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In this episode, Drs. Derek and Laura Cabrera of Cornell University unpack a powerful idea: stress is not just something that happens to you—it’s a reaction to the mental model you’re using to interpret what’s happening.

They explore how stress grows when we assume we can’t handle a situation, how anxiety comes from projecting those assumptions into the future, and why so much overwhelm is caused by conflating many separate concerns into one crushing mental knot. The conversation also dives into confirmation bias, the way past experiences shape present reactions, and how curiosity can help you pull apart the thoughts that are driving fear.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, trapped in worst-case-scenario thinking, or stuck carrying stress that feels bigger than the situation itself, this episode offers a clearer way to see what’s really going on—and how to respond more effectively.