Ever wondered what it's like to have an empty house after years of parenting? We're diving into that experience and more in this candid conversation about marriage, family, and personal growth.

We kick things off by sharing our recent adventure - a week with no kids at home for the first time in 24 years! It's a strange preview of what's to come, and we're unpacking all the emotions that come with it.

We explore a powerful concept: "Conflict is inevitable, destructive conflict is a choice." This leads us to discuss:

Join us for this heartfelt discussion about the realities of long-term relationships, parenting, and personal growth. Whether you're newlyweds, empty nesters, or somewhere in between, there's something here for everyone.

Remember, we're all figuring this out together. So grab a snack, settle in, and let's explore what it really means to do life together. 

Ever wonder what marriage advice stands the test of time? Join us as we journey back to the beginning of our 25-year marriage and unpack some of the wisdom that's shaped our relationship. From biblical guidance to practical tips, we're pulling back the curtain on what it really means to build a lasting connection.

We dive into the fascinating dual meaning of "cleave" in the Bible and how it applies to modern marriages. Discover why:

Remember those early dating days when you couldn't stop asking, "What do you want to do?" We explore:

We share a piece of wisdom from a church leader about how our perception changes over time. Learn about:

Throughout our conversation, we weave in personal anecdotes, from our daughter's adventures in France to planning weddings and trying new foods. We also touch on the realities of giving your all in a relationship, even when your "all" might only be 10% on a tough day.

So grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and join us for some real talk about marriage. Because whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, there's always room to grow, learn, and love better. 

Ever wondered what it's like to recover from surgery while on a family adventure? Join us as we share our recent experience of traveling to West Virginia just days after Wes's hernia operation. We'll explore the unexpected joys and challenges that came with this spontaneous journey.

Remember, we're all on this journey together. Whether you're recovering from surgery, navigating family dynamics, or simply trying to spread more love in the world, you're stronger than you think. So let's embrace life's messy, beautiful moments and create a more loving world - one small act at a time. 

Ever wonder what it's like to navigate parenthood, marriage, and life's unexpected twists all at once? Join us for a heartwarming Father's Day special as we share our adventures from an impromptu trip to West Virginia - all while Wes recovers from recent surgery!

We're joined by a special guest - our adorable grandson Luka - who adds his own brand of cuteness to our conversation. Plus, hear from our daughter Myah as she shares her perspective on what she's learned from her dad.

From heartfelt moments to laugh-out-loud stories, this episode is a celebration of fatherhood in all its messy, beautiful glory. Whether you're a parent, a child, or simply curious about family dynamics, there's something here for everyone.

So grab a cup of hot chocolate, settle in, and join us for a raw, honest conversation about the joys and challenges of being a dad. Because at the end of the day, we're all just trying to figure out this crazy thing called life - and we're stronger when we do it together. 

Ever wonder what goes on behind the scenes of a podcast? In this episode, we pull back the curtain and give you a glimpse into our world - the good, the bad, and the hilariously imperfect.

We start by sharing our adventure at Disney's Hollywood Studios, where we got a sneak peek at the new villains show. From front-row encounters with Cruella and Maleficent to indulging in the famous Cobb salad at the Brown Derby, we explore how even small moments can bring light to our days.

We wrap up with a heartfelt invitation to our listeners: Remember, you're walking this path with us. You're so much stronger than you think, especially when you have someone helping you along the way.

So grab a cup of coffee (or maybe some gelato), settle in, and join us for a raw, honest conversation about marriage, mental health, and finding light in the everyday moments of life. 

How do you fight in marriage without actually fighting?

In this honest and hilarious episode, Sarah and Wes get real about communication, conflict, and how 25 years of marriage—and six kids—have totally changed the way they work through tough moments (including who gets the blanket 🛏️).

They explore:

How to avoid turning every disagreement into a war

Why staying quiet can sometimes be the most loving response

How NOT to involve friends in your marriage drama

What it means to choose each other again and again—even on the hard days

You’ll laugh. You’ll feel seen. You might even stop stealing the covers. 😉

Listen in if you’ve ever...

Shut down instead of speaking up

Needed to win an argument (even a dumb one)

Felt emotionally misunderstood in your relationship

Wished your partner could just get you without the drama

🎙️ This is real-life, real-marriage wisdom—with love, humor, and a whole lot of grace. 

💬 Have a funny fight story or moment of growth? DM us @sarahinoil5 or leave a review with your takeaway from the episode—we LOVE hearing from you. 

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What does unity in marriage and family actually look like—especially when you're raising six kids, navigating differences, and becoming grandparents?

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of You're Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes pull back the curtain on 25 years of marriage. They talk about:💬 What it was like watching their daughter become a mom🍰 The “cake” analogy for unity (yes, cake!)👶 How grandparenting changed their view of love❤️ The emotional truth of parenting, apologizing, and growing through hard moments💡 What unity is (and what it definitely isn’t)🎯 Why shared purpose matters more than perfect agreement

You’ll laugh, cry, and nod along as they share real stories, vulnerable insights, and a few surprise confessions.

👣 Whether you're dating, parenting, or grandparenting—this one’s for you.🧁 And don’t forget: be a cake.

⏰ Timestamps:00:00 – Welcome & intro: We’re live!01:00 – Why we’re talking about unity today05:45 – Becoming grandparents: the unexpected shift12:40 – How love evolves (and deepens) through generations18:22 – Unity ≠ agreement: what it really means in relationships22:30 – The “cake” metaphor for unity and diversity28:18 – Parenting with different backgrounds & shared purpose36:10 – What’s surprisingly wonderful about having kids41:40 – The hardest part of parenting (and how we handled it)47:55 – Real advice for couples & families who want to stay connected51:30 – Final thoughts: love, God, and being on the same team54:00 – Wrap-up: You’re doing it wrong—and we love it.

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As we wrap up, we invite you to join us in honoring the strong, tender women who make our world a better place. Whether you're a mother, a grandmother, or simply a woman making a difference, this episode is a heartfelt thank you for all that you do.

"We're grateful for mothers. We're grateful for women. Why don't we just call it Women's Day? Because that's really what it is."

Tune in for a celebration of love, legacy, and the beautiful tapestry of relationships that make us who we are. 

We're pulling back the curtain on our lives, and it's not always pretty. From cancer scares to financial struggles, we've weathered some serious storms. But here's the thing - we're still standing, and we're stronger than ever.

We get vulnerable about our fears, our doubts, and the moments that have tested our faith. But we also share the unexpected joys, the personal victories, and the profound ways our relationship has deepened through it all.

"We're not even the same people we were when we got married. We've been through surgeries, cancers, babies, death, moving, job changes... it's fascinating how much we've grown."

If you're feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges or wondering how to navigate major transitions, this episode is for you. We don't have all the answers, but we're figuring it out together - and we invite you to join us on this messy, beautiful journey.

Remember, you're stronger than you think. Let's walk this path together. 

Easter Sunday brings more than just chocolate eggs and bunny rabbits. It's a time for reflection, growth, and renewed perspective - especially in our relationships. In this episode, we explore how the spirit of Easter can teach us to love better, communicate more effectively, and navigate the ups and downs of marriage.

As we reflect on our own growth through this podcast journey, we invite you to join us in applying Easter's lessons of renewal, patience, and love to your own relationships. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, there's always room to love better.

"Those who wait with Jesus tend to get beautiful benefits and beautiful rewards."

So grab a leftover chocolate egg, settle in, and let's explore how Easter can transform not just our faith, but our marriages too.