The role that once saved you may now be suffocating you. Learn how survival roles form, why they keep you bracing, and how recalibration frees you to live from your true identity.

Some roles were never chosen — they were survival. You became the achiever to earn safety. The peacemaker to avoid conflict. The strong one because no one else could hold it together.

In one season, those roles protected you. But in this season, they’re suffocating. What once kept you safe now keeps you stuck.

In today’s episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly unpacks why survival roles develop, how to recognize them, and what to do when they no longer fit. Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and George Foreman’s remarkable story, this episode explores:

• Why survival roles often form in childhood when the brain hardwires coping into identity
  
  
• How to identify when a survival role is still running your life today
  
  
• What to do about survival roles: Name it. Honor it. Release it. Recalibrate.
  
  
• The difference between therapy, coaching, and ILR — and why recalibration is the only path to releasing survival roles at the root
  
  
• Why honoring your survival roles frees you to step into your true identity
  
  

Today’s Micro Recalibration:
Ask yourself: What role began as survival but is no longer true to me? Write it down. Thank it for what it carried. Then release it for what it can no longer carry.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by a role you didn’t even choose, this episode will help you see survival roles for what they are: evidence of resilience, but never your destiny.

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