What if you are the dating strategy!? 
In this 100th episode, Aliyah and Lauren flip the script: you’re the one you’ve been looking for, and the more you choose yourself, the clearer (and lighter) dating and relationships become.

If you’re tired of turning dating into a referendum on your worth… if you’re done performing, people-pleasing, or chasing “the rules”… and you’re ready to feel more grounded, confident, and magnetic in love — this one’s for you.

Listen if you want to explore:

• How to stop making dating self-worth math (“Why am I not chosen?” → “What’s aligned for me?”)

• How to break the cycle of self-judgment after dating disappointment (without shutting down)

• What aligned dating actually looks like when you’re not performing or chasing a persona

• How to avoid people-pleasing in dating and get honest about what’s a yes and what’s a no

• Why compatibility is about alignment, not proving your value

• Permission to desire: how to admit what you actually want in relationships (even if it scares you)

• How to build confidence in dating by choosing yourself before someone else does

• What it means to be authentic in relationships — and why integrity is magnetic

• How to fall more in love with your life (and why that energy changes everything about relating)

• Why relationships are mirrors (and how relationship patterns shift when you shift)

• Plus how to start a Special Sauce Journal to strengthen self-trust

Aliyah is hosting a free live online workshop:

The Most Magnetic You
March 21 at 10 a.m. PST
A live (not-a-webinar) workshop on aligned dating & relating, somatic embodiment, reflection work, and falling in love with your life — so dating gets lighter and relationships become a reflection of who you truly are.

Sign up here:

https://www.aliyahobrien.com/