Questions: what’s the difference between sacrifice and compromise, and which gender in relationship does more of both? What sacrifices should be made in a relationship? How important is sacrifice in relationships? How do you know if you're sacrificing too much in a relationship? What is the relationship between compromise and sacrifice? Who sacrifices more in a relationship? What does sacrifice mean in a relationship?

Questions: Are we just messed up people who needed extraordinary support to be normal? Agree or Disagree? Relationship entropy does not mean your marriage sucks or that you are a failure, it means you are human. True or False? In sexual relationships we are genetically programmed to habituate to a partner as our initial romantic infatuation fades over the first one to three years. True or False? Humans create routines, and relationship entropy often is the result.

Questions: Do Narcissists Turn Against Their Flying Monkeys? Are flying monkeys blind enablers? How to outsmart the flying monkey? In regard to narcissistic abuse, what exactly is a flying monkey? Do flying monkeys know they are being used? What is a flying monkey in psychological abuse? What is a flying monkey in psychology today? Who controls the flying monkeys? Do narcissists discard their flying monkeys? What happens if a narcissist cannot control the victim anymore despite sending flying monkeys also? True or False? “Flying Monkeys” are those who, knowingly or unknowingly, are recruited by the narcissist to serve their agenda, extending their influence and control beyond direct interactions. Do flying monkeys ever see the truth of the person the narc has abused? True or False? some flying monkeys begin to realize they were a participant in a target's abuse when the narcissist's true colors are revealed. Unfortunately, there will always be some flying monkeys who know this from the beginning but do not care due to their own pathology and motivations. Are flying monkeys agents of chaos or blind miscreants? What role does authenticity play in situational awareness when it comes to narcissistic relationship dynamics? How does egoic-based support of the narcissist work to simultaneously alienate the true victim and deteriorate amicable relationships? Are relationships recoverable if a person is unknowingly partaking in flying monkey behaviors? What does becoming a flying monkey indicate about your relationship with your authenticity? Are you cosplaying the do-gooder under the guise of fairness? How does one sided loyalty to narcissists impact one’s ability to operate as a work in progress? Do flying monkeys ever enjoy the spoils of war through validation, acknowledgment or get back? In what way does the justification of harm of the victim further dissolve the flying monkeys' already damaged perception of self? What connections can be drawn between relationship peonage, one sided loyalty and selling your soul to the narcissist?

1. Narcissism 2. Machiavellianism 3. Psychopathy 4. Lack of empathy 5. Manipulativeness 6. Deceitfulness 7. Grandiosity 8. Callousness 9. Impulsivity 10. Exploitativeness Questions: What are the big five traits of the dark triad? What is the dark triad personality attractiveness? How to identify dark triad personality? What cluster of traits does the Dark Triad describe? What are the vulnerable Dark Triad traits? How do you treat the Dark Triad personality? The dark triad personality refers to three negative personality traits, which all share malevolent features: Narcissism (entitled self-importance),Machiavellianism (strategic exploitation and deceit), Subclinical psychopathy (callousness and cynicism) - Reference: Simply Psychology • Narcissism is characterized by grandiosity, pride and ego. • Machiavellianism is characterized by a lack of empathy, manipulation and an indifference to morality • Psychopathy is characterized by impulsivity, callousness, and a lack of remorse. Much of these traits exist in a person’s ability and willingness to exploit, manipulate and utilize the perceived weaknesses of others in a bid to gain status, wealth, control and any other form of advancement. In the context of intimate relationships, the ultimate goal for a person with the dark triad personality, is control and dominance. The means to which someone is willing to go to gain control over another dictates not only the direction of the connection, but also the subsequent inner work needed to be done by both parties. What are some indicators that you or your partner may possess dark triad traits and what does this indicate about your relationships?

Questions: 1 True or False: People value the truth less than they value the perception of others. 2 Are lies more convenient than the truth? Can lying be considered a good decision in a relationship? 3 What motivates a person to speak uncomfortable truths? If a relationship ends over an inconvenient truth, is the truth teller in the wrong? 4 Which attachment style is most likely to lie? Are the lies we tell predicated upon unhealed childhood wounds? 5 Is there a difference between a good person’s mistake and a liar’s remorse? Do lies have to be compulsory in order for a person to be considered a “liar” or does the rule ‘once a liar, always a liar’ now stand? Is the Mask that people wear a complete Lie? What makes some people good liars and some people bad liars? Is being a good liar truly bad? Which Types of People Make the Best Liars? Are intelligent people good at lying? What Is the Difference Between a Pathological Liar and a Compulsive Liar?

Witchcraft is often associated with folklore, green women with pointy hats, spiritualism, tarot, etc., but an often overlooked aspect of witchcraft is intent and will. Whether in reference to spell work, gaslighting, deflection, stonewalling, or whatever other tactic you can think of, it’s important to note that the intent to manipulate and the power of will is always present. Similar to a street magician that deceives with a sleight of hand, a person operating in blind witchcraft may employ the same tactics, distracting you with one thing, while performing the true act beneath the surface. Is it possible to become so engrossed in manipulating someone that you deceive yourself or confuse your own motives in the process? What sorts of mental and spiritual gymnastics are involved in the bending and breaking of another’s will through coercion? Is self deception and/or madness the ultimate price to pay for doing so? Can a person unknowingly employ these tactics (i.e. witchcraft)? Are you in a relationship with a Blind Witch?

“A deeper inquiry at the potential negative effects of simply going through the motions in intimate relationships!” Questions: 1 Can “going through the motions” be considered a dissociated state of mind? What connections can be drawn between being on autopilot and CPTSD? Why is this phenomenon considered socially acceptable? 2 In what way does disconnection from our inner self mirror our disengagement with the external world (i.e. autopilot)? 3 What causes us to begin to see our partners as an extension of the trauma that we are seeking refuge from? Could this be the reason that we go on autopilot in the first place? 4 Is novelty viewed as an antidote to keep relationships from going on autopilot? 5 Are certain attachment styles more or less likely to remain in an autopilot phase? What are three things that contribute to people “going through the motions” and not ending failing relationships?

Novelty is defined as the quality of being new and/or original. Similar to the rush of excitement one feels when purchasing a new item, getting into a new relationship can have that same effect. The mind will perceive the new item/person as better than the previous thing, simply due to its novelty; but what happens when the newness wears off? Are we in a rush to end relationships out of the urge to have someone new? Do we avoid intimacy for the fear of our connections going stale? Is the grass ever greener on the other side? Why or why not?

Why do people conform? What is the strongest level of conformity? Does Love Require Complete Conformity? Regarding intimate relationships, what is the difference between conformity, & submission? What are three 3 types of conformity? What is the deepest form of conformity? What is inappropriate conformity? What connections can be drawn between conformity and the avoidance of inner work? How might conforming to society’s ideas surrounding dating keeping one from experiencing better relationships?

Why do people conform? What is the strongest level of conformity? Does Love Require Complete Conformity? Regarding intimate relationships, what is the difference between conformity, & submission? What are three 3 types of conformity? What is the deepest form of conformity? What is inappropriate conformity? What connections can be drawn between conformity and the avoidance of inner work? How might conforming to society’s ideas surrounding dating keeping one from experiencing better relationships?