Dr. David Huebner returns to discuss critical research surrounding the alarming rates of HIV and other health risks faced by queer boys, emphasizing the importance of open communication between parents and their children. He shares insights from a recent study that highlights the role parents play in influencing the health and well-being of LGBTQ youth, particularly regarding sexual health education. The conversation explores how parents can better support their children by fostering strong relationships and being proactive in addressing minority stress. Huebner also introduces an innovative online toolkit designed to help parents effectively communicate about sexual health with their sons. This episode is a valuable resource for parents seeking to navigate these important discussions and ensure their children feel supported and understood.

Are you ready to rethink how we support our LGBTQ+ kids? This episode brings forth a critical conversation as we unravel the research of Dr. David Huebner. His latest work spotlights an alarming rise in the distress rates among children, especially queer youth. His comprehensive survey toolbox stems from his study on HIV among queer boys, and he enlightens us about the worrisome trends of escalated depression, substance use, and suicide among youngsters.

Now, the question is, how do we tackle these distressing trends? This conversation isn't just about understanding the problem, but about finding solutions as well. We explore how parents can adapt their behavior to provide better support for their LGBTQ+ kids. From advocating for their child's rights at school to encouraging self-expression, we share insights to guide parents. We also highlight the importance of open conversations about sexual health with your kids and the need to normalize these discussions.

We also share updates on his study and emphasize the importance of utilizing available resources to understand the risks faced by LGBTQ+ youth better. From education on laws to online toolkits like PATHS (Parents and Adolescents Talking About Healthy Sexuality), we discuss various avenues to help.

We hope this riveting conversation will inspire you to join us in raising and supporting LGBTQ+ kids in the best possible way.

Become a study participant with Dr. Huebner:

• Researchers at George Washington University are seeking parents with LGBTQ kids to participate in a paid research study.
• Your participation will help create resources to support families like yours.
• The resources they offer help parents be more supportive of their LGBTQ kids, including helping parents talk to kids about sex and HIV.
• If you qualify, you'll get free access to the parent resources.  Parents earn $350 for participating, and youth earn $175.
• To learn more and to see if you qualify, visit www.parentwithlove.org.

About our Guest:

Dr. David Huebner is a clinical psychologist and Professor of Prevention and Community Health at George Washington University. He has spent 20 years researching how parents influence the health of LGBTQ youth. He’s also a dad to an energetic, hysterical middle-school-aged son. You can learn more about his work by visiting www.parentwithlove.org.  

Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

Become a private client

Attend Friday Reflection LIVE on Substack - guided journaling and Q&A

Invite me to speak at your workshop or event

Receive a free excerpt and reflection guide from my book, Parenting with Pride.

Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!

Connect [email protected]

Watch on YouTube

Listen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate connection.

If you’re in the thick of parenting, allyship, or pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in—I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.

Takeaways:

• It's vital for parents to engage in ongoing conversations about sexuality with their children.
• Understanding minority stress helps parents support LGBTQ youth in navigating their identities.
• Research shows that parents can significantly impact their queer child's mental health positively.
• Creating a supportive environment reduces feelings of internalized homophobia for LGBTQ youth.
• Access to sexual health resources, like condoms, does not encourage sexual activity but promotes safety.
• The toolkit developed by Dr. Huebner's team aims to improve parent-child communication regarding sexual health.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• George Washington University
• GLSEN
• Parent with Love

More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive space where a mom and mental health advocate offers guidance on parenting with empathy, inclusion, love, and open-minded allyship, fostering growth, healing, connection, and empowerment within the LGBTQ community while addressing grief, boundaries, education, diversity, human rights, social justice, and the power of human kindness through a lens of ally support and community engagement.

This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:

Podder - https://www.podderapp.com/privacy-policy
Blubrry - https://create.blubrry.com/resources/about-blubrry/privacy-policy