when it comes to things like white dresses, practical footwear, or someone wanting to match your bridesmaids... it’s worth thinking about it early.

In this episode, Abby covers:

👗 Whether you can or should ask guests to dress a certain way

🎨 How to use colour palettes to guide outfit choices without being restrictive

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to ask people not to wear white (yes, still!)

💬 What to do when someone wants to match your wedding party

❌ The big “don’ts” when it comes to dress codes

💖 How to make kind outfit suggestions while still holding your vision

Whether you're planning a barefoot beach day or a formal black-tie affair, this episode gives you tips on how to approach outfit requests kindly but clearly — without becoming a wedding dictator 👀

✨ The takeaway? You can have opinions on your guests' outfits... but flexibility, visuals, and thoughtful language go a long way.

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Before you fall in love with the aesthetic or book based on vibes alone, there are a lot of important questions to ask your venue. From what’s actually included in the hire price to noise restrictions and contingency plans - these are the things that can make or break your wedding day behind the scenes.

In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, I’m sharing essential questions to ask before you book your wedding venue, especially the ones you might not have even considered yet.

Asking the right questions upfront isn’t being “difficult” - it’s smart, and it saves you from stress (and surprise costs) later down the line.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 What’s usually included in your venue hire - and what’s not

📋 Why you need to understand supplier rules and styling restrictions

🕐 Access times, setup allowances, and exclusive-use options

🏡 Venue accommodation and nearby guest options

🧑‍💼 The difference between venue coordinators and planners

🌧️ What to ask about contingency plans (hello, British weather)

🔇 Sound curfews, children, pets, renovations, and more

✨ Remember: your venue is likely the biggest cost in your wedding budget - you deserve to have all the information.

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In this episode, Abby dives into a topic that almost every couple experiences — comparison. With Pinterest boards, wedding TikToks, and well-meaning friends in your ear, it’s easy to feel like your day needs to be bigger, better, or more... but let’s take a breath. Comparison doesn’t just create stress — it actually steals joy from your own, beautiful experience.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why comparison is so common during wedding planning

📱 How to quiet the noise (including when to log off social media)

🌟 Finding your wow-factor — not someone else's

💬 How to redirect unhelpful conversations with loved ones

🧠 Shifting your mindset back to what really matters

💖 Why pleasing everyone shouldn’t be your goal

Remember: comparison is the thief of joy, and you deserve to enjoy every second of planning this day — your way.

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In Episode 28 of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby is here to give you the pep talk (and practical plan) you need if you're feeling behind on your wedding planning. Whether you're genuinely short on time or just overwhelmed by the to-do list, this episode will help you get unstuck and moving forward again - with confidence and calm.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 The difference between actually being behind and just feeling like you are

📆 How to assess your current planning progress

📝 What to do if you’ve only got a few months to go and still lots to do

💡 Reasons you might feel behind (like comparison, overwhelm or decision fatigue)

🎯 How to get back on track with checklists, priorities and mini planning sessions

🧠 The importance of resetting your mindset, not just your plans

🤝 Why it's okay (and smart!) to ask for help when you need it

Whether you need to shift gears or just shift your mindset, this episode will help you breathe, reset, and fall back in love with your planning journey. You’ve got this 💕

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Planning a wedding can feel like a giant to-do list, and one of the biggest questions I get asked is: what should we book first? In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, I’m sharing exactly what to prioritise early in the planning process – and what can definitely wait.

Whether you’re just starting or feeling a bit overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions, I’ll help you figure out what really matters first and how to pace yourself. Let’s take the pressure off and get your planning timeline working for you!

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

💒 Why there’s no single “right” order to plan a wedding

📋 What to book first – venues, guest list, catering, and photographers

🕰 The planning elements that can wait until later

🤝 When it’s worth bringing a wedding planner on board

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch shares her top five strategies for getting unstuck when wedding planning starts to feel overwhelming or directionless. Whether you're frozen by too many decisions, stuck in comparison mode, or just mentally drained, this episode is your gentle nudge forward. Abby reminds you that it’s totally normal to feel stuck at times—and that with a few simple mindset resets, you can start moving again with clarity and confidence. 💛

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Bringing it back to your original vision and why

🧩 Focusing on one decision or task at a time

🚫 Cutting off the constant flow of inspiration

🗣️ Talking it out with someone who gets it

🌿 Taking a guilt-free break to reset

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch tackles the big question: do you really need a wedding theme? Spoiler alert – yes, but not in the traditional “Star Wars or Disney” sense. Abby unpacks why consistency in your styling choices is key to creating a wedding that feels cohesive, polished, and elevated. She shares practical ways to define your vibe (without ever saying “theme” if that makes you squirm), like choosing three guiding words or creating a mood board. Whether you’re going full Beauty and the Beast or just want “romantic garden party with a modern twist,” this episode is packed with advice to help you stay on track and make intentional choices that wow your guests.

In this episode, Abby covers:

✨ Why the word theme puts people off – and how to think of it differently

🎨 How a clear vibe or aesthetic brings cohesion and a high-end feel

🖼 Tips for choosing and sticking to your wedding vision

👑 Real-life examples of how your styling influences decisions like food, layout and experience

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