Most people think personality traits—like confidence, patience, or staying calm under pressure—are things you’re either born with or not.

But the truth is, you don’t have to stay the way you are if you don’t want to.

First, you think about the kind of person you want to be.

Then you start doing the things that person would do.

And eventually, you become them.

It doesn’t happen by accident.

You train it.

And the repetition is what turns it from effort… into identity.

You can change into the person you want to be.

And it might be simpler than you think.