The person in control of a scene or relationship is the single person who decides. There is only one Captain of a relationship, and many have emailed me regarding their frustrations with their partner claiming the benefits of being in a Ds relationship while not actually transferring real authority, and I discuss this as well, and mitigations.

Tags: Ds, Relationship Design

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