A Blessing in Divorce

126: When you're not as angry as everyone thinks you should be

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There’s a quiet question many women ask after separation or divorce… but almost feel ashamed to say out loud:

“Is it okay that I’m okay?”

In this episode, we’re talking about the pressure to feel a certain way after a relationship ends - especially the idea that you should be more angry, more hurt, or more visibly broken.

Because what if your newfound peace isn’t avoidance… but truth?

We explore:

  • Why “everything and nothing is normal” during divorce

  • The conditioning around how women are supposed to feel after a breakup

  • Why not feeling anger doesn’t mean you’re weak

  • How grief often happens long before the relationship ends

  • The difference between numbness and completion

  • And how to start trusting your own emotional experience again

    This is a permission slip to stop performing pain… and start honouring what’s actually true for you.

    Links & Invitations mentioned:
    If this episode resonates, and you’re ready to feel more grounded, clear, and supported in your healing:

    • 🌿 1:1 Coaching → https://www.theseparationclub.com/workwithme 

    • 🤍 Rising Sisterhood Circle (weekly support & healing) → www.theseparationclub.com/membership 

    • 📱 Download the Rising Sisterhood App → https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp 

       

      Other resources/tools worth exploring:

      • Join our growing and healing circle of Rising Moon Sisters at one of our transformational retreats. We are waiting for you. Learn more: https://theseparationclub.com/retreats
      • Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
      • You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call 
      • Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist
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        • Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
        • You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
        • And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444 

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